You're a baby, not being offensive just saying in age you're really young, moving in is a big deal I'd recommend knowing yourself a little more as the previous guy noted after 30 it changes. I was a lot more comfortable with myself once I hit that age and my perspective cleared up a lot. Point being I realized some things I thought were really unimportant are actually very important and vice versa.
And moving in's a lot different than you think it sounds like your mind's made up be just be advised you're going to see a lot of things you don't want to in the first few months and likely think of bailing, there'll be tough times. Just keep that in mind if you're doing it.
You're a baby, not being offensive just saying in age you're really young, moving in is a big deal I'd recommend knowing yourself a little more as the previous guy noted after 30 it changes. I was a lot more comfortable with myself once I hit that age and my perspective cleared up a lot. Point being I realized some things I thought were really unimportant are actually very important and vice versa.
And moving in's a lot different than you think it sounds like your mind's made up be just be advised you're going to see a lot of things you don't want to in the first few months and likely think of bailing, there'll be tough times. Just keep that in mind if you're doing it.
I am going to say this ..AD1260 you are a smart man.. I was never a positive person.. grew up in NYC and saw way to much negative stuff happen.. I am one of those people that even when I am happy , I am not... lol My mother is the same way , so I dont fight it, I just roll with it...I like being single , just my preference I guess.. I always look for adventure..I am easily bored...
Hey I was going to move to NC also in march, but it looks as if I might be staying in TN for awhile.. I heard it is nice in Raleigh area..
It is just the age that gets me , it is so young , i thought i knew everything at that age, but there is so much more to learn .. But hey give it a shot. One thing you can not do, is try to hold on if you see it starts to go south.. It is best to just let it go and start fresh.
Knox,
I appreciate this response. I apologize for being a assho*e to you in prior threads, it's nothing personal.
Sorry to judge you before I ever really understood---but yes, your upbringing definitely can shape you into someone you may not necessarily want to be. But hey, we all play the hands we are dealt.
Yeah, there are some real nice areas in Raleigh and it's not overwhelmingly large which I think is nice. NC State is in Raleigh and brings a decent touch to the town but isn't a college town per say.
Yes, I am relatively young compared to the majority of the guys on this forum. However, I don't claim to think I know everything but I do claim to know some things. Just like you, I am a gambler and I think this situation along with this girl is something I'd be willing to bet on.
Thanks again for the input, bud.
Quote Originally Posted by Knoxpoker:
I am going to say this ..AD1260 you are a smart man.. I was never a positive person.. grew up in NYC and saw way to much negative stuff happen.. I am one of those people that even when I am happy , I am not... lol My mother is the same way , so I dont fight it, I just roll with it...I like being single , just my preference I guess.. I always look for adventure..I am easily bored...
Hey I was going to move to NC also in march, but it looks as if I might be staying in TN for awhile.. I heard it is nice in Raleigh area..
It is just the age that gets me , it is so young , i thought i knew everything at that age, but there is so much more to learn .. But hey give it a shot. One thing you can not do, is try to hold on if you see it starts to go south.. It is best to just let it go and start fresh.
Knox,
I appreciate this response. I apologize for being a assho*e to you in prior threads, it's nothing personal.
Sorry to judge you before I ever really understood---but yes, your upbringing definitely can shape you into someone you may not necessarily want to be. But hey, we all play the hands we are dealt.
Yeah, there are some real nice areas in Raleigh and it's not overwhelmingly large which I think is nice. NC State is in Raleigh and brings a decent touch to the town but isn't a college town per say.
Yes, I am relatively young compared to the majority of the guys on this forum. However, I don't claim to think I know everything but I do claim to know some things. Just like you, I am a gambler and I think this situation along with this girl is something I'd be willing to bet on.
no joke it all depends on how many blowies she dishes out and the quality of said blowies. If this is already a problem you will one day be a salty old man paying asian masseuses to gargle your co.ck once a month
Messier, thanks for the honest response----butttt I really can't justify a legitimate response to this one. But thanks for the laugh.
PS---who's your favorite NFL play this weekend?
