Take risks. Start with small ones and then get bolder. Do something you normally wouldn't do everyday and add some excitement to your life. Talk to one of those hot chicks. Who cares if you get rejected or she won't talk to you. Maybe you will get incredibly lucky. Tell yourself that you are lucky and blessed even if you don't believe it. I mean what do you have to lose. If she rejects you f*ck it. Just keep trying with everything.
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Take risks. Start with small ones and then get bolder. Do something you normally wouldn't do everyday and add some excitement to your life. Talk to one of those hot chicks. Who cares if you get rejected or she won't talk to you. Maybe you will get incredibly lucky. Tell yourself that you are lucky and blessed even if you don't believe it. I mean what do you have to lose. If she rejects you f*ck it. Just keep trying with everything.
get a prescription to xanax. Suck it up. Think about all the starving people in Africa and how much better you have it than the people in japan. You are probably in the top 1% percentile of quality of life in this world and you don't even know it.
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get a prescription to xanax. Suck it up. Think about all the starving people in Africa and how much better you have it than the people in japan. You are probably in the top 1% percentile of quality of life in this world and you don't even know it.
when I am troubled, I go surfing to clear my mind. The ocean and waves seem to cleanse all problems of life away. riding a wave is timeless and fun and healthy. The sun and blue water and young bikini clad gals who surf make it wonderful. don't let your troubles get you down. if you can't go surfing, try an acai berry fruit bowl with crunchy granola. you will never go back to smoothies again!
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when I am troubled, I go surfing to clear my mind. The ocean and waves seem to cleanse all problems of life away. riding a wave is timeless and fun and healthy. The sun and blue water and young bikini clad gals who surf make it wonderful. don't let your troubles get you down. if you can't go surfing, try an acai berry fruit bowl with crunchy granola. you will never go back to smoothies again!
when I am troubled, I go surfing to clear my mind. The ocean and waves seem to cleanse all problems of life away. riding a wave is timeless and fun and healthy. The sun and blue water and young bikini clad gals who surf make it wonderful. don't let your troubles get you down. if you can't go surfing, try an acai berry fruit bowl with crunchy granola. you will never go back to smoothies again!
You're going to need a song to go with that.
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Quote Originally Posted by ShadowWarrior:
when I am troubled, I go surfing to clear my mind. The ocean and waves seem to cleanse all problems of life away. riding a wave is timeless and fun and healthy. The sun and blue water and young bikini clad gals who surf make it wonderful. don't let your troubles get you down. if you can't go surfing, try an acai berry fruit bowl with crunchy granola. you will never go back to smoothies again!
Take risks. Start with small ones and then get bolder. Do something you normally wouldn't do everyday and add some excitement to your life. Talk to one of those hot chicks. Who cares if you get rejected or she won't talk to you. Maybe you will get incredibly lucky. Tell yourself that you are lucky and blessed even if you don't believe it. I mean what do you have to lose. If she rejects you f*ck it. Just keep trying with everything.
This is great advice. I will talk to the young women and tell what happened. I hope they don't find me filthy. I don't take showers but once every week or 2. This isn't such a big deal in the winter but in the summer it can be a big deal.
I think my body may reject a shower. What if I take a shower and instead of smelling good I smell bad? If that happened I don't know if I could live with myself. I don't think it's worth the risk.
You are right though, I should just be brave, talk to them, and if they spit on my shoes then I will just cry and moan about it like I usually do.
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Quote Originally Posted by Kazual12:
Take risks. Start with small ones and then get bolder. Do something you normally wouldn't do everyday and add some excitement to your life. Talk to one of those hot chicks. Who cares if you get rejected or she won't talk to you. Maybe you will get incredibly lucky. Tell yourself that you are lucky and blessed even if you don't believe it. I mean what do you have to lose. If she rejects you f*ck it. Just keep trying with everything.
This is great advice. I will talk to the young women and tell what happened. I hope they don't find me filthy. I don't take showers but once every week or 2. This isn't such a big deal in the winter but in the summer it can be a big deal.
