you will regret it. if your going to fuck the new chick then fuck her and move on. dont start an affair cuz the wife will find out sooner or later. when she finds out she will play the your not seeing the kid card. then guilt sets in and its all down hill from there. look, your already fealing like a dick cuz you created an alias. you think your ashamed now wait untill you see how everybody looks at you after they find out you fucked around on your wife and kids. its just not worth it. i can see if your on vacation and bang a face thats cool, but dont shit where you eat.
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your friend, nice try.
you will regret it. if your going to fuck the new chick then fuck her and move on. dont start an affair cuz the wife will find out sooner or later. when she finds out she will play the your not seeing the kid card. then guilt sets in and its all down hill from there. look, your already fealing like a dick cuz you created an alias. you think your ashamed now wait untill you see how everybody looks at you after they find out you fucked around on your wife and kids. its just not worth it. i can see if your on vacation and bang a face thats cool, but dont shit where you eat.
Any guy that cheats on his wife/gf is a scumbag and is no friend of mine.
yeah, I am expected to believe that somewhere in your family/friend history in life that you have never encountered someone that has been unfaithful and that on top of that you told them "you are no friend of mine" because of it....come on, be serious
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Quote Originally Posted by Rockdog:
Any guy that cheats on his wife/gf is a scumbag and is no friend of mine.
yeah, I am expected to believe that somewhere in your family/friend history in life that you have never encountered someone that has been unfaithful and that on top of that you told them "you are no friend of mine" because of it....come on, be serious
yeah, I am expected to believe that somewhere in your family/friend history in life that you have never encountered someone that has been unfaithful and that on top of that you told them "you are no friend of mine" because of it....come on, be serious
No shit. If I ruled out all my unfaithful friends and families, I would be a little lonely.
No lie though. If your "buddy" has children he "understands" the situation. Let him figure it out but either way, this guy is still gonna get busted by his fiancee for doing something wrong. Either contributing to the cause or witholding info. Chicks are ball busters and he's about to get into the crossfire. Man, I've been there a dozen times. I would halt all golfing with your buddy for a month or two. You guys can text and shit but it will bite him in the ass if he gets involved.
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Quote Originally Posted by gus1689:
yeah, I am expected to believe that somewhere in your family/friend history in life that you have never encountered someone that has been unfaithful and that on top of that you told them "you are no friend of mine" because of it....come on, be serious
No shit. If I ruled out all my unfaithful friends and families, I would be a little lonely.
No lie though. If your "buddy" has children he "understands" the situation. Let him figure it out but either way, this guy is still gonna get busted by his fiancee for doing something wrong. Either contributing to the cause or witholding info. Chicks are ball busters and he's about to get into the crossfire. Man, I've been there a dozen times. I would halt all golfing with your buddy for a month or two. You guys can text and shit but it will bite him in the ass if he gets involved.
also,,this might not be the most politically correct comment to make but i really believe its true,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
---when you are overweight, old, or unattractive (or the mixture of all 3)-----------its very easy to make the statement condemning the unfaithful---because you've probably never had the option or the opportunity.
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also,,this might not be the most politically correct comment to make but i really believe its true,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
---when you are overweight, old, or unattractive (or the mixture of all 3)-----------its very easy to make the statement condemning the unfaithful---because you've probably never had the option or the opportunity.
This guy must be a real piece of work...he wants to be responsible for at least 4 kids?....eventually, it will all come out. Too bad he can't think of anything but himself, and not all these innocent kids. I wouldn't say anything, but I would not have this guy as a friend. I have witnessed this too many times. NEVER turns out well. Jmo.
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This guy must be a real piece of work...he wants to be responsible for at least 4 kids?....eventually, it will all come out. Too bad he can't think of anything but himself, and not all these innocent kids. I wouldn't say anything, but I would not have this guy as a friend. I have witnessed this too many times. NEVER turns out well. Jmo.
yeah, I am expected to believe that somewhere in your family/friend history in life that you have never encountered someone that has been unfaithful and that on top of that you told them "you are no friend of mine" because of it....come on, be serious
If I find you in the act of cheating on my wife or gf, there will a bullet between your eyes.
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Quote Originally Posted by gus1689:
yeah, I am expected to believe that somewhere in your family/friend history in life that you have never encountered someone that has been unfaithful and that on top of that you told them "you are no friend of mine" because of it....come on, be serious
If I find you in the act of cheating on my wife or gf, there will a bullet between your eyes.