Quote Originally Posted by Messier-11:
no joke it all depends on how many blowies she dishes out and the quality of said blowies. If this is already a problem you will one day be a salty old man paying asian masseuses to gargle your co.ck once a month
Messier, thanks for the honest response----butttt I really can't justify a legitimate response to this one. But thanks for the laugh.
agree with vanzack. it's mandatory to live with a person before you get married. especially at your age.
also, i strongly encourage you to live in a few different cities at your age. you're young, you can be mobile, see different places, meet different people.
when you get older, more stable in your job, have kids, etc, it's hard to move around.
vanzack's lived in equatorial guinea for as long as he can remember. he went to cameroon once to see the national team play. don't be like that.
ClubDirt,
Thanks for the input and I like where your head is at. I grew up in Houston, went to school outside of Austin, moved to the Greensboro/Winston Salem area 3 years ago, now I am yearning to live and explore a new area. Just so happens I might be doing it with my girlfriend which to me, isn't a death sentence like some fellas make it out to be.
Cheers
Quote Originally Posted by ClubDirt:
agree with vanzack. it's mandatory to live with a person before you get married. especially at your age.
also, i strongly encourage you to live in a few different cities at your age. you're young, you can be mobile, see different places, meet different people.
when you get older, more stable in your job, have kids, etc, it's hard to move around.
vanzack's lived in equatorial guinea for as long as he can remember. he went to cameroon once to see the national team play. don't be like that.
ClubDirt,
Thanks for the input and I like where your head is at. I grew up in Houston, went to school outside of Austin, moved to the Greensboro/Winston Salem area 3 years ago, now I am yearning to live and explore a new area. Just so happens I might be doing it with my girlfriend which to me, isn't a death sentence like some fellas make it out to be.
Personally I'd ask somebody next door in the stall while I'm sitting on the shittter at an El Compaseno's about women advice before I'd come to Covers.
But since you asked.
If she's hot and you're ugly...you'd be a dope not to do it.
If you're hot and she's ugly...you'd be a dope to do it.
If you're both hot...you'd be a dope to do it, but still arrange neutral court hook ups.
If you're both ugly...fuckk it, what's one got to lose?
That's the real world. Where nobody cares about anything else except if she's hot and has a job that doesn't require handing out extra ketchup.
*But don't get married. That's when you lose everything.
Thanks for the input but I can't take this post seriously because I struggle to identify if I'm "hot or not" lmao. But thanks for the response man.
AND do not worry----marriage isn't anywhere in the near future.
Quote Originally Posted by TheDrizzle77:
Personally I'd ask somebody next door in the stall while I'm sitting on the shittter at an El Compaseno's about women advice before I'd come to Covers.
But since you asked.
If she's hot and you're ugly...you'd be a dope not to do it.
If you're hot and she's ugly...you'd be a dope to do it.
If you're both hot...you'd be a dope to do it, but still arrange neutral court hook ups.
If you're both ugly...fuckk it, what's one got to lose?
That's the real world. Where nobody cares about anything else except if she's hot and has a job that doesn't require handing out extra ketchup.
*But don't get married. That's when you lose everything.
Thanks for the input but I can't take this post seriously because I struggle to identify if I'm "hot or not" lmao. But thanks for the response man.
AND do not worry----marriage isn't anywhere in the near future.
Her West Point dad will prob beat the garbage outta you or else she will probably cheat on you with your friend Brad in a few years. Looks like a "lose-lose" scenario
Na, her West Point dad is a cool guy. One of the most relaxed, chill guys I've ever met. Crazy intelligent and likes to play golf with me…so I can't complain. Thanks for the input.
Quote Originally Posted by RalphCifaretto:
Her West Point dad will prob beat the garbage outta you or else she will probably cheat on you with your friend Brad in a few years. Looks like a "lose-lose" scenario
Na, her West Point dad is a cool guy. One of the most relaxed, chill guys I've ever met. Crazy intelligent and likes to play golf with me…so I can't complain. Thanks for the input.
I'm gonna have to get all Dr. Phil mixed with a little Dionne Warwick and her Psychic Friends Network on ya son.
It's not about degrees, job titles, money or whether or not she can truly be cool about our vices we have including poon which is all our biggest downfall. We will do anything and put up with a ton of BS just to move in with a poon dealer and have your fix anytime cause it's in house......BUT
You will see in time that dealers may appear to be cool with everything at first with hooking you up with primo product to get you hooked. Then the mood swings and paranoia kick in with aggressive actions actions fueled by irrational thinking due to feeling shortchanged.
