To
make a long story short it's been about 2 more months and he's been
ignoring texts and calls. He finally today told me I wasn't getting
another dime and was "lucky," to get the 2k, that he "should never have
given me."
I am not one to break the law, I am not violent
(although I'm 6'5 250 and in good shape) I could be violent but by
nature I'm not. I recently started a family and don't want any issues
but I dont want this guy to get away with this either. 15k is a lot of
money to me, and would be huge (I'd buy a better car as well as start my
real estate classes (which are about a grand).
I know where he
lives and I know his favorite bar I also took pictures of everyone of
his facebook friends.... I haven't come up with many ideas this is kind
of what I got and none of them sound to good. It's been almost 3 months
and I'm at my breaking point...
1. I could email his facebook
peeps 20 at a time warning them not too do business with him. (He might
worry that I email the wrong person and come around and make a deal).
Or he might just get real pissed and decide I'm not getting garbage.
2.
I could bang on his door every few days (he lives about 15 min away),
which doesn't sound too good. If he answers and wants to get violent or
something I will have very little options.
3. I could call his
apartment complex (I used to live in these apartments and they are very
nice more then 2k a month). Could tell them he's doing illegal things,
maybe they catch him, maybe they don't give a darn what I "claim,"
4. I could go to the authorities. Again this doesn't help me...
5.
I could potentially find someone who can "collect," but then we are
walking a tight rope with breaking the law WHICH I DO NOT WANT...
Anyone
have any suggestions.... Please don't tell me to learn a lesson and
move on, that's asically what i'm already doing and it's discounting the
amount 15k. Please answer productively, thanks...
To
make a long story short it's been about 2 more months and he's been
ignoring texts and calls. He finally today told me I wasn't getting
another dime and was "lucky," to get the 2k, that he "should never have
given me."
I am not one to break the law, I am not violent
(although I'm 6'5 250 and in good shape) I could be violent but by
nature I'm not. I recently started a family and don't want any issues
but I dont want this guy to get away with this either. 15k is a lot of
money to me, and would be huge (I'd buy a better car as well as start my
real estate classes (which are about a grand).
I know where he
lives and I know his favorite bar I also took pictures of everyone of
his facebook friends.... I haven't come up with many ideas this is kind
of what I got and none of them sound to good. It's been almost 3 months
and I'm at my breaking point...
1. I could email his facebook
peeps 20 at a time warning them not too do business with him. (He might
worry that I email the wrong person and come around and make a deal).
Or he might just get real pissed and decide I'm not getting garbage.
2.
I could bang on his door every few days (he lives about 15 min away),
which doesn't sound too good. If he answers and wants to get violent or
something I will have very little options.
3. I could call his
apartment complex (I used to live in these apartments and they are very
nice more then 2k a month). Could tell them he's doing illegal things,
maybe they catch him, maybe they don't give a darn what I "claim,"
4. I could go to the authorities. Again this doesn't help me...
5.
I could potentially find someone who can "collect," but then we are
walking a tight rope with breaking the law WHICH I DO NOT WANT...
Anyone
have any suggestions.... Please don't tell me to learn a lesson and
move on, that's asically what i'm already doing and it's discounting the
amount 15k. Please answer productively, thanks...
How old are you and how old is this guy? How much money have you taken off of him in the past? Why is he saying you are lucky he gave you 2k? How long have you played with this guy? What is he like personality wise, big dude, fighter, little guy, what? Do you think he has the money and won't give it to you or do you think that he doesn't have the money?
How old are you and how old is this guy? How much money have you taken off of him in the past? Why is he saying you are lucky he gave you 2k? How long have you played with this guy? What is he like personality wise, big dude, fighter, little guy, what? Do you think he has the money and won't give it to you or do you think that he doesn't have the money?
How old are you and how old is this guy? How much money have you taken off of him in the past? Why is he saying you are lucky he gave you 2k? How long have you played with this guy? What is he like personality wise, big dude, fighter, little guy, what? Do you think he has the money and won't give it to you or do you think that he doesn't have the money?
Sorry I wrote a much longer one in the other forum... He ended up paying me 2k out of 17k, and I bitched and complained and he finally said he'd pay me a little out of pocket. I'm 30, and he's 29, I went to school with his brother who is a little #@#... He's the guy whos about 5'9 175 wise guy who wants to flash cash and be the life of the party. I think he has it almost for sure, and just doesnt want to come out and pay it. I was with him about 2 months and ended up paying him about 1200 net over that time..
How old are you and how old is this guy? How much money have you taken off of him in the past? Why is he saying you are lucky he gave you 2k? How long have you played with this guy? What is he like personality wise, big dude, fighter, little guy, what? Do you think he has the money and won't give it to you or do you think that he doesn't have the money?
Sorry I wrote a much longer one in the other forum... He ended up paying me 2k out of 17k, and I bitched and complained and he finally said he'd pay me a little out of pocket. I'm 30, and he's 29, I went to school with his brother who is a little #@#... He's the guy whos about 5'9 175 wise guy who wants to flash cash and be the life of the party. I think he has it almost for sure, and just doesnt want to come out and pay it. I was with him about 2 months and ended up paying him about 1200 net over that time..
