You are right Max. I am turning over a new leaf and it is starting tonight. Tonight I am going to go out and I am going to stop being a snob and I am going to talk to girls that normally I wouldnt give the time of day too. Its not a matter of not being able to get box for me cause I am good enough looking I can get women. I just am so picky I really limit myself and I go on these dry spells cause I am waiting for a good looking one. Not anymore. Starting tonight legwand is a new man. I am going to be a fucking machine. I dont care anymore what they look like. If they like me then that is all that matters. Look at that Adam Sandler movie where he was the hair stylist and fucked all those women. He was providing them with pleasure. Maybe that is my lot in life. This will be a whole new experience for me. Usually when I go out and a not very attractive girls talks to me I usually kind of blow her off but tonight I will take her home with me.
Good for you, legwand. I predict much happiness in your future if you are sincere in your efforts
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Quote Originally Posted by legwand:
You are right Max. I am turning over a new leaf and it is starting tonight. Tonight I am going to go out and I am going to stop being a snob and I am going to talk to girls that normally I wouldnt give the time of day too. Its not a matter of not being able to get box for me cause I am good enough looking I can get women. I just am so picky I really limit myself and I go on these dry spells cause I am waiting for a good looking one. Not anymore. Starting tonight legwand is a new man. I am going to be a fucking machine. I dont care anymore what they look like. If they like me then that is all that matters. Look at that Adam Sandler movie where he was the hair stylist and fucked all those women. He was providing them with pleasure. Maybe that is my lot in life. This will be a whole new experience for me. Usually when I go out and a not very attractive girls talks to me I usually kind of blow her off but tonight I will take her home with me.
Good for you, legwand. I predict much happiness in your future if you are sincere in your efforts
I am 35, no kids, never been married. Girls I am attracted to are not attracted to me but there are girls out there that are attracted to me but I am not attracted to them but I am really tired of being alone. I just wonder if I should just bite the bullet and just be with someone just so I dont have to be alone anymore. I know guys who have done it. A buddy of mine always tells me he is not attracted to his wife but he was 40 and wanted to get married and she was tolerable and a good cook. How many other guys have done this?
Don't do it. I did it in my first marriage and I can assure you, it's sheer agony having to wake up next to someone you're not in love with. I had a friend of mine that was a rather ugly man, but he really got the girls.
Try this method... embrace rejection. Go out today and approach every woman you're attracted to and ask for their number. When you get to 10 rejections, quit for the day. Always look forward to being rejected; this way you'll end up with many serendipitous opportunities. It works.
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Quote Originally Posted by legwand:
I am 35, no kids, never been married. Girls I am attracted to are not attracted to me but there are girls out there that are attracted to me but I am not attracted to them but I am really tired of being alone. I just wonder if I should just bite the bullet and just be with someone just so I dont have to be alone anymore. I know guys who have done it. A buddy of mine always tells me he is not attracted to his wife but he was 40 and wanted to get married and she was tolerable and a good cook. How many other guys have done this?
Don't do it. I did it in my first marriage and I can assure you, it's sheer agony having to wake up next to someone you're not in love with. I had a friend of mine that was a rather ugly man, but he really got the girls.
Try this method... embrace rejection. Go out today and approach every woman you're attracted to and ask for their number. When you get to 10 rejections, quit for the day. Always look forward to being rejected; this way you'll end up with many serendipitous opportunities. It works.
99% of the population settle. Thats why u see ugly people with ugly people, average people with average people, good looking people with good looking people, fat people with fat people, poor people with poor people.
The only exception is the money factor. If u got it u can be poor, fat and ugly and still pull a 10.
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99% of the population settle. Thats why u see ugly people with ugly people, average people with average people, good looking people with good looking people, fat people with fat people, poor people with poor people.
The only exception is the money factor. If u got it u can be poor, fat and ugly and still pull a 10.
99% of the population settle. Thats why u see ugly people with ugly people, average people with average people, good looking people with good looking people, fat people with fat people, poor people with poor people.
The only exception is the money factor. If u got it u can be poor, fat and ugly and still pull a 10.