So now the dealer wants payment before dealing you any more goods. But poon slangers have this imaginary emotional price log you with never be able to catch up and your I.OU.S are no longer good. So not able to get your fix at home so you will want to sample some new product because any dealer seems awesome till you find out how they treat you when they feel you crossed em. Enjoy it till it blows up and always do what yoy wanna do and if you don't have the guts to walk out the door while she's crying don't leave!!!!! Then you better not move in with her cause you will be in this for life.
Lol catch my drift?
Love it. Thanks, Salty. Hope all is well buddy.
Quote Originally Posted by SALTY:
I'm gonna have to get all Dr. Phil mixed with a little Dionne Warwick and her Psychic Friends Network on ya son.
It's not about degrees, job titles, money or whether or not she can truly be cool about our vices we have including poon which is all our biggest downfall. We will do anything and put up with a ton of BS just to move in with a poon dealer and have your fix anytime cause it's in house......BUT
You will see in time that dealers may appear to be cool with everything at first with hooking you up with primo product to get you hooked. Then the mood swings and paranoia kick in with aggressive actions actions fueled by irrational thinking due to feeling shortchanged.
So now the dealer wants payment before dealing you any more goods. But poon slangers have this imaginary emotional price log you with never be able to catch up and your I.OU.S are no longer good. So not able to get your fix at home so you will want to sample some new product because any dealer seems awesome till you find out how they treat you when they feel you crossed em. Enjoy it till it blows up and always do what yoy wanna do and if you don't have the guts to walk out the door while she's crying don't leave!!!!! Then you better not move in with her cause you will be in this for life.
You're 26? You're still a kid. Go ahead and act like one. Don't try be somebody you're not (adult) and do something stupid (get married). Be yourself (child) and just have fun (get drunk, do some light drugs, have a lotta sex, gamble, etc, etc). Worry about wearing your big boy pants when you're 40ish. Good luck to you.
Yes, I am 26. I appreciate you thinking I am still a kid, but unfortunately, I am not
Sadly, the law, the banks, jobs, the government, etc. don't see it that way!
I've done plenty of getting drunk, doing some light drugs, and partying. Been to college, been there done that.
I'm not necessarily interested in "wearing my big boy pants" quite yet. However, you have to "grow up sometime" and I think this is a big part in that. But more importantly I am interested in seeing if our relationship can actually grow and prosper from living together as opposed to it being a detriment or burdensome.
"wearing my big boy pants" to ME consists of parenting and paying a mortgage----I'm no where near there yet my friend. Thanks for the response!
Quote Originally Posted by cave0707:
You're 26? You're still a kid. Go ahead and act like one. Don't try be somebody you're not (adult) and do something stupid (get married). Be yourself (child) and just have fun (get drunk, do some light drugs, have a lotta sex, gamble, etc, etc). Worry about wearing your big boy pants when you're 40ish. Good luck to you.
Yes, I am 26. I appreciate you thinking I am still a kid, but unfortunately, I am not
Sadly, the law, the banks, jobs, the government, etc. don't see it that way!
I've done plenty of getting drunk, doing some light drugs, and partying. Been to college, been there done that.
I'm not necessarily interested in "wearing my big boy pants" quite yet. However, you have to "grow up sometime" and I think this is a big part in that. But more importantly I am interested in seeing if our relationship can actually grow and prosper from living together as opposed to it being a detriment or burdensome.
"wearing my big boy pants" to ME consists of parenting and paying a mortgage----I'm no where near there yet my friend. Thanks for the response!
Go for it. If ya think you might have a keeper, throwing her back in hopes of finding a better one is probably not a smart idea. Catch and release is cool for the most part, but when you get one to put on the wall you dont get greedy. Theres lots of fish in the sea, but most of them are bottom feeders or too hard to catch.
Put this one on the stringer and see how living together goes.
SPOILER: You will literally want to set this woman on fire several times. You will question yourself and hate life at times. However, this is gonna happen with any women you live with...its not just your lady. If you want to be like the previous guys and be "single and happy" at 40, go for. I personally dont know of anybody like that. The game changes after 30, because you still want the 22 year old girl, but they have now become fairly unattainable....so you spend a lot of time being "happily miserable" all alone. Its a give and take....
bol sir
Train,
Thanks for a thorough and honest response. You make great points and I respect your opinion regarding the situation. Yeah, she definitely seems to have "keeper" qualities…FAR from being close to a bottom feeder lmao.
