And to be fair I wasnt broke when I moved here and I was getting a pretty decent amount of box. Maybe I am just being to hard on myself.
The most fun you'll have in your life is when you're broke. You are forced to come up with creative ways to have a good time.
Buy a kite, get a puppy(optional), and head to Gulf Shores aka the Redneck Riviera. Neither of those are very expensive. If you see my sister down there, she'll be the screaming bitch, kick some sand at her!
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Quote Originally Posted by legwand:
And to be fair I wasnt broke when I moved here and I was getting a pretty decent amount of box. Maybe I am just being to hard on myself.
The most fun you'll have in your life is when you're broke. You are forced to come up with creative ways to have a good time.
Buy a kite, get a puppy(optional), and head to Gulf Shores aka the Redneck Riviera. Neither of those are very expensive. If you see my sister down there, she'll be the screaming bitch, kick some sand at her!
Consider going with an older woman. Women take care of themselves better now than ever and there are some high quality attractive cougars who would love to please a 35 yr old guy with hot sex and cooking as well. Add to that, a partner with brains who isn't a goldigging material person. Find an older babe.
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Consider going with an older woman. Women take care of themselves better now than ever and there are some high quality attractive cougars who would love to please a 35 yr old guy with hot sex and cooking as well. Add to that, a partner with brains who isn't a goldigging material person. Find an older babe.
living or marrige with someone just for sextaul desire would be a living hell after several months .don;t get married till you make sure you love someone .you can always buy some sex for a few bucks though .
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living or marrige with someone just for sextaul desire would be a living hell after several months .don;t get married till you make sure you love someone .you can always buy some sex for a few bucks though .
You need to improve your job situation but that's noteasy in this economy.
I've been to Mobile for a friends wedding -her dad owned several gas stations .. brutally hot in July .. soaked my suit just standing outside waiting to throw rice at them..
So you need to change your attitude .. attitude determines altitude my man .. stay positive .. you are a good guy ..
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You need to improve your job situation but that's noteasy in this economy.
I've been to Mobile for a friends wedding -her dad owned several gas stations .. brutally hot in July .. soaked my suit just standing outside waiting to throw rice at them..
So you need to change your attitude .. attitude determines altitude my man .. stay positive .. you are a good guy ..
What is your education / work background? Maybe people here can point you in the right direction.
I agree that you need to fix this first. Any serious quality female will not settle with somebody they don't feel they has at least potential for a better future.
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What is your education / work background? Maybe people here can point you in the right direction.
I agree that you need to fix this first. Any serious quality female will not settle with somebody they don't feel they has at least potential for a better future.
When I lived in Birmingham, there were all kinds of hotties. I then moved to Mobile and it got better! Where are you?
I spent 11 years in Mobile, and there was never a shortage of really good-looking women- I had an absolute blast- I think you are hanging out in the wrong places-
Forget downtown / Dauphin Street- there are more guys than girls there- Just a clusterfuck in my experience- more fights than fucks back in the day-
Try midtown (Crockmeier's or the like)-
West Mobile is pretty decent hunting ground, but you have to dodge the college kids- a number of late 20-early 30's professional women lived there- (a few years back, but I would think this is still true)- try something easy like going with a friend to Applebee's or Cuco's (on Airport if it is still there)- sounds weak, but that was a good start back in the day- usually met there and went somewhere else-
There was once a bar Trinity's next to the Civic Center- was an absolute slam dunk, but it has burned since I was there.
Understand one thing about Mobile- there is a ton of "old" money- if you are not a native Mobilian, that crowd will reject you no matter what (note the inbred Mardi Gras associations)- find girls in your situation- from out of town trying to meet people, etc-
If you come to Baldwin County- a couple of things-
There a shitload of young, plasticized gold-diggers looking for a sugar-daddy- There are also a lot of older guys (50+) with money (fewer now due to the real estate dive) that are out sniping the young girls- If you stay further inland, there are your usual country girls with an occasional diamond in the rough- not sure how you would casually meet them-
I sent a friend request if you have ?
