How many guys just gave up and settled for someone they dont find attractive?

I see odd couples everyday at the grocery store, mall, post office, bank, etc.   I see an attractive gal with a bald fat dude and I see a cool dude with a fat gal. Rarely do i see an attractive guy with an attractive gal unless you are in Hollywood.  That is reality for you.

I'm assuming she is a smart gal?  From my experience, it's hard to find a smart attractive gal. It's either one or the other and never both. 

Those guys have money.

I live in Mobile, AL.

I have that dream myself, like you want to be sipping lemonade on a sunday afternoon next to amber valetta gently rocking on a hammock. then all of a sudden you fall over and land next to "name-any-generic-chick-50lbs overweight"

you know you're with an undesirable chick if she asks you to go somewhere, and the first thing on your mind it's not the activity, but who and how many people will see you together. blame it on media propaganda. we have been brainwashed to believe everything must match perfectly... like your clothes, car, house, pets, even your cell phone. 

best thing to do is get a mildly used, somewhat presentable ride...then pimp your ride

Dont get married. 

1)  It is symbolic religiously and personally.

2) It is a financial contract.

Meet the woman first than figure out marriage.

Leg:

I'm sorry you are lonely bro.  Being lonely sucks.

I also understand being the oldest one @ the club.  that sux too.  I guess as a 51 year-old-fart that has been married once (never again) and has been around the block more than once I would say this:

a.  Good looking women have the perks but they also have particular burdens.  What almost all pretty women lack is a heart.......its just not there.  Most hot bitches can't cook either.  Maybe I'm old fashioned but I gotta have a bitch that can cook....period.  I don't care how good you are in the sack, you damn well better know your way around a kitchen.

b.   Normal gals have less burdens and they have a wonderful inherent quality of loyalty.  And....they have a heart.  The posess empathy and they will work to please you.  I'll tell ya, a bitch gets better looking to me everytime she takes care of my various appetites in the sack and around the stove.

c.  Money.  Fuck that bro.  Use your wit and gaff in those early dates.  Charm the target bitch with your 35-year-old savvy and make her want it.  Walks, picnics, camping.  Hell, where you are you got the beach. (oil aside)    That's cheap and it lets you both figure out if you really dig each other.  Make the bitch cook for you while u r at it.

Don't give up bro 

Your one of the good guys on the forum and you will get yours!

One more piece of advice

I was single for around 3-1/2 years before I met my fiancee. She's a smart girl. No hurry to get married thank God. We promised each other that when we hit 50 we'd get married in bathing suits on the beach in Bermuda. But, back to my story. I was in my middle forties when I walked on the monster. Under financial siege from the her lawyers and not overly cash heavy. I met all kinds of women. Good, bad, hot, ugly and everything in between. What I learned is that believe it or not. Most of them were not money grubbers like I thought the would be. I went out with some very nice looking mid 30's ladies who loved nothing more than going to a nice restaraunt, seeing a movie and maybe a cup of cofffee afterwards. After that, more likely than not. They were ready to go home and bang all night long. My lesson. Never prejudge a woman.

You are right Max. I am turning over a new leaf and it is starting tonight. Tonight I am going to go out and I am going to stop being a snob and I am going to talk to girls that normally I wouldnt give the time of day too. Its not a matter of not being able to get box for me cause I am good enough looking I can get women. I just am so picky I really limit myself and I go on these dry spells cause I am waiting for a good looking one. Not anymore. Starting tonight legwand is a new man. I am going to be a fucking machine. I dont care anymore what they look like. If they like me then that is all that matters. Look at that Adam Sandler movie where he was the hair stylist and fucked all those women. He was providing them with pleasure. Maybe that is my lot in life. This will be a whole new experience for me. Usually when I go out and a not very attractive girls talks to me I usually kind of blow her off but tonight I will take her home with me.

In the immortal words of The Most Interesting Man In The World.

"Stay thirsty my freind", and always wrap the package!

OK, first of all most chicks that are single put more into themselves to stay attractive.  According to what you said, that 21 year old is gonnna look like shit in 7 yrs.  Then all of the sudden you wake up a 42 yr old with a shovel faced 28 yr old.  Maybe you need a geographic change.