SO I think that the risk is worth it my friend. Thanks man. Your advice does NOT go unheard.
Quote Originally Posted by TRAIN69:
Go for it. If ya think you might have a keeper, throwing her back in hopes of finding a better one is probably not a smart idea. Catch and release is cool for the most part, but when you get one to put on the wall you dont get greedy. Theres lots of fish in the sea, but most of them are bottom feeders or too hard to catch.
Put this one on the stringer and see how living together goes.
SPOILER: You will literally want to set this woman on fire several times. You will question yourself and hate life at times. However, this is gonna happen with any women you live with...its not just your lady. If you want to be like the previous guys and be "single and happy" at 40, go for. I personally dont know of anybody like that. The game changes after 30, because you still want the 22 year old girl, but they have now become fairly unattainable....so you spend a lot of time being "happily miserable" all alone. Its a give and take....
bol sir
Train,
Thanks for a thorough and honest response. You make great points and I respect your opinion regarding the situation. Yeah, she definitely seems to have "keeper" qualities…FAR from being close to a bottom feeder lmao.
SO I think that the risk is worth it my friend. Thanks man. Your advice does NOT go unheard.
You're a baby, not being offensive just saying in age you're really young, moving in is a big deal I'd recommend knowing yourself a little more as the previous guy noted after 30 it changes. I was a lot more comfortable with myself once I hit that age and my perspective cleared up a lot. Point being I realized some things I thought were really unimportant are actually very important and vice versa.
And moving in's a lot different than you think it sounds like your mind's made up be just be advised you're going to see a lot of things you don't want to in the first few months and likely think of bailing, there'll be tough times. Just keep that in mind if you're doing it.
Thanks for the thoughtful response my friend.
I'm just a baby? To who? My mom, maybe. To you? I guess I could be. But I am "a baby" with adult sized problems and responsibilities. So I mean, when is it time to actually start acting like an adult? When my positive/productive "youth" has passed me by and I'm middle aged and pissed off? Again I ask, why not now?
Things might change after 30---but good thing I'm only 26 and the lease is only for 1 year
Yeah man, in a weird way I want to see those things I don't want to see and I also want to be surprised with positive things that I didn't think I'd ever see. To me, that's a part of life and a part of growth. I mean in the big picture, thinking wayyyyyyyyy down the road…assuming we are still together and moving on to bigger and better things, I think I would be grateful to have seen those things as opposed to not seeing them.
Thanks for the info my friend, I appreciate it. I hope you are making some money this week!
Quote Originally Posted by mightiestmojo:
You're a baby, not being offensive just saying in age you're really young, moving in is a big deal I'd recommend knowing yourself a little more as the previous guy noted after 30 it changes. I was a lot more comfortable with myself once I hit that age and my perspective cleared up a lot. Point being I realized some things I thought were really unimportant are actually very important and vice versa.
And moving in's a lot different than you think it sounds like your mind's made up be just be advised you're going to see a lot of things you don't want to in the first few months and likely think of bailing, there'll be tough times. Just keep that in mind if you're doing it.
Thanks for the thoughtful response my friend.
I'm just a baby? To who? My mom, maybe. To you? I guess I could be. But I am "a baby" with adult sized problems and responsibilities. So I mean, when is it time to actually start acting like an adult? When my positive/productive "youth" has passed me by and I'm middle aged and pissed off? Again I ask, why not now?
Things might change after 30---but good thing I'm only 26 and the lease is only for 1 year
Yeah man, in a weird way I want to see those things I don't want to see and I also want to be surprised with positive things that I didn't think I'd ever see. To me, that's a part of life and a part of growth. I mean in the big picture, thinking wayyyyyyyyy down the road…assuming we are still together and moving on to bigger and better things, I think I would be grateful to have seen those things as opposed to not seeing them.
Thanks for the info my friend, I appreciate it. I hope you are making some money this week!