Mobile has the talent, it's up to you to find it-
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Quote Originally Posted by callmetim:
When I lived in Birmingham, there were all kinds of hotties. I then moved to Mobile and it got better! Where are you?
I spent 11 years in Mobile, and there was never a shortage of really good-looking women- I had an absolute blast- I think you are hanging out in the wrong places-
Forget downtown / Dauphin Street- there are more guys than girls there- Just a clusterfuck in my experience- more fights than fucks back in the day-
Try midtown (Crockmeier's or the like)-
West Mobile is pretty decent hunting ground, but you have to dodge the college kids- a number of late 20-early 30's professional women lived there- (a few years back, but I would think this is still true)- try something easy like going with a friend to Applebee's or Cuco's (on Airport if it is still there)- sounds weak, but that was a good start back in the day- usually met there and went somewhere else-
There was once a bar Trinity's next to the Civic Center- was an absolute slam dunk, but it has burned since I was there.
Understand one thing about Mobile- there is a ton of "old" money- if you are not a native Mobilian, that crowd will reject you no matter what (note the inbred Mardi Gras associations)- find girls in your situation- from out of town trying to meet people, etc-
If you come to Baldwin County- a couple of things-
There a shitload of young, plasticized gold-diggers looking for a sugar-daddy- There are also a lot of older guys (50+) with money (fewer now due to the real estate dive) that are out sniping the young girls- If you stay further inland, there are your usual country girls with an occasional diamond in the rough- not sure how you would casually meet them-
BRO HALF OF HOLLYWOOD IS 35 AND NOT MARRIED. JUST CHILL HOMEY. AND BTW 35 ISNT THAT OLD AND THIS IS COMING FROM A 20 YEAR OLD.
AND MONEY ISNT EVERYTHING ITS THE ONLY THING. LOL. JK BRO. HONESTLY IF YOU CAN MAKE SOME MONEY WITH SPORTS AND ENJOY YOUR PLAYBOY YEARS WHILE THEY LAST CAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHATS AROUND THE CORNER.
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BRO HALF OF HOLLYWOOD IS 35 AND NOT MARRIED. JUST CHILL HOMEY. AND BTW 35 ISNT THAT OLD AND THIS IS COMING FROM A 20 YEAR OLD.
AND MONEY ISNT EVERYTHING ITS THE ONLY THING. LOL. JK BRO. HONESTLY IF YOU CAN MAKE SOME MONEY WITH SPORTS AND ENJOY YOUR PLAYBOY YEARS WHILE THEY LAST CAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHATS AROUND THE CORNER.
You are right Max. I am turning over a new leaf and it is starting tonight. Tonight I am going to go out and I am going to stop being a snob and I am going to talk to girls that normally I wouldnt give the time of day too. Its not a matter of not being able to get box for me cause I am good enough looking I can get women. I just am so picky I really limit myself and I go on these dry spells cause I am waiting for a good looking one. Not anymore. Starting tonight legwand is a new man. I am going to be a fucking machine.I dont care anymore what they look like. If they like me then that is all that matters. Look at that Adam Sandler movie where he was the hair stylist and fucked all those women. He was providing them with pleasure. Maybe that is my lot in life. This will be a whole new experience for me. Usually when I go out and a not very attractive girls talks to me I usually kind of blow her off but tonight I will take her home with me.
Dude, I thought you were looking for some nice girl to settle with? You sounded pretty serious (mentioning age gaps, looks, compatibility issues, income issues, etc)
And now your solution is to become a fucking machine, regardless of looks?