I think my body may reject a shower. What if I take a shower and instead of smelling good I smell bad? If that happened I don't know if I could live with myself. I don't think it's worth the risk.
You are right though, I should just be brave, talk to them, and if they spit on my shoes then I will just cry and moan about it like I usually do.
Buiscuiteater thank you so much brother for everything you have done for me. You are a special person biscuiteater. I now dream of a day where I have hope.
I really hope you guys can accept that I created a new thread. I will be smoking crack, I mean posting my day to day crap in the new thread. A thread full of hope.
Buiscuiteater thank you so much brother for everything you have done for me. You are a special person biscuiteater. I now dream of a day where I have hope.
I really hope you guys can accept that I created a new thread. I will be smoking crack, I mean posting my day to day crap in the new thread. A thread full of hope.
quit being so fucking selfish. it's not all about you. if you're feeling down, go out and help people. go to the fucking homeless shelter and serve food. then try to feel bad about yourself after that
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quit being so fucking selfish. it's not all about you. if you're feeling down, go out and help people. go to the fucking homeless shelter and serve food. then try to feel bad about yourself after that
This thread really hits home for me. After I dropped out of college I spent the next 10 years feeling like this. Spending my days day dreaming of a better life and what I would do if I had this much money or that much money. I loved eating a huge lunch and then taking about a 4 hour nap just so I could dream and burn through another day. Tommorrow will be better I always thought, tommorrow is the day my ship comes in.
I really cut back on drinking and got myself into decent shape by losing 30 pounds. I would really advise against Xanax or any other medication. It's just going to turn you into a Zombie that feels nothing. The sexually side effects they always refer to means not being able to get it up because your emotions can't go high or low.
My finanical situation is hardly where I want it to be and its very frustrating to me also. They say do something you love and you will never work a day. Well good luck finding a job you love. I started my own small business. It's hardly something I would do if I didn't have to, but at least I don't have some idiot screaming at me to work faster for 8 bucks and hour. I would say find something you can tolerate doing everyday. If you can work for yourself at something, do it. Hell I got a buddy who watches kids during the day at his house. Not going to win you any man points but I go over there sometimes and wind up hanging out for 2-3 hours playing the wii and games with him and the kids. He is not going to become a millionare, but makes over a grand a week and has a good time doing it.
Good luck to you and I hope you get the help you need.
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This thread really hits home for me. After I dropped out of college I spent the next 10 years feeling like this. Spending my days day dreaming of a better life and what I would do if I had this much money or that much money. I loved eating a huge lunch and then taking about a 4 hour nap just so I could dream and burn through another day. Tommorrow will be better I always thought, tommorrow is the day my ship comes in.
I really cut back on drinking and got myself into decent shape by losing 30 pounds. I would really advise against Xanax or any other medication. It's just going to turn you into a Zombie that feels nothing. The sexually side effects they always refer to means not being able to get it up because your emotions can't go high or low.
My finanical situation is hardly where I want it to be and its very frustrating to me also. They say do something you love and you will never work a day. Well good luck finding a job you love. I started my own small business. It's hardly something I would do if I didn't have to, but at least I don't have some idiot screaming at me to work faster for 8 bucks and hour. I would say find something you can tolerate doing everyday. If you can work for yourself at something, do it. Hell I got a buddy who watches kids during the day at his house. Not going to win you any man points but I go over there sometimes and wind up hanging out for 2-3 hours playing the wii and games with him and the kids. He is not going to become a millionare, but makes over a grand a week and has a good time doing it.
Good luck to you and I hope you get the help you need.
This thread really hits home for me. After I dropped out of college I spent the next 10 years feeling like this. Spending my days day dreaming of a better life and what I would do if I had this much money or that much money. I loved eating a huge lunch and then taking about a 4 hour nap just so I could dream and burn through another day. Tommorrow will be better I always thought, tommorrow is the day my ship comes in.
I really cut back on drinking and got myself into decent shape by losing 30 pounds. I would really advise against Xanax or any other medication. It's just going to turn you into a Zombie that feels nothing. The sexually side effects they always refer to means not being able to get it up because your emotions can't go high or low.