Thanks for the input and I like where your head is at. I grew up in Houston, went to school outside of Austin, moved to the Greensboro/Winston Salem area 3 years ago, now I am yearning to live and explore a new area. Just so happens I might be doing it with my girlfriend which to me, isn't a death sentence like some fellas make it out to be.
Cheers
it's far from a death sentence. at worst, you'll have someone you know there who can help you get acquainted and then maybe you break up and stay if you like it or go somewhere else.
Quote Originally Posted by ad1260:
ClubDirt,
Thanks for the input and I like where your head is at. I grew up in Houston, went to school outside of Austin, moved to the Greensboro/Winston Salem area 3 years ago, now I am yearning to live and explore a new area. Just so happens I might be doing it with my girlfriend which to me, isn't a death sentence like some fellas make it out to be.
Cheers
it's far from a death sentence. at worst, you'll have someone you know there who can help you get acquainted and then maybe you break up and stay if you like it or go somewhere else.
I never really understood the whole "if you are asking/bringing it up then you are obviously unsure and need reassurance" thought process? I mean, most people like to hear positive/supportive things. However, I am a realist with a touch of hopeless romantic in me. I have no shame. I am fully aware of the risk/reward factor associated with this decision.
But I mean, what can I say? She's a better person than me with fewer vices and ACCEPTS the few I do have….a little sports betting and a little poker playing. How can I complain?
Club,
Very true my friend. Thanks for the support.
I never really understood the whole "if you are asking/bringing it up then you are obviously unsure and need reassurance" thought process? I mean, most people like to hear positive/supportive things. However, I am a realist with a touch of hopeless romantic in me. I have no shame. I am fully aware of the risk/reward factor associated with this decision.
But I mean, what can I say? She's a better person than me with fewer vices and ACCEPTS the few I do have….a little sports betting and a little poker playing. How can I complain?
I'm just a baby? To who? My mom, maybe. To you? I guess I could be. But I am "a baby" with adult sized problems and responsibilities. So I mean, when is it time to actually start acting like an adult? When my positive/productive "youth" has passed me by and I'm middle aged and pissed off? Again I ask, why not now?
Things might change after 30---but good thing I'm only 26 and the lease is only for 1 year
Yeah man, in a weird way I want to see those things I don't want to see and I also want to be surprised with positive things that I didn't think I'd ever see. To me, that's a part of life and a part of growth. I mean in the big picture, thinking wayyyyyyyyy down the road…assuming we are still together and moving on to bigger and better things, I think I would be grateful to have seen those things as opposed to not seeing them.
Thanks for the info my friend, I appreciate it. I hope you are making some money this week!
Goodl luck to you too.
The baby comment wasn't meant to be offensive. Just trying to say you will do a lot of personal growing in your early 30s or at least it seems to work that way for most people I know so I am glad I waited 'til I knew myself better to settle down but everyone is different . Main thing is you're happy so best of luck.
Quote Originally Posted by ad1260:
Thanks for the thoughtful response my friend.
I'm just a baby? To who? My mom, maybe. To you? I guess I could be. But I am "a baby" with adult sized problems and responsibilities. So I mean, when is it time to actually start acting like an adult? When my positive/productive "youth" has passed me by and I'm middle aged and pissed off? Again I ask, why not now?
Things might change after 30---but good thing I'm only 26 and the lease is only for 1 year
Yeah man, in a weird way I want to see those things I don't want to see and I also want to be surprised with positive things that I didn't think I'd ever see. To me, that's a part of life and a part of growth. I mean in the big picture, thinking wayyyyyyyyy down the road…assuming we are still together and moving on to bigger and better things, I think I would be grateful to have seen those things as opposed to not seeing them.
Thanks for the info my friend, I appreciate it. I hope you are making some money this week!
Goodl luck to you too.
The baby comment wasn't meant to be offensive. Just trying to say you will do a lot of personal growing in your early 30s or at least it seems to work that way for most people I know so I am glad I waited 'til I knew myself better to settle down but everyone is different . Main thing is you're happy so best of luck.
The baby comment wasn't meant to be offensive. Just trying to say you will do a lot of personal growing in your early 30s or at least it seems to work that way for most people I know so I am glad I waited 'til I knew myself better to settle down but everyone is different . Main thing is you're happy so best of luck.