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Quote Originally Posted by legwand:
You are right Max. I am turning over a new leaf and it is starting tonight. Tonight I am going to go out and I am going to stop being a snob and I am going to talk to girls that normally I wouldnt give the time of day too. Its not a matter of not being able to get box for me cause I am good enough looking I can get women. I just am so picky I really limit myself and I go on these dry spells cause I am waiting for a good looking one. Not anymore. Starting tonight legwand is a new man. I am going to be a fucking machine.I dont care anymore what they look like. If they like me then that is all that matters. Look at that Adam Sandler movie where he was the hair stylist and fucked all those women. He was providing them with pleasure. Maybe that is my lot in life. This will be a whole new experience for me. Usually when I go out and a not very attractive girls talks to me I usually kind of blow her off but tonight I will take her home with me.
Dude, I thought you were looking for some nice girl to settle with? You sounded pretty serious (mentioning age gaps, looks, compatibility issues, income issues, etc)
And now your solution is to become a fucking machine, regardless of looks?
I want to get married and have kids when I'm about.... 65
Really though, I see myself being married and having kids... but at the same time I can't see myself doing it in the next 20 years
I'm a shallow guy with no money, but occasionally some good looking girl makes a mistake and thinks I'm a good pick - women see me as being a good guy and then end up thinking I'm a douchebag because I don't completely invest my life to them and wait on them... I'm sorry, but I can't spend my fucking lunch break listening to you talk to yourself (to me) on the phone. I guess I can be a little bit of a 'narcissist' by how other people see it - in REALITY (not my opinion, reality ) I just know what will work and what won't and I don't chase things that aren't going to benefit me, and I absolutely don't see myself as being 'better' than most, I just have a different way of living... I don't fuckin know this post is done
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I want to get married and have kids when I'm about.... 65
Really though, I see myself being married and having kids... but at the same time I can't see myself doing it in the next 20 years
I'm a shallow guy with no money, but occasionally some good looking girl makes a mistake and thinks I'm a good pick - women see me as being a good guy and then end up thinking I'm a douchebag because I don't completely invest my life to them and wait on them... I'm sorry, but I can't spend my fucking lunch break listening to you talk to yourself (to me) on the phone. I guess I can be a little bit of a 'narcissist' by how other people see it - in REALITY (not my opinion, reality ) I just know what will work and what won't and I don't chase things that aren't going to benefit me, and I absolutely don't see myself as being 'better' than most, I just have a different way of living... I don't fuckin know this post is done
Who would you rather marry? A woman who is a 10 but never wants to have sex and spends $1000s of dollars on clothes, makeup, etc, and never helps out around the house, and is constantly bitchy. Or a woman who is a 5, but is the opposite of the 10?
Number 5 please!!
Number 10 will run you dry and is probably fucking some other dude anyway.
At least the number 5 she will still suck your dick and clean the house.
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Quote Originally Posted by thorpe:
Who would you rather marry? A woman who is a 10 but never wants to have sex and spends $1000s of dollars on clothes, makeup, etc, and never helps out around the house, and is constantly bitchy. Or a woman who is a 5, but is the opposite of the 10?
Number 5 please!!
Number 10 will run you dry and is probably fucking some other dude anyway.
At least the number 5 she will still suck your dick and clean the house.
There is also the expression " the harder you look for something the harder it is to find ".
Don't put so much pressure on yourself dude. People are staying single for longer and longer now. If you truly want to meet new people then join a dating service. At least you are giving yourself a chance to meet someone.
For fuck sake please don't settle for the first chick that you think has given you the eye. She might have pink eye or a some dust in her eye and it is a twitching MoFo.
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Legwand
There is also the expression " the harder you look for something the harder it is to find ".
Don't put so much pressure on yourself dude. People are staying single for longer and longer now. If you truly want to meet new people then join a dating service. At least you are giving yourself a chance to meet someone.
For fuck sake please don't settle for the first chick that you think has given you the eye. She might have pink eye or a some dust in her eye and it is a twitching MoFo.
I'm a shallow guy with no money, but occasionally some good looking girl makes a mistake and thinks I'm a good pick - women see me as being a good guy and then end up thinking I'm a douchebag because I don't completely invest my life to them and wait on them... I'm sorry, but I can't spend my fucking lunch break listening to you talk to yourself (to me) on the phone. I guess I can be a little bit of a 'narcissist' by how other people see it - in
Spit, if I didn't know better I would swear that we were seperated at birth.
