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i feel your pain. Just stay positive and make babysteps to improving your position in this world.
 
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I am thinking about moving back to Michigan and moving back in with my parents. Thats how miserable I am here. I would actually rather live with my parents then live on my own in Alabama. Thats how horrible it is here.
 
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Quote Originally Posted by legwand:

Have you guys seen what a single girl over 28 looks like in south Alabama? They are not attractive at all. To get any attractive girl you have to go 21 years old or younger.

  guess i can not speak for south Alabama, but i have always thought we were blessed with beautiful women,,,actually, i know we are. Only advice i can give you is to make sure she is your best friend. 
 
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Quote Originally Posted by captjohn67:

  guess i can not speak for south Alabama, but i have always thought we were blessed with beautiful women,,,actually, i know we are. Only advice i can give you is to make sure she is your best friend. 

captjohn you didnt read my quote right. I said "single" women over 28. I didnt say there arent beautiful women here. There are gorgeous women all over but look at their left hand and you will always see a ring. Girls get married down here when they are real young or they move away. You find me a good looking single girl with no kids that has never been married 28 years or older down here and I will give you a hundred dollars.

 
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Quote Originally Posted by legwand:

I am thinking about moving back to Michigan and moving back in with my parents. Thats how miserable I am here. I would actually rather live with my parents then live on my own in Alabama. Thats how horrible it is here.


well thats not going to get you a woman..
 
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Hi, My name is George. I'm unemployed and I live with my parents.
 
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Trust me. I go out to the bars it is all 18-21 year old kids there. The girls are amazingly gorgeous. Some of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen but to them I look like an old pervert. Then talk to any of the older women you are dealing with 2-3 kids, divorced, baby daddy drama. I just want like a attractive looking, single, 25-30 year old, no kids but wants kids cause i want a family, nice girl. I am not looking for a super model but someone who is attractive. I dont think that is asking to much
 
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Quote Originally Posted by legwand:

captjohn you didnt read my quote right. I said "single" women over 28. I didnt say there arent beautiful women here. There are gorgeous women all over but look at their left hand and you will always see a ring. Girls get married down here when they are real young or they move away. You find me a good looking single girl with no kids that has never been married 28 years or older down here and I will give you a hundred dollars.

my bad   ...but isn't that everywhere?? quit stressing over being married and move back to Michigan if you think that is what you need to do. Life is too short to be miserable. Best of luck my friend  
 
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i had the "i'm never going to find a girl i really like" moment two years ago.  I really never thought it was going to happen for me.  well, I'm married as of last friday to someone i'm extremely attracted to and has been my best friend for over a year, since we started dating.  your time will come, hang in there. 
 
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Quote Originally Posted by captjohn67:

my bad   ...but isn't that everywhere?? quit stressing over being married and move back to Michigan if you think that is what you need to do. Life is too short to be miserable. Best of luck my friend  

I guess. maybe. I think in California and Las Vegas there are a lot more hot single girls in their late twenties, early thirties.

 
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I'm 28 years old.  Until Monday I had two women in my life.  One was a solid 10.  Blind hair, 5'5, 120 lbs, 36DD and she loved the NFL.  The second was a 6 or 7.  About 5'1, 120lbs, B cups.  Not in to the NFL but is willing to try.

On Monday I removed the 36DD from my life.  Yes she was drop dead gorgeous.  Yes she was an EXACT replica of Julia Styles but with much bigger titties.  Yes she fucked real good.  But she wasnt turstworthy.  She slept with almost anyone and recently showed her boobs to her boss in order to get an advance on her paycheque.

I kept the girl who I may not find as attractive but she's loyal.  She doesnt look at other dudes.  I know that because she's my buddy's ex & when I asked her if she had a thing for me when she was with him she said "no, i didnt look at other guys when I was with him".

The lesson I learnt is that the hotter the girl is, the harder it is to keep her interested.  The second girl will bend over backwards for me, is willign to act out ANY sexual desire I have and treats me the way I feel I deserve to be treated.

Looks aren't everything, some may call it settling, I call it using the brain on my shoulders instead of the brain in my pants.

Best of Luck

 
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Quote Originally Posted by revengeissweet1:

I'm 28 years old.  Until Monday I had two women in my life.  One was a solid 10.  Blind hair, 5'5, 120 lbs, 36DD and she loved the NFL.  The second was a 6 or 7.  About 5'1, 120lbs, B cups.  Not in to the NFL but is willing to try.

On Monday I removed the 36DD from my life.  Yes she was drop dead gorgeous.  Yes she was an EXACT replica of Julia Styles but with much bigger titties.  Yes she fucked real good.  But she wasnt turstworthy.  She slept with almost anyone and recently showed her boobs to her boss in order to get an advance on her paycheque.

I kept the girl who I may not find as attractive but she's loyal.  She doesnt look at other dudes.  I know that because she's my buddy's ex & when I asked her if she had a thing for me when she was with him she said "no, i didnt look at other guys when I was with him".

The lesson I learnt is that the hotter the girl is, the harder it is to keep her interested.  The second girl will bend over backwards for me, is willign to act out ANY sexual desire I have and treats me the way I feel I deserve to be treated.

Looks aren't everything, some may call it settling, I call it using the brain on my shoulders instead of the brain in my pants.