I haven't read the replies, just the original post. IMHO, you have to tell the buddy that he has put in a bad spot. Do you lie to your friend - his wife - and become just as much of a douchebag as him? Do you honor "Guy Code" and keep your mouth shut?
I don't think he is being very respectful to you by putting you in this position. You have to tell him that you are not going to be a part of this lie and if she asks you about it that you are going to be honest. With that said, I don't think you have to go running to his wife and spill the beans.
Really, if the guy would cheat on his wife, is he really the kind of guy that you want to call your friend?
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I haven't read the replies, just the original post. IMHO, you have to tell the buddy that he has put in a bad spot. Do you lie to your friend - his wife - and become just as much of a douchebag as him? Do you honor "Guy Code" and keep your mouth shut?
I don't think he is being very respectful to you by putting you in this position. You have to tell him that you are not going to be a part of this lie and if she asks you about it that you are going to be honest. With that said, I don't think you have to go running to his wife and spill the beans.
Really, if the guy would cheat on his wife, is he really the kind of guy that you want to call your friend?
Personally I feel if married you should not cheat and remain faithfull to the wife. If issues exist leave and divorce then.
However to be a better person in this world, YOU CANNOT JUDGE another person for HIS VALUES-- The buddy obviously feels its okay to cheat around with another girl. Most on the board including me feel that is very WRONG and we have Different VALUES--
As hard as it may be, You cannot judge another PERSON because of his VALUES and decisions that he does. You don't get anywhere judging another person, and you dont get anywhere. As long as you make your DECISIONS and keep your VALUES that is all that matters--
The answer here is really simple. Your friend is a MAN- MEN make decisions, they LIVE by the sword, they DIE by the Sword-- You cannot get involved in this at all. Your values are different than his, and he is making the DECISION to cheat VOLUNTARILY and fully understands the consequences about it.
You should make an effort to distance yourself a bit from him, that way you can say I didn't know. THere are some things you dont want to hear and get involved in. Do not give him advice or get involved,--
I would have told him look, I cannot give you any advice at all, this is your issue and you deal with it. I dont get involved in peoples personal love life. That way you can take the responsibility away from you and SAY to your FIANCE that I dont get involved in anyones love LIFE, and I have no idea what was going on with him--
You can say look I take responsibilty for my own life and no one else's--
Remember look after #1- and dont worry about this friend, because its his decision, and he will also have to face 100% of the negative consequences---
A good thing though is to distance yourself, because your FIANCE will not apprecaite if she finds out you are hanging out with guys that are scumball cheaters, it will make you look like one also--
You are a resemblence of your friends.
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The answer is simple----
Personally I feel if married you should not cheat and remain faithfull to the wife. If issues exist leave and divorce then.
However to be a better person in this world, YOU CANNOT JUDGE another person for HIS VALUES-- The buddy obviously feels its okay to cheat around with another girl. Most on the board including me feel that is very WRONG and we have Different VALUES--
As hard as it may be, You cannot judge another PERSON because of his VALUES and decisions that he does. You don't get anywhere judging another person, and you dont get anywhere. As long as you make your DECISIONS and keep your VALUES that is all that matters--
The answer here is really simple. Your friend is a MAN- MEN make decisions, they LIVE by the sword, they DIE by the Sword-- You cannot get involved in this at all. Your values are different than his, and he is making the DECISION to cheat VOLUNTARILY and fully understands the consequences about it.
You should make an effort to distance yourself a bit from him, that way you can say I didn't know. THere are some things you dont want to hear and get involved in. Do not give him advice or get involved,--
I would have told him look, I cannot give you any advice at all, this is your issue and you deal with it. I dont get involved in peoples personal love life. That way you can take the responsibility away from you and SAY to your FIANCE that I dont get involved in anyones love LIFE, and I have no idea what was going on with him--
You can say look I take responsibilty for my own life and no one else's--
Remember look after #1- and dont worry about this friend, because its his decision, and he will also have to face 100% of the negative consequences---
A good thing though is to distance yourself, because your FIANCE will not apprecaite if she finds out you are hanging out with guys that are scumball cheaters, it will make you look like one also--
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your friend, nice try.
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