To quote Jerry Seinfeld "Now I know what I've been looking for all these years......myself!
I've been waiting for me to come along and now I 've swept myself off my feet.
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Quote Originally Posted by Spitfire15:
I'm a shallow guy with no money, but occasionally some good looking girl makes a mistake and thinks I'm a good pick - women see me as being a good guy and then end up thinking I'm a douchebag because I don't completely invest my life to them and wait on them... I'm sorry, but I can't spend my fucking lunch break listening to you talk to yourself (to me) on the phone. I guess I can be a little bit of a 'narcissist' by how other people see it - in
Spit, if I didn't know better I would swear that we were seperated at birth.
To quote Jerry Seinfeld "Now I know what I've been looking for all these years......myself!
I've been waiting for me to come along and now I 've swept myself off my feet.
I went out last night and I couldnt do it. There were so many ugly girls at the bar but I cant just get with an ugly, fat girl. I just dont have it in me. And as far as dsn's post, though I know it was to be helpful it just pretty much confirmed exactly what I have been saying. I have been here almost 4 years and have dated 3 girls. None of whom have been from the south. The girls around here do not like guys that are not from here. I have already been ruled an outcast here so I have no chance at any success here. This is your quote.
"Understand one thing about Mobile- there is a ton of "old" money- if you are not a native Mobilian, that crowd will reject you no matter what (note the inbred Mardi Gras associations)- find girls in your situation- from out of town trying to meet people, etc-"
I am tired of living in a place like this. I am treated like I am some kind of freak. I am tired of being called a "yankee" everytime I meet someone and I hate it here. If I just had any money the first thing I would do is move. I have gotten to the point I barely leave my apartment anymore cause I have just gotten tired of it. I am completely out of place here. Any other place I go I can go to a bar and even if I dont hook up with a girl I will at least have some good conversation and meet some new people but not here. I can go out here and noone will talk to me and when I do its just about me being a "yankee" and I dont belong around here.
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I went out last night and I couldnt do it. There were so many ugly girls at the bar but I cant just get with an ugly, fat girl. I just dont have it in me. And as far as dsn's post, though I know it was to be helpful it just pretty much confirmed exactly what I have been saying. I have been here almost 4 years and have dated 3 girls. None of whom have been from the south. The girls around here do not like guys that are not from here. I have already been ruled an outcast here so I have no chance at any success here. This is your quote.
"Understand one thing about Mobile- there is a ton of "old" money- if you are not a native Mobilian, that crowd will reject you no matter what (note the inbred Mardi Gras associations)- find girls in your situation- from out of town trying to meet people, etc-"
I am tired of living in a place like this. I am treated like I am some kind of freak. I am tired of being called a "yankee" everytime I meet someone and I hate it here. If I just had any money the first thing I would do is move. I have gotten to the point I barely leave my apartment anymore cause I have just gotten tired of it. I am completely out of place here. Any other place I go I can go to a bar and even if I dont hook up with a girl I will at least have some good conversation and meet some new people but not here. I can go out here and noone will talk to me and when I do its just about me being a "yankee" and I dont belong around here.
It is not easy meeting girls not from here cause no good looking girl would move here. I don't even know why I moved here. I was just so anxious to move from Michigan and got a job offer here and just went but it was a huge mistake I regret everyday and now I am stuck here. At first it was ok cause I did a lot of tourist stuff and it was a new place and everything but the honeymoon is over now and I just want to get the hell out of here.
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It is not easy meeting girls not from here cause no good looking girl would move here. I don't even know why I moved here. I was just so anxious to move from Michigan and got a job offer here and just went but it was a huge mistake I regret everyday and now I am stuck here. At first it was ok cause I did a lot of tourist stuff and it was a new place and everything but the honeymoon is over now and I just want to get the hell out of here.