No offense taken, sir. Thanks again for the well wishes---BOL and I really do appreciate you taking the time to chime in.
Quote Originally Posted by mightiestmojo:
Goodl luck to you too.
The baby comment wasn't meant to be offensive. Just trying to say you will do a lot of personal growing in your early 30s or at least it seems to work that way for most people I know so I am glad I waited 'til I knew myself better to settle down but everyone is different . Main thing is you're happy so best of luck.
No offense taken, sir. Thanks again for the well wishes---BOL and I really do appreciate you taking the time to chime in.
I'm gonna have to get all Dr. Phil mixed with a little Dionne Warwick and her Psychic Friends Network on ya son.
It's not about degrees, job titles, money or whether or not she can truly be cool about our vices we have including poon which is all our biggest downfall. We will do anything and put up with a ton of BS just to move in with a poon dealer and have your fix anytime cause it's in house......BUT
You will see in time that dealers may appear to be cool with everything at first with hooking you up with primo product to get you hooked. Then the mood swings and paranoia kick in with aggressive actions actions fueled by irrational thinking due to feeling shortchanged.
So now the dealer wants payment before dealing you any more goods. But poon slangers have this imaginary emotional price log you with never be able to catch up and your I.OU.S are no longer good. So not able to get your fix at home so you will want to sample some new product because any dealer seems awesome till you find out how they treat you when they feel you crossed em. Enjoy it till it blows up and always do what yoy wanna do and if you don't have the guts to walk out the door while she's crying don't leave!!!!! Then you better not move in with her cause you will be in this for life.
Lol catch my drift?
Salty, you are one wise man.
Quote Originally Posted by SALTY:
I'm gonna have to get all Dr. Phil mixed with a little Dionne Warwick and her Psychic Friends Network on ya son.
It's not about degrees, job titles, money or whether or not she can truly be cool about our vices we have including poon which is all our biggest downfall. We will do anything and put up with a ton of BS just to move in with a poon dealer and have your fix anytime cause it's in house......BUT
You will see in time that dealers may appear to be cool with everything at first with hooking you up with primo product to get you hooked. Then the mood swings and paranoia kick in with aggressive actions actions fueled by irrational thinking due to feeling shortchanged.
So now the dealer wants payment before dealing you any more goods. But poon slangers have this imaginary emotional price log you with never be able to catch up and your I.OU.S are no longer good. So not able to get your fix at home so you will want to sample some new product because any dealer seems awesome till you find out how they treat you when they feel you crossed em. Enjoy it till it blows up and always do what yoy wanna do and if you don't have the guts to walk out the door while she's crying don't leave!!!!! Then you better not move in with her cause you will be in this for life.
There's no point in doing anything unless you go all out. All you have to do is go all out and you'll have no regrets. Mistakes can't be regrets later. They're just mistakes. Everybody makes them. Put everything into the relationship and let the chips fall where they may. If it doesn't work out, you'll be able to say you gave it your best. That's life. It's a series of successes and failures.
In the grand scheme of things, money has nothing to do with it. Some couples let in get in the way, but if it's meant to be, money doesn't play any part. It's only a distraction.
There's gonna be things she does that irritate you, and vice versa, but don't focus on that. Focus on the good. Later on, and who knows when, both of you will know if it's gonna work. In the meantime, have fun. Enjoy it.
Good luck ad.
Peace.
There's no point in doing anything unless you go all out. All you have to do is go all out and you'll have no regrets. Mistakes can't be regrets later. They're just mistakes. Everybody makes them. Put everything into the relationship and let the chips fall where they may. If it doesn't work out, you'll be able to say you gave it your best. That's life. It's a series of successes and failures.
In the grand scheme of things, money has nothing to do with it. Some couples let in get in the way, but if it's meant to be, money doesn't play any part. It's only a distraction.
There's gonna be things she does that irritate you, and vice versa, but don't focus on that. Focus on the good. Later on, and who knows when, both of you will know if it's gonna work. In the meantime, have fun. Enjoy it.
I personally know the linesmaker and news of ad1260's response to how his girl is not an alien made him a huge underdog. Or i should say favorite depending on how you look at it.
I personally know the linesmaker and news of ad1260's response to how his girl is not an alien made him a huge underdog. Or i should say favorite depending on how you look at it.