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Quote Originally Posted by JoeKool:
99% of the population settle. Thats why u see ugly people with ugly people, average people with average people, good looking people with good looking people, fat people with fat people, poor people with poor people.
The only exception is the money factor. If u got it u can be poor, fat and ugly and still pull a 10.
i didn't read the whole thread but i did read the first page.
first, get the fuck out of alabama. never look back. don't even look at it on a map.
go to a real city and the options will open up.
second, clubdirt has hooked up with a wide variety of very hot chicks. anyone can say anything on the internet, but this happens to be true. now, few people possess the combination of good looks, humor and charm that clubdirt possesses so there are some limitations here. but fuck that. be confident and be yourself and ultimately you'll be fine.
to answer your question, settling is fine if you just want to hook up, but a disaster if you are talking about marriage. however, you need to redefine your definition of settling and refrain from correlating that with looks alone. i can tell you with certainty that, in my experience, there is an almost perfectly direct relationship between how hot a chick was and how much of a pain in the ass the chick was. number 1 on the hot list is almost invariably going to be number 1 on the pain in the ass list. these chicks grow up with everyone looking at them and giving them all this attention and that does something to them. clubdirt tries to emotionally beat them down and it works for a while but it's a losing battle in the end.
so, what you want to do is find someone who you can relate to, who can put up with your bullshit and who you like spending time with. attraction is important but it will not be as important as you get older, have kids, etc.
but most importantly, find someone who is a genuinely good person and who you trust. once you have kids, that will be the most important thing by far. if you fuck that part up, it will be a nightmare.
so, to sum up, run right now across the state lines and never look back. try to move attraction down the priority list and go places where you like to go or where normal chicks hang out and be confident and introduce yourself. i can't come close to remembering how many times i engaged a hot chick and got shot down. it happens. who knows what's going on in that chick's head and the hotter she is, the more likely there's something fucked up going on in there. don't worry about rejection. get your mind right and get to work on finding someone you're compatible with.
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i didn't read the whole thread but i did read the first page.
first, get the fuck out of alabama. never look back. don't even look at it on a map.
go to a real city and the options will open up.
second, clubdirt has hooked up with a wide variety of very hot chicks. anyone can say anything on the internet, but this happens to be true. now, few people possess the combination of good looks, humor and charm that clubdirt possesses so there are some limitations here. but fuck that. be confident and be yourself and ultimately you'll be fine.
to answer your question, settling is fine if you just want to hook up, but a disaster if you are talking about marriage. however, you need to redefine your definition of settling and refrain from correlating that with looks alone. i can tell you with certainty that, in my experience, there is an almost perfectly direct relationship between how hot a chick was and how much of a pain in the ass the chick was. number 1 on the hot list is almost invariably going to be number 1 on the pain in the ass list. these chicks grow up with everyone looking at them and giving them all this attention and that does something to them. clubdirt tries to emotionally beat them down and it works for a while but it's a losing battle in the end.
so, what you want to do is find someone who you can relate to, who can put up with your bullshit and who you like spending time with. attraction is important but it will not be as important as you get older, have kids, etc.
but most importantly, find someone who is a genuinely good person and who you trust. once you have kids, that will be the most important thing by far. if you fuck that part up, it will be a nightmare.
so, to sum up, run right now across the state lines and never look back. try to move attraction down the priority list and go places where you like to go or where normal chicks hang out and be confident and introduce yourself. i can't come close to remembering how many times i engaged a hot chick and got shot down. it happens. who knows what's going on in that chick's head and the hotter she is, the more likely there's something fucked up going on in there. don't worry about rejection. get your mind right and get to work on finding someone you're compatible with.
If you're broke... figure that out before you figure out your relationships.
Honest to god this is the best advice someone could give to you right now.
I remember watching the Ying Yang Twins do an interview one time and the interviewer asked them about getting girls. I thought their reply was actually pretty clever. They said something to the extent of "focus on your business and the girls will find you". I know it sounds easy for them to say since they were famous millionaires at the time. But have you ever seen those guys? They are ugly as fuck. And at one time, they weren't millionaires. They were struggling artists who were boo'd off stage a few times.