And I dont care if I have to move in with my parents. I have my own place now and have not had another person in my apartment for 6 months. I would rather live with my parents then live completely alone day after day.
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And I dont care if I have to move in with my parents. I have my own place now and have not had another person in my apartment for 6 months. I would rather live with my parents then live completely alone day after day.
I feel like my apartment has become my own solitary confinement prison with no visitors allowed. I mean yes I have all my entertainment things in there and a nice kitchen and I cook and everything but I am starting to lose my mind.
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I feel like my apartment has become my own solitary confinement prison with no visitors allowed. I mean yes I have all my entertainment things in there and a nice kitchen and I cook and everything but I am starting to lose my mind.
Bro i think you've got your self in a rut and are dishing out excuses anywhere you kind find.
Al, GA, Miss has some of the most beautiful women in the world, Alot of them even love hunting, fishing, sports and can still rock a black dress and be a perfect lady when need be. In your age group girls anywhere are gonna have been married or have children. Im with you on not being a fan of pre-made families but some of the best girls ive ever dated had a kid So i wouldnt let a girl you liked that had ONE kid stop me from just going on a date.
I dont know but i suspect you being a yank, and new to town has just excluded you from groups that would make meeting ladies ezzzzeee. In fact alot of southern girls are all about meeting somebody new and from out of state. Seen it many times.
You workout you said, No connections at the gym? Maybe hit the local racetrack. I know your thinking i dont wanna do the redneck shit, buttrust me there are HOT ass girls there and alot come from money. Any idea what it cost to run a late model?
Confidence, confidence.....yours is gone and you got to get it back. Maybe kick some thugs ass. You think im bullshit'n but that will help.
Keep your head up boy
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Bro i think you've got your self in a rut and are dishing out excuses anywhere you kind find.
Al, GA, Miss has some of the most beautiful women in the world, Alot of them even love hunting, fishing, sports and can still rock a black dress and be a perfect lady when need be. In your age group girls anywhere are gonna have been married or have children. Im with you on not being a fan of pre-made families but some of the best girls ive ever dated had a kid So i wouldnt let a girl you liked that had ONE kid stop me from just going on a date.
I dont know but i suspect you being a yank, and new to town has just excluded you from groups that would make meeting ladies ezzzzeee. In fact alot of southern girls are all about meeting somebody new and from out of state. Seen it many times.
You workout you said, No connections at the gym? Maybe hit the local racetrack. I know your thinking i dont wanna do the redneck shit, buttrust me there are HOT ass girls there and alot come from money. Any idea what it cost to run a late model?
Confidence, confidence.....yours is gone and you got to get it back. Maybe kick some thugs ass. You think im bullshit'n but that will help.
Go help out with little league. Not only will it be fun, good excercise, it will be good for your noggin and YES there will be many many ladies(sisters, cousins, moms.....) there. It will also open up some doors for meeting folks in the community.
Give it a shot now! Dont think on the negatives just go on down there. Dont be a why guy..... Your the WHY THE HELL NOT GUY!
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Oh hell yeah.... Rec Ball Man.
Go help out with little league. Not only will it be fun, good excercise, it will be good for your noggin and YES there will be many many ladies(sisters, cousins, moms.....) there. It will also open up some doors for meeting folks in the community.
Give it a shot now! Dont think on the negatives just go on down there. Dont be a why guy..... Your the WHY THE HELL NOT GUY!
Well this guy at my work who is from here said he would go out with me and he knows the places where lots of hot girls hang out around here that I have never been to before.
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Well this guy at my work who is from here said he would go out with me and he knows the places where lots of hot girls hang out around here that I have never been to before.
I went out last night and I couldnt do it. There were so many ugly girls at the bar but I cant just get with an ugly, fat girl. I just dont have it in me. And as far as dsn's post, though I know it was to be helpful it just pretty much confirmed exactly what I have been saying. I have been here almost 4 years and have dated 3 girls. None of whom have been from the south. The girls around here do not like guys that are not from here. I have already been ruled an outcast here so I have no chance at any success here. This is your quote.
