Dating advice

The friend zone chick after being demoted then hits me up. We had a talk about the situation and both agree to continue see each other when we can and without the nuance do any kind of relationship. Couple smashes since and then days without speaking to each other. Couldn't have asked for a more reliable starter. She's like a solid David Cone. She's in the rotation.

Been with kids most of the other time over the holidays so there hasn't been much scouting although a chick from work has surfaced as a prospect. We got numbers exchanged and been playing the phone game, we'll see how that goes. I try not to fish off the company peer but we've had flirtation for a while now, may as well act and sign her a fee agent deal.

Anyway let's do this. We pick a spot, downtown area. She asked to be picked up. Strange considering it's an internet encounter. The place we chose was closed so we went to the bar next door. I get fawkin carded which was odd, bartender looks at her and simply nods. She asked for Disgusting fireball shot and a drink. I agree but secretly order my cocktail as cranberry juice. We drink then decide to get pizza. She says " mind if we take it to go and have it at my place" 

Sure was my response. She asks for 5 minutes stating she wanted to tidy up her place specifically mentioning a litter box. She has 2 cats.

She has a decent apartment. Not as nice as David Cones. This chick by the way is a teacher. So modest living. After we eat the pizza she studies me and I look at her. Smiles. She puts the tv on while we sit on her coach. Within moments she's laying in my arms. Comments on it. "So I'm laying in your arms now. " then admits to being wasted. I'm not really trying to be aggressive, this is nothing but a scouting mission for me with this dot com scene.

About a half hour goes by and she asks " do you want to spend the night." I simply say depends on your accommodations. She laughs and leads me to her bedroom. She at this point has on a t shirt and a thong. Am usually a boxers guy bug I got some briefs on to which she comments on as speedos but also says nice package. I lay down and pull her next to me. She lays on my chest we start feeling each other up, but she mentions something about not wanting sex. Yet brought it up several times. The next 7 hours in that bed with her were odd. Again, I'm a closer, like Eric Gagne in his prime, but also do not want some sexual crime on my record considering she's rather wasted. But was coherent. At one point she playfully mentioned "I'll give you a blowjob if you'd get me a glass of water." To which at the time I had no witty remark. But she ended up grabbing the water. We playfully messed around. I rubbed her nipples shed stroke it against her leg or if her behind was backed up to me she'd play around while we tried to get some sleep. Morning started coming as the 545alarm kicked in. I said I gotta go and she grabbed me and said stay. Then mentioned something about me not fawkin here last night and being a gentleman. Then saying " mornings sex is the best" to which I much obliged. Her tilts were exposed at this point and I rolled over as we locked eyes. Next brings next I'm sucking her tits. Very nice and firm naturals. Sexy nipples. She starts sucking on my neck to which I quickly pull away. I reach down to her slit and it's soaked. Rip her thong off as I chew on her nipples. She's ready. I reach over and grab a rubber. Rock hard at this point and if I don't concentrate I will bust quick. She may not be the hottest chick I'm with but let me tell you I love pussee that's like a waterfall and she got one. I posture her up so I can hit the. G spot she's definitely a loud one but her moans, with that smokers voice, weren't what I like. My favorite is either Latin or real sweet sounding long ones. Anyway, after what seemed like an eternity but was probably 11 minutes tops, I bust. Usually afterwards I'm up and put like I'm leaving a crime scene but I decide to kiss her forehead. She gives me a satisfied look nd locks into kiss. 

Maybe 15mins goes by but I'm ready to go at this point.

So there you have it. Dot com can get you laid.

She's been blowing me up all day. 

I don't expect nothing from this and surely ain't wining and dining this chick. But felt like sharing an experience with a weird stranger from the web.

Still always try.

Yeah last weeks fling has been cling city. I avoided as much as I could. She knows I'm off today and me blowing her off has her going all rick ankiel on me. Time to cut that bait.

Tried it once and it worked out well for sexual gratification, but it's like being a buyer before the trade died line. I'm talking hooking up with an ex from the past. We last spoke maybe 6 years ago but through a mutual source we got each other's number and have talked daily and met for lunch. We're not talkin getting serous here, remember it's about a quality rotation. A woman who knows your buttons is not a bad one to have.

Ended amicable and we had a solid bond. She is good people, good family and is very intellectual. 

For me, having a female friend and perspective is a key thing. We're so open with one another we've already discussed things. We're verify much jerry and Elaine from Seinfeld at this point. However she has mentioned Sex now a few times and we made plans for Friday.

I'm cooking dinner and we may go see a movie.

I do agree with the ex thing being dangerous, but I feel of all the women in my life, including the baby mama, this is ex has the mental capacity to handle being like a Jon Lester on the A's trying to push them thru.

The teacher got pissed because I wasn't making enough time for her. But honestly she's a wreck anyway.

I got a constant starter. She's perfect in every sense. Need 2 more like her and I'm set.

Now here is the issue. The ex from the past is starting to command more time and attention. She's putting out quality starts. Has money , is a good chick, but how can I tell her to back off without losing her?

I have exactly what I need, when I need it. 3 reliable starters. They're no HOF material a la Maddux, Glavine and Smoltz. But I'm a much happier man not being tied down to one Succubus. Although I may have to release one because shes insisting on taking up too much of my time. My dating adventures have been very muchliketheSeinfeld sitcom. Here are some examples of women encountered;

While standing in line at a Chipotle I met a woman who I dated for the next 6 weeks or so. What was interesting was that she was a virgin. Dads a pastor and she works at a private Christian college. We took a week break when I took a mini vacation  and she tells me she got in touch with God and that as much as she struggled with resisting my pursuit, she couldn't continue seeing me. It was very weird. She would get very offended whenever i cursed and frowned on gambling. Note to self, no bible thumpers.

Online dating via tinder or POF or whatever else is out there is  very real. multiple women, many who seek the same thing as us guys. Especially the 35+ age group. I had to change profiles. It's a goldmine.

There is an entire ocean of women out there. I'm very angry with myself for wasting prime years with my ex. Women to me are very much like shoes. They gets old, get yourself a new pair.

Some dude likes to dress up in a maid outfit and do chores. Then when the women returns he likes to get pegged. I asked if she obliged but she denied it. My poker read was she was lieing. 

She had a busted mug and was Irish. I don't do Irish so no pursuit,