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mother will be passing away tonight

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BigChris51

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Posted: Jul. 22, 2015 - 2:55 AM ET #26

It's a part of life that everyone has to deal with. Some sooner then later. I was 20 when my mom passed suddenly and 34 when my brother passed suddenly. I can tell you that it does get easier to deal with over time. It takes time. Everyone is different. You will go through many different types of emotions and it is all completely normal. I can tell you that your dad will also need additional support from you or if you have any siblings. It's important to stay together as a family and be each other's support during this process. Especially in the 1st year as all the important dates on the calendar take their 1st pass without your mom. Its never good too lose your parents but you are 26 and by this age you should be at the point of not being easily influenced by friends with alcohol or drugs. This could be a problem for a teenager. This terrible experience will make you stronger Chris. Keep in mind no matter what ever happens to you in life. No matter what you're faced with nothing will probably be as bad as losing a mom. Don't keep everything inside. My advice is to reach out to someone you know that has lost a mom and talk. You have to talk to someone that has already been through so he/she completely understands how you feel and it's important that someone that hasn't been in your shoes is saying they understand when they don't.
It just takes time Chris. Life will be blur for a while but everything is going to be ok.

Feel free to inbox me if you'd ever like to chat.

Prayers for your mom, yourself and your entire family

cjlipe

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Posted: Jul. 23, 2015 - 12:08 AM ET #27

I lost my mother coming on 4 years now. It is the worse experience so far in my life. I did not get to tell her bye or say all those thank you's.

She was 69 and had diabetes and heart problems but was doing okay, living normal until one morning she was found. I was 2000 miles away.

It was the phone call that Sunday morning that haunts me. She's in the ambulance, she's now in hospital, they are working on her only to find out later there was never any life in her when she was found. And finally hearing those two words from my sister, "she's gone".

I agree with what has been said before. The first year is very painful but it gets better. I thought of her every single day for the first year.

Please say all those things now before it's too late. Everyone else that still has their mother think about all of this.

Jarrett75

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Posted: Jul. 23, 2015 - 12:43 PM ET #28

Quote Originally Posted by cjlipe:

I lost my mother coming on 4 years now. It is the worse experience so far in my life. I did not get to tell her bye or say all those thank you's.

She was 69 and had diabetes and heart problems but was doing okay, living normal until one morning she was found. I was 2000 miles away.

I agree with what has been said before. The first year is very painful but it gets better. I thought of her every single day for the first year.

Please say all those things now before it's too late. Everyone else that still has their mother think about all of this.

yeah people take family for granted. But unless they are a total piece of crap, they are the only people that will always have your back.

Jarrett75

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Posted: Jul. 28, 2015 - 6:39 PM ET #29

update on your mom? prognosis? diagnosis?

GimmeMoneyNow

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Posted: Jul. 28, 2015 - 7:29 PM ET #30

Quote Originally Posted by ckattar8:

she was awake today, had no clue what was going on......... my father called me for her to talk to me, and i didn't even recognize her voice, she was telling me to meet her across the street with ice cream sandwiches (shes in a hospital bed) having all these wacky comments

clearly drugged out of her mind

You know what? You're the same A$$HOLE that had the whole fake "girl out my league" thread that I called you out on:

https://www.covers.com/postingforum/post01/showmessage.aspx?spt=35&sub=102116865

....... and then now you're able to post sports wagering B.S. during your time of "mourning????"

https://www.covers.com/postingforum/post01/showmessage.aspx?spt=213&sub=102143860

So, do you just get off on the "sympathy" part, or is getting strangers to open up to you what gets you off? Or, did you forget that you even posted this? Despite whatever the "truth" is, I'm claiming B.S. on the whole thing........

You're pretty fukkin sick dude........

You Mother's probably living a good life, and a nice person who has no idea what a dirtbag her son is...........

Everybody stop with the "Well-Wishing" for this "poor soul"...........

I'd like to hope it's not, but as a gambler, I'm betting the fukkin' house that it's all FAKE................

Go get some mental help, immediately!!!!!!!!!!