My finanical situation is hardly where I want it to be and its very frustrating to me also. They say do something you love and you will never work a day. Well good luck finding a job you love. I started my own small business. It's hardly something I would do if I didn't have to, but at least I don't have some idiot screaming at me to work faster for 8 bucks and hour. I would say find something you can tolerate doing everyday. If you can work for yourself at something, do it. Hell I got a buddy who watches kids during the day at his house. Not going to win you any man points but I go over there sometimes and wind up hanging out for 2-3 hours playing the wii and games with him and the kids. He is not going to become a millionare, but makes over a grand a week and has a good time doing it.
Good luck to you and I hope you get the help you need.
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Quote Originally Posted by SUMMEROFHUNTER:
This thread really hits home for me. After I dropped out of college I spent the next 10 years feeling like this. Spending my days day dreaming of a better life and what I would do if I had this much money or that much money. I loved eating a huge lunch and then taking about a 4 hour nap just so I could dream and burn through another day. Tommorrow will be better I always thought, tommorrow is the day my ship comes in.
I really cut back on drinking and got myself into decent shape by losing 30 pounds. I would really advise against Xanax or any other medication. It's just going to turn you into a Zombie that feels nothing. The sexually side effects they always refer to means not being able to get it up because your emotions can't go high or low.
My finanical situation is hardly where I want it to be and its very frustrating to me also. They say do something you love and you will never work a day. Well good luck finding a job you love. I started my own small business. It's hardly something I would do if I didn't have to, but at least I don't have some idiot screaming at me to work faster for 8 bucks and hour. I would say find something you can tolerate doing everyday. If you can work for yourself at something, do it. Hell I got a buddy who watches kids during the day at his house. Not going to win you any man points but I go over there sometimes and wind up hanging out for 2-3 hours playing the wii and games with him and the kids. He is not going to become a millionare, but makes over a grand a week and has a good time doing it.
Good luck to you and I hope you get the help you need.
"The Amish will put out an add in the paper looking for males to render semen for impregnate females. The male must do so with sheet covering the female from the waist up. Also, the local pastor would be present to observe. The goal is to diversify genetics without keeping the male around. Basically a sperm bank the Amish way. The males that do so are nick-named Amish poppers."
You should look into this Proto. I hear they pay well so you could get some seed money for services rendered.
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"The Amish will put out an add in the paper looking for males to render semen for impregnate females. The male must do so with sheet covering the female from the waist up. Also, the local pastor would be present to observe. The goal is to diversify genetics without keeping the male around. Basically a sperm bank the Amish way. The males that do so are nick-named Amish poppers."
You should look into this Proto. I hear they pay well so you could get some seed money for services rendered.
Proto, you dont seem as messed up as you are projecting to me....
The fact that you are aware of what is accurately bugging you, speaks volumes since most deny and avoid...
Keep it tight, work hard, don't screw anyone over, make some cash....and everything will fall into place. box is secondary, and if you act like you usually do not care, you will get laid plenty as I always did in my 20s and 30s.......
That being said...what the hell does anyone talk to a "hot bod" 18 yr old anyway?
Yeah yeah...I am just boinking her so what? well, my experience also says most 18 yr olds cant and don't know what to do in bed like the average "hot" 30 yr old chick....My .02 bubba....
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Proto, you dont seem as messed up as you are projecting to me....
The fact that you are aware of what is accurately bugging you, speaks volumes since most deny and avoid...
Keep it tight, work hard, don't screw anyone over, make some cash....and everything will fall into place. box is secondary, and if you act like you usually do not care, you will get laid plenty as I always did in my 20s and 30s.......
That being said...what the hell does anyone talk to a "hot bod" 18 yr old anyway?
