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My brother is getting married in October and I'm in charge of planning everything. I need some ideas please if possible, I have never done this before. Please no drugs, strip clubs/hookers. This is going to be on Saturday, September 21. I was thinking golf in the morning, lunch somewhere, Tigers game, casino, and stay the night there. A lot of the people live in the southwest part of Michigan near Kalamazoo. My brother and I live in Lansing. Traveling won't be an issue but please need some ideas if this doesn't sound good at all. We live in Michigan. Thanks fellas.
 
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How about renting out a library for a night. You guys can read books to each other like it's storytime. Since it's a bachelor party.....You guys can even read books with cuss words out loud if you want to live a little!
 
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if you're in charge of everything you damn well be better getting drugs + hookers  

 
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Agreed . you should resign and let someone else be in charge
 
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Quote Originally Posted by captjohn67:

if you're in charge of everything you damn well be better getting drugs + hookers  



I know...his fiance is totally against that. I plan on having it September 21 and the wedding is October 19. He even said himself no. I figured one month of time would be enough for her to cool down but he insists no. I have never done anything like this before and I have no idea.
 
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I was thinking about going to Cedar Point but one guy is on the heavier side and wouldn't be able to ride most of the rides.
 
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Your plan as stated is just so ... plain ... it's so plan b.  I can understand the no drugs part ... everybody is different ... I'll leave it at that but NO strippers or hookers?  This part is very inexcusable given the event.  Strippers and hookers is the "must have", "the whole point", "the we've been looking forward to" part of the bachelor party.  You can simply add the strippers and hookers at the end of all the stated ... golf, lunch, tigers game, casino and the finale ... person!!!  This would dramatically change your yawning party to a bachelor party in a hurry.  Trust me, don't be the brother that throws a picnic when he deserves a bachelor party.  If you want a third grade sleep over for your bachelor party ... by all means do it ... but don't ruin for your brother.
 
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eck ..... w.h.o.r.e was censored to brother.  
 
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Quote Originally Posted by cave0707:

Your plan as stated is just so ... plain ... it's so plan b.  I can understand the no drugs part ... everybody is different ... I'll leave it at that but NO strippers or hookers?  This part is very inexcusable given the event.  Strippers and hookers is the "must have", "the whole point", "the we've been looking forward to" part of the bachelor party.  You can simply add the strippers and hookers at the end of all the stated ... golf, lunch, tigers game, casino and the finale ... person!!!  This would dramatically change your yawning party to a bachelor party in a hurry.  Trust me, don't be the brother that throws a picnic when he deserves a bachelor party.  If you want a third grade sleep over for your bachelor party ... by all means do it ... but don't ruin for your brother.


Look I agree with you...but he has stated as well he doesn't want any. I guess I will ask some other people who are going what they want to do.
 
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The Spatans play at Dame that day,make a weekend out of it,go to the game with the boys,tail gate,drink,chase tail. Sounds like a full weekend without pissing of the fiance and your brother.
 
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The guy's brother said no to all of it so what's the guy supposed to do...piss him off?

 
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Quote Originally Posted by SALTY:

How about renting out a library for a night. You guys can read books to each other like it's storytime. Since it's a bachelor party.....You guys can even read books with cuss words out loud if you want to live a little!

salty is definitely right.  if you're not going to order some strippers into the venue to dance, then you don't need to announce a call for a "bachelor party" in the first place because these types of parties would also call for something like beer.  You don't need to get high off drugs or anything extreme like that, but if alcohol alone is too extreme for you let alone having strippers, then you are better off ordering a suite at a baseball game with no mention of a "bachelor party" altogether.
 
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Quote Originally Posted by chaloots:

The Spatans play at Dame that day,make a weekend out of it,go to the game with the boys,tail gate,drink,chase tail. Sounds like a full weekend without pissing of the fiance and your brother.



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Quote Originally Posted by Messier-11:

Agreed . you should resign and let someone else be in charge

My thoughts exactly.

 
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It seems like many guys are more anti-stripper than their freaking wives. What a bunch pusses.
 
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Just my 2 cents- probably gonna get blasted for this-
I think bachelor parties are overrated-
Why piss off people you're gonna have a close relationship with presumably forever-
I would honor your brother's wishes-
There will be plenty of opportunities for night/weekends out down the road- why taint the new sister in laws opinion of you forever for one night of "fun"?

You can still have a lot of fun without crossing the line that your brother has drawn-

BOL

 
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I hope you have an Alan style guy (from the Hangover movies in case you don't get the reference) that slips something in your food or drink in order to kick start this gathering you've planned.

Maybe do something you normally wouldn't do like pull up to a drive thru and order a bunch of random chit. Then pull up to the window with fools out the car!

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Don't tell the sister in law about the strippers. Bro code people. Get with it.
 
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your brother is obviously gaaay.
 
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how about break out the fine china and have a tea party?
 
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Quote Originally Posted by speak2truth:

how about break out the fine china and have a tea party?

don't forget the tea bags  
 
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Quote Originally Posted by Dsn150:

Just my 2 cents- probably gonna get blasted for this-
I think bachelor parties are overrated-
Why piss off people you're gonna have a close relationship with presumably forever-
I would honor your brother's wishes-
There will be plenty of opportunities for night/weekends out down the road- why taint the new sister in laws opinion of you forever for one night of "fun"?

You can still have a lot of fun without crossing the line that your brother has drawn-

BOL

I've avoided ém my entire life - just not my thing.

 
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Thanks for the input fellas. We will be back drinking for sure. I just want to honor his request. Spartans at Notre Dame sounds like a plan. Him and another one of his close friends graduated from Michigan State....neither one has been to a road game either. Could be a good idea.
 
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This is kind of sad. I'm actually hoping one of my buddies takes the plunge soon so we can have a bachelor party with strippers, booze, midgets, exotic animals, and maybe some Colombian treats.

Last time I was at one a few years ago in Vegas I was tossed from the Aria Pool and Poker Room in a 24 hour span with a trip to a strip club in between. Man I miss weekends like that.

If there isn't the possibility of a good story stemming from this weekend then its probably not even worth doing. Maybe drop him off early in the night and carry on the festivities without him? Just an idea.
 
 
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Quote Originally Posted by Ktrain:

This is kind of sad. I'm actually hoping one of my buddies takes the plunge soon so we can have a bachelor party with strippers, booze, midgets, exotic animals, and maybe some Colombian treats.

Last time I was at one a few years ago in Vegas I was tossed from the Aria Pool and Poker Room in a 24 hour span with a trip to a strip club in between. Man I miss weekends like that.

If there isn't the possibility of a good story stemming from this weekend then its probably not even worth doing. Maybe drop him off early in the night and carry on the festivities without him? Just an idea.


Ktrain yeah I don't know...just trying to get some ideas together. Maybe it won't be called a bachelor's party...maybe a guys night instead..who knows. I just want to respect what he doesn't want and try to make it as fun as possible for him...whatever that may be.
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