You will not get your money with any avenues you have brainstormed above.
He has basically told you he thinks your a pu'ssy and quit bugging him or he will get mad.
He has chosen not to pay you because he feels there will be no action taken from your end. If you owed him $15k and told him what he told you. I assume this guy would get upset and threaten you.
You have no choice but to let him know that he stiffed the wrong man. I'm not saying to threaten him, that will make things worse. If you do not have it in you to actually do something and let him know you are not the one to write off. You will never see a dime. Or 15 dimes in this case.
I could type you out a scenario but then I would be breaking the law and as you stated above is out of the question
Asking nicely or telling others not to deal with him will get you nowhere
You will not get your money with any avenues you have brainstormed above.
He has basically told you he thinks your a pu'ssy and quit bugging him or he will get mad.
He has chosen not to pay you because he feels there will be no action taken from your end. If you owed him $15k and told him what he told you. I assume this guy would get upset and threaten you.
You have no choice but to let him know that he stiffed the wrong man. I'm not saying to threaten him, that will make things worse. If you do not have it in you to actually do something and let him know you are not the one to write off. You will never see a dime. Or 15 dimes in this case.
I could type you out a scenario but then I would be breaking the law and as you stated above is out of the question
Asking nicely or telling others not to deal with him will get you nowhere
Salty I fear you are correct. If it were just me, I'd have no problem banging on his door and saying "hello," however I just moved in with my gf and she has a 6 year old I have others to worry about. I dont mind doing things like that, but I have to think of them as well.
I appreciate your opinion on this but you haven't really said anything I dont know , YET.... So I'llwait for something better, because you seem like a smart guy... Maybe could ask someone else to say hi?/ None of the scenarios get me what I want ($$$$)...
Salty I fear you are correct. If it were just me, I'd have no problem banging on his door and saying "hello," however I just moved in with my gf and she has a 6 year old I have others to worry about. I dont mind doing things like that, but I have to think of them as well.
I appreciate your opinion on this but you haven't really said anything I dont know , YET.... So I'llwait for something better, because you seem like a smart guy... Maybe could ask someone else to say hi?/ None of the scenarios get me what I want ($$$$)...
There are plenty of guys out there, but as a last ditch effort, may make him try and work something out if you weren't able or willing to seek out a collector.
There are plenty of guys out there, but as a last ditch effort, may make him try and work something out if you weren't able or willing to seek out a collector.
I know he has a child but I am definitely not going to get kids involved. I would hope that applying pressure would help but I'm not sure what I can/should do. I could probably sell some of the debt, I know a few guys out here that might be interested...
I know he has a child but I am definitely not going to get kids involved. I would hope that applying pressure would help but I'm not sure what I can/should do. I could probably sell some of the debt, I know a few guys out here that might be interested...
I just reread your post. Am I reading correctly that after the 2k paid that you are still down about 1200 to him??? If so you should be furious. It's not as if you beat him up over a few months. He's stealing your money. Plain and simple.
I just reread your post. Am I reading correctly that after the 2k paid that you are still down about 1200 to him??? If so you should be furious. It's not as if you beat him up over a few months. He's stealing your money. Plain and simple.
Tell him you are gonna hire some ghetto mofos to collect. If he still doesn't agree then actually do it. Offer them half. Even if they take it all then the guy got what he deserved and you warned him
Tell him you are gonna hire some ghetto mofos to collect. If he still doesn't agree then actually do it. Offer them half. Even if they take it all then the guy got what he deserved and you warned him
That some bs huh PJ.... pfff. unreal these f'in guys. I'm so pissed , i'm trying to be reasonable rational and all that. My gf who I just moved in with has asked me not to pursue this but damn, that's a lot of money.... Would threatening to sell the debt really make a difference?!?! I actually could probably find someone but then I'd have to know the liability on my part if somethng gets out of hand. In no way do I want violence or anything like that, u know what i mean?! If I sell the debt am I clear if the person/s i sell too do something idiotic.?
That some bs huh PJ.... pfff. unreal these f'in guys. I'm so pissed , i'm trying to be reasonable rational and all that. My gf who I just moved in with has asked me not to pursue this but damn, that's a lot of money.... Would threatening to sell the debt really make a difference?!?! I actually could probably find someone but then I'd have to know the liability on my part if somethng gets out of hand. In no way do I want violence or anything like that, u know what i mean?! If I sell the debt am I clear if the person/s i sell too do something idiotic.?
There's only one thing you should be focused on and that is finding the right person to collect the debt for you. Offer the right person half (7500). 7500 is a lot better than nothing and you won't have the feeling that somebody beat you for 15000.
There's only one thing you should be focused on and that is finding the right person to collect the debt for you. Offer the right person half (7500). 7500 is a lot better than nothing and you won't have the feeling that somebody beat you for 15000.
If you want to PM me I'll fly out there with the right person.. We'll both get 3750 and golf for a week.. You'll have to send me a copy of your license and an up to date utility bill.. :cheers:
If you want to PM me I'll fly out there with the right person.. We'll both get 3750 and golf for a week.. You'll have to send me a copy of your license and an up to date utility bill.. :cheers:
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