Yeah yeah...I am just boinking her so what? well, my experience also says most 18 yr olds cant and don't know what to do in bed like the average "hot" 30 yr old chick....My .02 bubba....
heres your problem and its a common one. you want the ice cream before the cake. go take some swing dance and ballroom dance lessons and grab yourself a hot 60 yr old rich lady. never mind the meat curtains that hang down like gandalfs sleeve. just woo her, compliment her and when it comes time to make sweet love down by the fire....grab the snorkel and nose clips like jacques cousteau and muff dive till you visit the tmj doctor. you'll get all the cake you want baby. then when the benz and the cartier watches come, you go back to the sonic with a bag of the old ladies nerve pills and hand em out like m and ms to those fresh young gals. jeez dude, cant you smell the cake now. just fight through an hour of day old sushi and the cake is yours.
bigreds daddy
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Quote Originally Posted by drJ:
heres your problem and its a common one. you want the ice cream before the cake. go take some swing dance and ballroom dance lessons and grab yourself a hot 60 yr old rich lady. never mind the meat curtains that hang down like gandalfs sleeve. just woo her, compliment her and when it comes time to make sweet love down by the fire....grab the snorkel and nose clips like jacques cousteau and muff dive till you visit the tmj doctor. you'll get all the cake you want baby. then when the benz and the cartier watches come, you go back to the sonic with a bag of the old ladies nerve pills and hand em out like m and ms to those fresh young gals. jeez dude, cant you smell the cake now. just fight through an hour of day old sushi and the cake is yours.
Proto, I think more than a few of us would like to bang Sonics girls and sleep all day. But, like anything else, you can't make a habit of it.
Moderation in all things............including..............moderation.
Get yourself cleaned up. Shit/shower/shave, and shine, and go take a fucking walk. I don't mean with headphones on. Walk to a park. Listen to a bird chirp. Don't sit on a bench. Sit on the grass (assuming good weather-obviously, you don't walk in the rain). Bring the sports page. Take a look. Check the lines. See anything? Don't read it all at once, you gotta get going. Walk some more. Try to find something good. Once each block. Lady with a baby in a stroller. Local bar, where some people know you. You can hit that later. Go to a local diner for Lunch. Not Burger King, a diner. After Lunch, call somebody. Anybody. Tell them you want to take them to this diner for Lunch. Walk back home. Get online, find something, anything of interest to you. Dinner time. Why not Sonic? You want to hit on someone, first you gotta begin your selection process. You can't ask them all at once, right? Pick one, and go from there. Dinner over, head over to the bar and meet up with a bud or two. Talk. If you're driving, no more than two drinks. 30 minutes of talking to someone is probably 29 more than you're doing now. Back home, hit the rack. Tomorrow morning, get up before sunrise. You got a big day tomorrow.......get up/get out/get going..............GL
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Proto, I think more than a few of us would like to bang Sonics girls and sleep all day. But, like anything else, you can't make a habit of it.
Moderation in all things............including..............moderation.
Get yourself cleaned up. Shit/shower/shave, and shine, and go take a fucking walk. I don't mean with headphones on. Walk to a park. Listen to a bird chirp. Don't sit on a bench. Sit on the grass (assuming good weather-obviously, you don't walk in the rain). Bring the sports page. Take a look. Check the lines. See anything? Don't read it all at once, you gotta get going. Walk some more. Try to find something good. Once each block. Lady with a baby in a stroller. Local bar, where some people know you. You can hit that later. Go to a local diner for Lunch. Not Burger King, a diner. After Lunch, call somebody. Anybody. Tell them you want to take them to this diner for Lunch. Walk back home. Get online, find something, anything of interest to you. Dinner time. Why not Sonic? You want to hit on someone, first you gotta begin your selection process. You can't ask them all at once, right? Pick one, and go from there. Dinner over, head over to the bar and meet up with a bud or two. Talk. If you're driving, no more than two drinks. 30 minutes of talking to someone is probably 29 more than you're doing now. Back home, hit the rack. Tomorrow morning, get up before sunrise. You got a big day tomorrow.......get up/get out/get going..............GL
Proto
box is secondary, and if you act like you usually do not care, you will get laid plenty as I always did in my 20s and 30s.......
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