There's no point in doing anything unless you go all out. All you have to do is go all out and you'll have no regrets. Mistakes can't be regrets later. They're just mistakes. Everybody makes them. Put everything into the relationship and let the chips fall where they may. If it doesn't work out, you'll be able to say you gave it your best. That's life. It's a series of successes and failures.
In the grand scheme of things, money has nothing to do with it. Some couples let in get in the way, but if it's meant to be, money doesn't play any part. It's only a distraction.
There's gonna be things she does that irritate you, and vice versa, but don't focus on that. Focus on the good. Later on, and who knows when, both of you will know if it's gonna work. In the meantime, have fun. Enjoy it.
Good luck ad.
Peace.
Steel---I agree, sir. Thanks for the input my friend. I hope school and your health are going very well!
Salty,
I appreciate the light hearted commentary-----where are you at in NC?
Quote Originally Posted by SteelCash:
There's no point in doing anything unless you go all out. All you have to do is go all out and you'll have no regrets. Mistakes can't be regrets later. They're just mistakes. Everybody makes them. Put everything into the relationship and let the chips fall where they may. If it doesn't work out, you'll be able to say you gave it your best. That's life. It's a series of successes and failures.
In the grand scheme of things, money has nothing to do with it. Some couples let in get in the way, but if it's meant to be, money doesn't play any part. It's only a distraction.
There's gonna be things she does that irritate you, and vice versa, but don't focus on that. Focus on the good. Later on, and who knows when, both of you will know if it's gonna work. In the meantime, have fun. Enjoy it.
Good luck ad.
Peace.
Steel---I agree, sir. Thanks for the input my friend. I hope school and your health are going very well!
Salty,
I appreciate the light hearted commentary-----where are you at in NC?
There's no point in doing anything unless you go all out. All you have to do is go all out and you'll have no regrets. Mistakes can't be regrets later. They're just mistakes. Everybody makes them. Put everything into the relationship and let the chips fall where they may. If it doesn't work out, you'll be able to say you gave it your best. That's life. It's a series of successes and failures. In the grand scheme of things, money has nothing to do with it. Some couples let in get in the way, but if it's meant to be, money doesn't play any part. It's only a distraction. There's gonna be things she does that irritate you, and vice versa, but don't focus on that. Focus on the good. Later on, and who knows when, both of you will know if it's gonna work. In the meantime, have fun. Enjoy it.Good luck ad. Peace.
Steel---I agree, sir. Thanks for the input my friend. I hope school and your health are going very well!Salty,I appreciate the light hearted commentary-----where are you at in NC?
Was staying at a place on the Currituck Sound in an area called the Outer Banks for about 6 months. Now am back banging in Little Rock.
Quote Originally Posted by ad1260:
Quote Originally Posted by SteelCash:
There's no point in doing anything unless you go all out. All you have to do is go all out and you'll have no regrets. Mistakes can't be regrets later. They're just mistakes. Everybody makes them. Put everything into the relationship and let the chips fall where they may. If it doesn't work out, you'll be able to say you gave it your best. That's life. It's a series of successes and failures. In the grand scheme of things, money has nothing to do with it. Some couples let in get in the way, but if it's meant to be, money doesn't play any part. It's only a distraction. There's gonna be things she does that irritate you, and vice versa, but don't focus on that. Focus on the good. Later on, and who knows when, both of you will know if it's gonna work. In the meantime, have fun. Enjoy it.Good luck ad. Peace.
Steel---I agree, sir. Thanks for the input my friend. I hope school and your health are going very well!Salty,I appreciate the light hearted commentary-----where are you at in NC?
Was staying at a place on the Currituck Sound in an area called the Outer Banks for about 6 months. Now am back banging in Little Rock.
Go for it, I'm 26 and moved in with my girlfriend last year. Major change (mainly b/c I was used to 6 years of living like a college kid). You'll be okay. You really do learn more about each other when you move in with each other. Best of luck
Go for it, I'm 26 and moved in with my girlfriend last year. Major change (mainly b/c I was used to 6 years of living like a college kid). You'll be okay. You really do learn more about each other when you move in with each other. Best of luck
Messier, thanks for the honest response----butttt I really can't justify a legitimate response to this one. But thanks for the laugh.
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