seriously, this is the third time i've heard of guys on covers asking how to ask out their bank teller. not sure what it is with these bank tellers these days
my first thought each time: this girl knows how much money you have in the bank.
how about this, though: ask her for a certified check for $40 to the nearest florist. send the flowers to her with a note that says "thanks for the certified check, my number is 555-5555"
seriously, this is the third time i've heard of guys on covers asking how to ask out their bank teller. not sure what it is with these bank tellers these days
my first thought each time: this girl knows how much money you have in the bank.
how about this, though: ask her for a certified check for $40 to the nearest florist. send the flowers to her with a note that says "thanks for the certified check, my number is 555-5555"
Are you kidding? I thought you were concerned about getting embarrassed. Don't make a big deal about it, just ask if she wants to go for some drinks or food after work. If she goes and you have fun, then ask her out. What is so hard about that?
Are you kidding? I thought you were concerned about getting embarrassed. Don't make a big deal about it, just ask if she wants to go for some drinks or food after work. If she goes and you have fun, then ask her out. What is so hard about that?
You could write her a short note. Something like, "In the interest of re-living the 8th grade....and not embarassing myself or yourself in front of your customers, I was wondering if you would be interested in grabbing a cup of coffee or a drink some time. If you'd be interested, give me a call sometime. My cell phone number is ___________. And don't worry, I'm not an ax murderer and I don't bite. If I don't hear from you, I'll assume you are not not available and I'll still be left with my dignity! And I promise I won't take my business elsewhere no matter what."
A little humor goes a long way. And you avoid an potentially uncomfortable situation for both of you.
Just put it in an envelope with her name on it and give it to her after your transaction is complete. Just say something like, "thanks and have a great day. Oh, and this is for you." And hand over the envelope.
You could write her a short note. Something like, "In the interest of re-living the 8th grade....and not embarassing myself or yourself in front of your customers, I was wondering if you would be interested in grabbing a cup of coffee or a drink some time. If you'd be interested, give me a call sometime. My cell phone number is ___________. And don't worry, I'm not an ax murderer and I don't bite. If I don't hear from you, I'll assume you are not not available and I'll still be left with my dignity! And I promise I won't take my business elsewhere no matter what."
A little humor goes a long way. And you avoid an potentially uncomfortable situation for both of you.
Just put it in an envelope with her name on it and give it to her after your transaction is complete. Just say something like, "thanks and have a great day. Oh, and this is for you." And hand over the envelope.
how about this, though: ask her for a certified check for $40 to the nearest florist. send the flowers to her with a note that says "thanks for the certified check, my number is 555-5555"
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This is really good. But I'd make it a little more touchy feely. The above sounds like you're assuming she is going to call. I'd ASK her if she'd ever want to get a cup of coffee or a drink.
how about this, though: ask her for a certified check for $40 to the nearest florist. send the flowers to her with a note that says "thanks for the certified check, my number is 555-5555"
_______
This is really good. But I'd make it a little more touchy feely. The above sounds like you're assuming she is going to call. I'd ASK her if she'd ever want to get a cup of coffee or a drink.
thats fun hutch.
alot of funny comments in here
legwand...go with gutchecks approach if you have personality....hutch's note sounds like its up your alley
thats fun hutch.
alot of funny comments in here
legwand...go with gutchecks approach if you have personality....hutch's note sounds like its up your alley
That's the big deal....embarassing her. She almost has no right answer. She says yes and now you're exchanging phone numbers as everyone watches. She says no, and she is going to be as uncomfortable as you.
That's the big deal....embarassing her. She almost has no right answer. She says yes and now you're exchanging phone numbers as everyone watches. She says no, and she is going to be as uncomfortable as you.
Definitely less is more in this situation.
Definitely less is more in this situation.
Yes, less is more. It has to be like a secret admirer type of gift and not an I am madly in love with you and you are my girlfriend type of gift.
Yes, less is more. It has to be like a secret admirer type of gift and not an I am madly in love with you and you are my girlfriend type of gift.
i wholeheartedly disagree with the single red rose idea. that shit is terrible. girls hate single red roses. this isn't the Bachelor reality show here. If she get's one red rose, she throws it out so she doesn't have to carry it home. if she gets a bouquet, people at the office think she's special and she puts them in a vase and cares for them for a week. Get her a bouquet of Lillies, shouldn't be more than $15-20. don't get carnations, don't get anything with baby's breath in it.
if she says no, she says no. she won't embarrass you, she'll appreciate the try. definitely still go to the place, who knows, maybe she has a lame ass boyfriend that she will break up with in a few weeks. if she says no, you should brush it off and continue to flirt with her MORE, every time you go. she'll admire it and you'll be "planting seeds" as they say in 40 Year Old Virgin.
i wholeheartedly disagree with the single red rose idea. that shit is terrible. girls hate single red roses. this isn't the Bachelor reality show here. If she get's one red rose, she throws it out so she doesn't have to carry it home. if she gets a bouquet, people at the office think she's special and she puts them in a vase and cares for them for a week. Get her a bouquet of Lillies, shouldn't be more than $15-20. don't get carnations, don't get anything with baby's breath in it.
if she says no, she says no. she won't embarrass you, she'll appreciate the try. definitely still go to the place, who knows, maybe she has a lame ass boyfriend that she will break up with in a few weeks. if she says no, you should brush it off and continue to flirt with her MORE, every time you go. she'll admire it and you'll be "planting seeds" as they say in 40 Year Old Virgin.
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