Posted:
#1
Trying to hang on but seems she is mad at me everyday for stupid chit way beyond my control.
Just feel beaten down and worn out.
When did you know it was time for a divorce?
Posted:
#4
Court is in session :
Crash : She's always mad at me and I'm worn out.
Mrs. Davis: He's never worn out enough to be on that blasted computer all day.
Crash: It's part of my daily entertainment.
Mrs. Davis : Why not entertain me once in a while?
Crash : You never want to do "it."
Mrs. Davis : Why can't you understand it's not about sex? Make me feel good about myself without the sexual innuendo. If nothing else, be strong and stay by my side even when I'm a girl. I'll always remember that.
Crash : Easier said than done. I'm very unhappy and you don't appreciate what I do now. Why will you respect me later?
Mrs. Davis : Because I will have known how much you truly care for me during my worst times.
Posted:
#7
There is a reason you married her I think too many people are too quick
to pull the plug over stupid sh!t. I also think too may people just marry the first ho that comes along whips it on them and mistake that for love.
Talk to her tell her how you are feeling figure out why she is like that and try to fix it try counseling etc.
Either that or GTFO, kids will survive millions of people do it
Doing nothing is just going to make it worse
Disclaimer: I am 48 and never been married
Talk to her tell her how you are feeling figure out why she is like that and try to fix it try counseling etc.
Either that or GTFO, kids will survive millions of people do it
Doing nothing is just going to make it worse
Disclaimer: I am 48 and never been married
Posted:
#8
I knew 5 years b4 I filed for divorce. Just kept trying.
Kids are great as am I
The first thing u need to do is have a consultation with a lawyer to understand the process, legal fees, child support if u don't get the kids, alimony, etc then weigh ur options.
Weren't u the guy looking to buy rental property w ur wife in vegas?
Posted:
#10
Quote Originally Posted by THEMUGG:
Don't give her any idea that you're thinking about it..........& start stashing money/hiding assets if you haven't already.
Don't give her any idea that you're thinking about it..........& start stashing money/hiding assets if you haven't already.
Yes, excellent point Mugg. Absolutely, wives divorce attorneys are like piranha. They will go for it all and they will take it all and won't care about you lying in the gutter. This is a no-win situation for both husband and wife. At least if you come out on top via hidden finances then you can control at least some of the decisions and ultimately what gets trickled down to the kids. Start stuffing $100's in your mattress every week until this pressure cooker ultimately blows.
~~~~~ZOSO~~~~~
Posted:
#15
If you are anything in real life like you are on Covers, I would think it is pretty easy to believe she gets annoyed with you on a constant basis. Perhaps she isn't really into a person who whines and complains all the time. Change your perspective and it will most likely change hers.
Cant think of one of your posts that doesn't have a negative context to it.
And if that really is your wife, you have better things to be doing than wasting as much time preaching about how sucky the Rockies/Broncos/Avalanche/Rams/Buffs and Nuggets are as you do.
If I were you, I'd take that lady to Vail or Breck for the weekend and not watch one second of sports. Too many great things to do in the Mile High instead of being on the wrong side of so many picks and then coming on to Covers and whining.
Posted:
#17
Quote Originally Posted by Crashdavis565:
The Avatar is my wife.
The Avatar is my wife.
Holy S#!T!! Really??? I was just FU##IN' with you bro! Hey, my wife's got the goods too, but no way in hell would I put up a picture of her as my avatar on some degenerate gambling website, and secondly admit it! Hopefully you didn't just invite a s#!tstorm from a bunch of virgin losers living in their parent's basement.....
If thst is indeed a current picture of her, congrats man. Hope you can work things out - but I guess even Billy Joel got sick of a prime Christie Brinkley.....
Posted:
#20
Crash,
You have to know if you want to go through with your marriage.
You say the storm has passed. Why not ask your 'weathergirl' when it first starts raining? How do 'we' stay dry?
Are you going to stock up on umbrellas, or stock up on your wife? No law says you can't do both. But, how much time do you spend on your computer, and how much on your wife? She may have a different version of the ratio you think you have.
I wish you luck no matter what you choose. Let me know if you'd further want to discuss this.
Hawk
Posted:
#21
The kids will be just fine. They will always be family.
There is no defining moment that triggers you know it's over, it should be a process. Because, like a previous poster suggests, in theory, most people just give up too hastily. Slow it down and talk. Sometimes, separations are almost a better solution. Like an old adage, you know, "love something, let it go, if it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was."
If by talking doesn't work, don't even waste money on counseling.
It's over.
Posted:
#23
Quote Originally Posted by Nut_Flopper:
There is a reason you married her I think too many people are too quick to pull the plug over stupid sh!t. I also think too may people just marry the first ho that comes along whips it on them and mistake that for love.
Talk to her tell her how you are feeling figure out why she is like that and try to fix it try counseling etc.
Either that or GTFO, kids will survive millions of people do it
Doing nothing is just going to make it worse
Disclaimer: I am 48 and never been married
dont take advice from that guy lol 48 never married WTF does he know
There is a reason you married her I think too many people are too quick to pull the plug over stupid sh!t. I also think too may people just marry the first ho that comes along whips it on them and mistake that for love.
Talk to her tell her how you are feeling figure out why she is like that and try to fix it try counseling etc.
Either that or GTFO, kids will survive millions of people do it
Doing nothing is just going to make it worse
Disclaimer: I am 48 and never been married
Posted:
#25
How you figure Maine?
I had no father and came out fine. Countless people I know who have come from broken homes come out just fine. Plenty people don't. Plenty people from nuclear homes come out screwy, some don't.
The point I'm making is that your statement was made without any merit.
Your kids are only your responsibility for X number of years before they make their own choices. Set the right example, talk to them as human beings and explain the situation, they'll be just fine.
You're just a piece of their pie as they are yours. You have an entire lifetime to live, and it shouldn't include a partner your unsaid field with. That's not acceptable.
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