My suggestion is to take a class or two at the local community college. I can sympathize with you Legwand. I grew up in Metro Detroit and joined the Navy at 21 and my first duty station was in a shitty desert town in the middle of nowhere. I thought the same thing, this place sucks and there are no decent women around. Then I took a few classes at the local C.C. and ended banging a girl from everyone of my classes. Nothing below a 7 either. Try that out and even if you don't have any hotties in your classes you are still working on something that maybe help you get out of South Bama this lifetime. BOL and I hope things improve.
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Quote Originally Posted by dj_destroyer:
If you're broke... figure that out before you figure out your relationships.
Honest to god this is the best advice someone could give to you right now.
I remember watching the Ying Yang Twins do an interview one time and the interviewer asked them about getting girls. I thought their reply was actually pretty clever. They said something to the extent of "focus on your business and the girls will find you". I know it sounds easy for them to say since they were famous millionaires at the time. But have you ever seen those guys? They are ugly as fuck. And at one time, they weren't millionaires. They were struggling artists who were boo'd off stage a few times.
My suggestion is to take a class or two at the local community college. I can sympathize with you Legwand. I grew up in Metro Detroit and joined the Navy at 21 and my first duty station was in a shitty desert town in the middle of nowhere. I thought the same thing, this place sucks and there are no decent women around. Then I took a few classes at the local C.C. and ended banging a girl from everyone of my classes. Nothing below a 7 either. Try that out and even if you don't have any hotties in your classes you are still working on something that maybe help you get out of South Bama this lifetime. BOL and I hope things improve.
I just am not like over the top good looking enough where I can be broke and still get girls but I am also good looking enoug where if I had money I could probably get any girl I wanted.
dude, you're killing me, i hate to hear shit like this....
never ever ever settle... you are just cheating yourself if you do...
what you need, and need fast, is a change of scenery and profession.
i am under 30, live in LA, am good looking, make great money, and have a hot gf so I know what it's like to be on the opposite side of the spectrum and can tell you that even if i was a little older, had less, and wasnt in LA i still wouldnt want to settle...i know that we are spoiled in LA with the bevy of beauties but bottom line is there are more women out there looking for good men than vice versa....
you will find a good woman that meets your needs...
move to a bigger city like houston, atlanta, or somewhere else in the South...lots of talent there.
good luck
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Quote Originally Posted by legwand:
I just am not like over the top good looking enough where I can be broke and still get girls but I am also good looking enoug where if I had money I could probably get any girl I wanted.
dude, you're killing me, i hate to hear shit like this....
never ever ever settle... you are just cheating yourself if you do...
what you need, and need fast, is a change of scenery and profession.
i am under 30, live in LA, am good looking, make great money, and have a hot gf so I know what it's like to be on the opposite side of the spectrum and can tell you that even if i was a little older, had less, and wasnt in LA i still wouldnt want to settle...i know that we are spoiled in LA with the bevy of beauties but bottom line is there are more women out there looking for good men than vice versa....
you will find a good woman that meets your needs...
move to a bigger city like houston, atlanta, or somewhere else in the South...lots of talent there.
i'd consider atlanta though. you get all kinds there and there will be a lot of people like yourself who have gravitated there from smaller southern cities looking for something more. you probably can't go wrong with a big city in texas either.
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i'd consider atlanta though. you get all kinds there and there will be a lot of people like yourself who have gravitated there from smaller southern cities looking for something more. you probably can't go wrong with a big city in texas either.
i'd consider atlanta though. you get all kinds there and there will be a lot of people like yourself who have gravitated there from smaller southern cities looking for something more. you probably can't go wrong with a big city in texas either.
I am from Detroit. I have only lived here a few years. I moved here for work.
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Quote Originally Posted by ClubDirt:
i'd consider atlanta though. you get all kinds there and there will be a lot of people like yourself who have gravitated there from smaller southern cities looking for something more. you probably can't go wrong with a big city in texas either.
