Let's all cry over women.

I tried to get my girl 'friend' to open up her herself to me and take it to another level. She did texting () but still has tremendous barriers that unfortunately I cannot breach. I've lost her and will not go back but I'm ok I think. My evaluation is that she has intimacy difficulties..

I've given her enough time and that clock has now expired.

I am drinking beer, listening to mooshy Mariah Carey love songs and awaiting my over 55 total tonight which honestly I could not care less about.

I should honestly ban myself. Good luck with you and yours.

Women. They absolutely can break us down into very tiny pieces.

Sad to hear search don't let the next one take advantage of you.

At times my gf makes me wish I was gay.

Hopefully, she is not a lesbian.  It is not worth it getting a headache over one woman. Just be like Tiger. (just kidding)

Good luck with whatever you do.

Honestly I think that what may have happened early on. I don't know. I do know that she said (in fucking text) I'm the one she may want spend the rest of her life with.

I laugh but deep down this hurts like a mother...you've all been here and I know it.

I told her that we have hit a wall and the relationship has to break through or vanish. I'm a man, I'm sensitive, highly sought after and I am drained by a woman that can't grab my hand and say "you mean everything to me right now"...IN PERSON. Not in fucking computer/text. Grow up woman.

Just totally blow her off for a bit, start seeing other girls and make sure she find out that you are. She'll come back.

Im sorry to hear what you are going through but don't ever let yourself become the chick an a relationship. There is no better way to scare a girl off, I suspect this might have been happening in your case.

Good stuff gentlemen. Helpful...really. Intimacy and openess emotionally has to happen pretty fast in most cases. I am not waiting for a flower to bloom anymore. Two people are attracted to one another and it has to happen and run its course.

Long 'friendships'  I don't think work for the majority. Things just get complicated.

Quote Originally Posted by captjohn67:

the younger women are crazy as hell and the older ones tend to be damaged goods...sometimes it seems like trying to find a Picasso at a yard sale...doesn't mean you don't keep looking  

Cap...she's 35. both of my older sisters said almost the exact same thing. Both are practicing clinical head shrinkers.

You can't fix her they said. Not at that age.

Mugg. I strongly feel that is and has been the play here but the game has been called. She can feel sick to her stomach for awhile now. she can also dig into her emotions and gather something inside that takes courage. It's there...I damn well know it.

I've been their with the 'emotionally unavailable headaches' .. no more .. you deserve better.. and yes 'long ' friendships do get complicated.. start going out .. doing social activities with buddies or on your own and you'll be fine ..

Go to the nearest WholeFoods/Wegmans are single chicks are in every aisle

I bet her intimacy problems came from having to listen to Mariah Carey.

i'm so sorry TO HEAR THAT --  SEND ME SOME PICTURES OF HER NUDE  I'LL TELL YOU WHAT TO DO   EMAIL ME ?THANKS    dude..

Keep your head up Rickey.

I haven't felt this bad for you since the time that baby bird "Covers" left us? 

Just be thankful that you didn't discover that she had issues that weren't acceptable after your relationship advanced to the next level.

And I agree with Henry,Mariah Carey is not the answer!   

 Thank you gentlemen.

Beer and Mariah both wearing off. I'll press onward tomorrow best I can. This one pinches.

Sorry to clog up the board with a woman problem in Covers...lord knows we've seen plenty. Good to talk things out from time to time with some names around her I know pretty well.. I appreciate the ears an eyes.

Goonight.