alcholism

Ya gotta stop thinking its anyone elses fault (i.e heredity and that you were born this way). You werent. Its not a disease. Its a mental weakness.

Multi billion dollar a year industry in rehab facitlities want everybody to believe it's a 'disease".. It isn't - it's a choice. 90% failure rate in rehab after discharge.

This truly is the hardest thing for people to learn. They have been drilled with this disease B.S. as if alcoholism was something you could catch, like the hiv. It is a mental weakness. STOP. It is that simple.

Good luck to you Kaz

What happened hawk?

PROBLEM.....with overcoming any of these 'addictions'?

  *drugs......alcohol.......sex even..........

Is that we LOVE to reassure ourselves that somehow WE are not at fault......unseen forces prevent us from being the man we want to be wtf.....plus most is seen as kinda cool.....until you run out of cash or go to jail........................................

The inability seemingly......to stop drinking?

  *usually suggests that your body simply metabolizes alcohol differently.....meaning that instead of being TOXIC / make you eventually feel worse....it instead acts as a stimulant might....meaning the more you drink......the BETTER you feel....AND..... if you are a compulsive basterd as well....also surrounding yourself with others that like to drink / pressure you to drink.........watch out.........

SURE.....focusing on OTHERS to solve your problem........might work occasionally

  *BUT how 'bout this approach.......don't be such a P-U-S-S-Y.......stare in that MIRROR son......"if it is to be....it's up to me" kinda thing.........cheesy but extremely effective

FOCUS...on something else.....like being as HEALTHY as you can be......construct the perfect diet.....try something novel > eat to fuel your body instead of as a form of pleasure......wanna go the bar?....go to the gym instead.....totally dedicate yourself to fitness.....you will find....especially as you begin to feel better...that there of course is simply no room for alcohol in your plan................

  *TRUE......as with other things you wanna stop doing...you might find that it is much easier to stop drinking..... if you stop focusing on .....not drinking ...........................