I am from Detroit. I have only lived here a few years. I moved here for work.
still, in atlanta (and houston, i'm sure) you'll meet others from alabama, and the surrounding areas who wanted to get out like you do and that will give you something in common with these chicks. always good to have something in common with them. it's not easy meeting chicks once you get older. anything that helps smooth the transition is nice.
atlanta is a big SEC city, a lot of chicks from alabama, auburn ole miss, etc.
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still, in atlanta (and houston, i'm sure) you'll meet others from alabama, and the surrounding areas who wanted to get out like you do and that will give you something in common with these chicks. always good to have something in common with them. it's not easy meeting chicks once you get older. anything that helps smooth the transition is nice.
atlanta is a big SEC city, a lot of chicks from alabama, auburn ole miss, etc.
Try this method... embrace rejection. Go out today and approach every woman you're attracted to and ask for their number. When you get to 10 rejections, quit for the day. Always look forward to being rejected; this way you'll end up with many serendipitous opportunities. It works.
I love that. I am going to do that tonight.
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Try this method... embrace rejection. Go out today and approach every woman you're attracted to and ask for their number. When you get to 10 rejections, quit for the day. Always look forward to being rejected; this way you'll end up with many serendipitous opportunities. It works.
Wow- good question. I can go on and on about this. Lets put it this way- do what you can and marry the best one you like- obviously she has to say yes also. Worst case scenario, you can get divorced. Sounds wrong but guess what, females are not like guys, they are good at faking it- she can be a porn star in bed and smart as oprah for the first few year and then when you marry her you find out she makes bad decisions, has mountains of debt, and she doesn't want to have sex.
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Wow- good question. I can go on and on about this. Lets put it this way- do what you can and marry the best one you like- obviously she has to say yes also. Worst case scenario, you can get divorced. Sounds wrong but guess what, females are not like guys, they are good at faking it- she can be a porn star in bed and smart as oprah for the first few year and then when you marry her you find out she makes bad decisions, has mountains of debt, and she doesn't want to have sex.
I was married for 21 years to a woman I couldn't stand. I hated her miserable, spoiled, snotty fucking guts. I stayed because I had two great kids. I walked out on the miserable bitch six years ago. Her lawyers bloodied my nose something terrible. It was by far the best money I ever lost.
I met my fiancee two years ago at my buddies sons 9th grade football game. The thing I learned was that when I saw my girl leaning on the fence with her lovely long legs watching the game. I said to myself, FUCK IT, what do I have to lose. I walked up to her and introduced myself and asked her what her name is. DONT FUCKING EVER SETTLE like I did for 21 stinking years.
Great read
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Quote Originally Posted by MaxStretch:
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I was married for 21 years to a woman I couldn't stand. I hated her miserable, spoiled, snotty fucking guts. I stayed because I had two great kids. I walked out on the miserable bitch six years ago. Her lawyers bloodied my nose something terrible. It was by far the best money I ever lost.
I met my fiancee two years ago at my buddies sons 9th grade football game. The thing I learned was that when I saw my girl leaning on the fence with her lovely long legs watching the game. I said to myself, FUCK IT, what do I have to lose. I walked up to her and introduced myself and asked her what her name is. DONT FUCKING EVER SETTLE like I did for 21 stinking years.
When I lived in Birmingham, there were all kinds of hotties. I then moved to Mobile and it got better! Where are you?
I am in Mobile. Well I mean maybe it is partly my fault too. Like I said I am pretty broke so I dont go out a whole lot and maybe I am just going to the wrong places when I do. I mean there are a lot of really hot girls all over the place but I am just struggling to get one. Not knowing anyone here doesn't really help matters either.
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Quote Originally Posted by callmetim:
When I lived in Birmingham, there were all kinds of hotties. I then moved to Mobile and it got better! Where are you?
I am in Mobile. Well I mean maybe it is partly my fault too. Like I said I am pretty broke so I dont go out a whole lot and maybe I am just going to the wrong places when I do. I mean there are a lot of really hot girls all over the place but I am just struggling to get one. Not knowing anyone here doesn't really help matters either.
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