Best of Luck

But are you attracted to her? Like I said I dont need to have a perfect 10. I am attracted to lots of 6s and 7's but I have to be attracted to them The girls that like me right now are probably 6's or 7's but I just dont have a real attraction to them. I see girls that I would consider a 6 or 7 that just have something about them that attracts me. Thats my main criteria for being with someone.

 
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Quote Originally Posted by legwand:

But are you attracted to her? Like I said I dont need to have a perfect 10. I am attracted to lots of 6s and 7's but I have to be attracted to them The girls that like me right now are probably 6's or 7's but I just dont have a real attraction to them. I see girls that I would consider a 6 or 7 that just have something about them that attracts me. Thats my main criteria for being with someone.

To be honest, i'm slightly attracted to her but I'm not ga-ga for her.  There are a lot of things about her appearance that bother me, she smokes, her hair is weird, she dresses down.  But I've convinced her to quit smoking, she got a new hairdo and I'm hoping if I take her shopping we can make her look sexier.  Some women need a guy to tell them what looks good on them

 
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As one of the above posters stated, just hang in there, it WILL happen.  But you may have to come away from some of your stances.  For all you know there is a gorgeous 10 out there with a kid who coudl make all your dreams come true.
 
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Here is some advice I gave my oldest son, go to church.  I am not religious myself but every church has some women floating around that love to fornicate.  Years ago (when I did attend church) there was always women that were accessible. Some you have to marry first. You don't have to be religious, just show up in clean clothes.  Also, some of them have good jobs or money from other situations.  If there are no prospects in one church, go to another.  I prefer Baptist, they are supposedly stricter and cleaner.  I never was a Baptist but have met some really nice ones.  Good luck on your search.  Become friends first.
 
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Quote Originally Posted by revengeissweet1:

I'm 28 years old.  Until Monday I had two women in my life.  One was a solid 10.  Blind hair, 5'5, 120 lbs, 36DD and she loved the NFL.  The second was a 6 or 7.  About 5'1, 120lbs, B cups.  Not in to the NFL but is willing to try.

On Monday I removed the 36DD from my life.  Yes she was drop dead gorgeous.  Yes she was an EXACT replica of Julia Styles but with much bigger titties.  Yes she fucked real good.  But she wasnt turstworthy.  She slept with almost anyone and recently showed her boobs to her boss in order to get an advance on her paycheque.

I kept the girl who I may not find as attractive but she's loyal.  She doesnt look at other dudes.  I know that because she's my buddy's ex & when I asked her if she had a thing for me when she was with him she said "no, i didnt look at other guys when I was with him".

The lesson I learnt is that the hotter the girl is, the harder it is to keep her interested.  The second girl will bend over backwards for me, is willign to act out ANY sexual desire I have and treats me the way I feel I deserve to be treated.

Looks aren't everything, some may call it settling, I call it using the brain on my shoulders instead of the brain in my pants.

Best of Luck



  Julia Styles is all busted up imo
 
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Move out to California.  Even if you gotta live in the slums, it's better than Alabama.

You won't have any problems getting laid out here my friend

I have some UGLY ass friends who date SEXY women.  All it takes is a little confidence, some cash, and a shower
 
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Quote Originally Posted by revengeissweet1:

To be honest, i'm slightly attracted to her but I'm not ga-ga for her.  There are a lot of things about her appearance that bother me, she smokes, her hair is weird, she dresses down.  But I've convinced her to quit smoking, she got a new hairdo and I'm hoping if I take her shopping we can make her look sexier.  Some women need a guy to tell them what looks good on them

Dude, that sounds like one of my old relationships. I dated this girl who had a great body but she was kind of a tomboy. She wore clothes that were not flattering at all, always had her hair died weird colors and short. After we dated a while I had her grow her hair out, died blonde, wearing skirts, high heels, and she became really hot. She always had the body and looks but needed to show it off. She went from a 6 to a strong 8. Then after she got real hot and started getting more attention from guys she dumped me.

 
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Quote Originally Posted by revengeissweet1:

To be honest, i'm slightly attracted to her but I'm not ga-ga for her.  There are a lot of things about her appearance that bother me, she smokes, her hair is weird, she dresses down.  But I've convinced her to quit smoking, she got a new hairdo and I'm hoping if I take her shopping we can make her look sexier.  Some women need a guy to tell them what looks good on them

 

Am I the only one who found this hilarious?

 
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Dude, I would give anything to live in California. It just would be so hard to do it on my own with no money.
 
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Quote Originally Posted by misfit_aka:

man I cant wait for the comments on this one! hopefully ppl put some thought into em, not just wank off...

lol

 
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in my opinion, dont get into a relationship with a girl that you dont find attractive.  simple as that.... no ifs ands or buts.

 
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If you're broke... figure that out before you figure out your relationships. 
 
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I already did figure out the broke part. It will all be over in 2 years or if I make more money I can pay it off faster. I just have a giant payment I make every month to get my debt paid off.
 
 
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Quote Originally Posted by EricLinny:

Move out to California.  Even if you gotta live in the slums, it's better than Alabama.

You won't have any problems getting laid out here my friend

I have some UGLY ass friends who date SEXY women.  All it takes is a little confidence, some cash, and a shower

 

i'm heading ur way tomorrow linny..............I"M HOLDING YOU TO THIS...............

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