"Understand one thing about Mobile- there is a ton of "old" money- if you are not a native Mobilian, that crowd will reject you no matter what (note the inbred Mardi Gras associations)- find girls in your situation- from out of town trying to meet people, etc-"
I am tired of living in a place like this. I am treated like I am some kind of freak. I am tired of being called a "yankee" everytime I meet someone and I hate it here. If I just had any money the first thing I would do is move. I have gotten to the point I barely leave my apartment anymore cause I have just gotten tired of it. I am completely out of place here. Any other place I go I can go to a bar and even if I dont hook up with a girl I will at least have some good conversation and meet some new people but not here. I can go out here and noone will talk to me and when I do its just about me being a "yankee" and I dont belong around here.
Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and mark that bar off your list for Thursday nights. It happens. You probably should've taken one of the lesser "corpulent" women home last night as an ego boost. It sounds like you need one.
Start thinking in terms of solutions rather than pointing out the dark things in your life. That behavior, my friend, is called whining. So, in the words of Vito Corleone... "You Can Act Like A Man - Is This The Way You Turned Out Some Hollywood Big Shot Who Cries Like A Woman..whaaaa whaaa whaaa."
I can assure you of one thing, I wouldn't want a guy like you dating my daughter with all of this loser talk, excuse making, and blame blame blame. You need an attitude adjustment before anyone is going to be accepting of you. You're living in one of America's best cities and you're playing victim. Knock it off.
Either get on with your life by working hard and playing hard or put your tail between your legs and go back to Detroit.
After your posts this morning, you have lost any empathy that I had for you.
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Quote Originally Posted by legwand:
I went out last night and I couldnt do it. There were so many ugly girls at the bar but I cant just get with an ugly, fat girl. I just dont have it in me. And as far as dsn's post, though I know it was to be helpful it just pretty much confirmed exactly what I have been saying. I have been here almost 4 years and have dated 3 girls. None of whom have been from the south. The girls around here do not like guys that are not from here. I have already been ruled an outcast here so I have no chance at any success here. This is your quote.
"Understand one thing about Mobile- there is a ton of "old" money- if you are not a native Mobilian, that crowd will reject you no matter what (note the inbred Mardi Gras associations)- find girls in your situation- from out of town trying to meet people, etc-"
I am tired of living in a place like this. I am treated like I am some kind of freak. I am tired of being called a "yankee" everytime I meet someone and I hate it here. If I just had any money the first thing I would do is move. I have gotten to the point I barely leave my apartment anymore cause I have just gotten tired of it. I am completely out of place here. Any other place I go I can go to a bar and even if I dont hook up with a girl I will at least have some good conversation and meet some new people but not here. I can go out here and noone will talk to me and when I do its just about me being a "yankee" and I dont belong around here.
Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and mark that bar off your list for Thursday nights. It happens. You probably should've taken one of the lesser "corpulent" women home last night as an ego boost. It sounds like you need one.
Start thinking in terms of solutions rather than pointing out the dark things in your life. That behavior, my friend, is called whining. So, in the words of Vito Corleone... "You Can Act Like A Man - Is This The Way You Turned Out Some Hollywood Big Shot Who Cries Like A Woman..whaaaa whaaa whaaa."
I can assure you of one thing, I wouldn't want a guy like you dating my daughter with all of this loser talk, excuse making, and blame blame blame. You need an attitude adjustment before anyone is going to be accepting of you. You're living in one of America's best cities and you're playing victim. Knock it off.
Either get on with your life by working hard and playing hard or put your tail between your legs and go back to Detroit.
After your posts this morning, you have lost any empathy that I had for you.
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) I just know what will work and what won't and I don't chase things that aren't going to benefit me, and I absolutely don't see myself as being 'better' than most, I just have a different way of living... I don't fuckin know this post is done
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