Flip a coin between a and b and when its in the air you will know what one you truly want.
Girl A, B or neither?
@bluefin - I agree it's partially me. Great post, making me think.
@Koaj - debated on adding photos, but don't trust you pervs.
I think it really comes down to Girl A or C. B is going to get cut off this wknd. I think she knows it's coming. She said and I quote this morning "I know you're only talking to me b/c you're being nice and b/c I miss you?" ....seriously, who has the balls to ask such a question. I ignored her q and just said I had to get going
Seeing Girl A tomorrow night....will keep you guys posted.
You guys seriously are awesome!
@bluefin - I agree it's partially me. Great post, making me think.
@Koaj - debated on adding photos, but don't trust you pervs.
I think it really comes down to Girl A or C. B is going to get cut off this wknd. I think she knows it's coming. She said and I quote this morning "I know you're only talking to me b/c you're being nice and b/c I miss you?" ....seriously, who has the balls to ask such a question. I ignored her q and just said I had to get going
Seeing Girl A tomorrow night....will keep you guys posted.
You guys seriously are awesome!
The reason to get married is to legitamize the children that she will bear and to simplify who gets the money when you die. Thats what marriage is for, why do you want to be married?
I don't agree with your statement. You marry someone if you want to spend the rest of your life with them and you want to give yourself to them in the commitment and vows of marriage.
Children never need to be legitimized and money can be addressed in a will.
The reason to get married is to legitamize the children that she will bear and to simplify who gets the money when you die. Thats what marriage is for, why do you want to be married?
I don't agree with your statement. You marry someone if you want to spend the rest of your life with them and you want to give yourself to them in the commitment and vows of marriage.
Children never need to be legitimized and money can be addressed in a will.
IF it was me i wouldn't go with a gal with kids but thats just me...but yeah, B definitely sounds sucky to me. C would be the best for me but thats useless info for you. So I guess A is the best choice for YOU. GL and keep us updated
i wouldnt either but what the hell do I know
IF it was me i wouldn't go with a gal with kids but thats just me...but yeah, B definitely sounds sucky to me. C would be the best for me but thats useless info for you. So I guess A is the best choice for YOU. GL and keep us updated
i wouldnt either but what the hell do I know
i wouldnt either but what the hell do I know
i wouldnt either but what the hell do I know
As a man that has been with many women over the years having had two wifes and six kids.I can only speak from my personal experience but perhaps you should look at what you could add to any relationship when you find one that you are anxious to contribute to and not just what you can get out it then perhaps your ready for commitment .
You must see your place in any relationship and be prepared and excited to contibute what it takes to be a sucsessful husband and father.If you can see yourself with A and her kids in a happy and productive life then maybe you are ready for a relationship.
I know I sound kinda smoltzy here but you must be looking at her side if you want a happy life and be pretty sure your willing to give what it takes to have the type of women you need to spend a life with.
You have to guide the ship in a marriage with your spouse anf make the life you want together it's way to easy to think that the most important thing is that you have the women you desire that will do and be for you what you want. My point is that it is equally as important that you can provide the same role to her, if you don't care enough or feel confident that you can do this then marriage is not for you yet.
If you can't make a women happy in a relationship she will damn sure not make you happy for long.
Best of luck you sound like a thinking man you will come to the right decision I'm sure.Best of luck.
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As a man that has been with many women over the years having had two wifes and six kids.I can only speak from my personal experience but perhaps you should look at what you could add to any relationship when you find one that you are anxious to contribute to and not just what you can get out it then perhaps your ready for commitment .
You must see your place in any relationship and be prepared and excited to contibute what it takes to be a sucsessful husband and father.If you can see yourself with A and her kids in a happy and productive life then maybe you are ready for a relationship.
I know I sound kinda smoltzy here but you must be looking at her side if you want a happy life and be pretty sure your willing to give what it takes to have the type of women you need to spend a life with.
You have to guide the ship in a marriage with your spouse anf make the life you want together it's way to easy to think that the most important thing is that you have the women you desire that will do and be for you what you want. My point is that it is equally as important that you can provide the same role to her, if you don't care enough or feel confident that you can do this then marriage is not for you yet.
If you can't make a women happy in a relationship she will damn sure not make you happy for long.
Best of luck you sound like a thinking man you will come to the right decision I'm sure.Best of luck.
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As a man that has been with many women over the years having had two wifes and six kids.I can only speak from my personal experience but perhaps you should look at what you could add to any relationship when you find one that you are anxious to contribute to and not just what you can get out it then perhaps your ready for commitment .
You must see your place in any relationship and be prepared and excited to contibute what it takes to be a sucsessful husband and father.If you can see yourself with A and her kids in a happy and productive life then maybe you are ready for a relationship.
I know I sound kinda smoltzy here but you must be looking at her side if you want a happy life and be pretty sure your willing to give what it takes to have the type of women you need to spend a life with.
You have to guide the ship in a marriage with your spouse anf make the life you want together it's way to easy to think that the most important thing is that you have the women you desire that will do and be for you what you want. My point is that it is equally as important that you can provide the same role to her, if you don't care enough or feel confident that you can do this then marriage is not for you yet.
If you can't make a women happy in a relationship she will damn sure not make you happy for long.
Best of luck you sound like a thinking man you will come to the right decision I'm sure.Best of luck.
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Lots of respect Bluefin....
Cancelled on Girl A tonight, told her I wasn't feeling well. Really need to do some inner thinking on this. Seeing Girl B this Friday to end it in person.
One thing I add is every time I think of going with option C, something weird happens that reminds me of her...just this morning, I sat across a mom and her daughter on the train into her work and the daughters name was Girl A's. Ya ya, I know coincidence, but it happens often. Something is keeping me thinking about Girl A, just need to make sure I can handle her idiosyncrasies.
As a man that has been with many women over the years having had two wifes and six kids.I can only speak from my personal experience but perhaps you should look at what you could add to any relationship when you find one that you are anxious to contribute to and not just what you can get out it then perhaps your ready for commitment .
You must see your place in any relationship and be prepared and excited to contibute what it takes to be a sucsessful husband and father.If you can see yourself with A and her kids in a happy and productive life then maybe you are ready for a relationship.
I know I sound kinda smoltzy here but you must be looking at her side if you want a happy life and be pretty sure your willing to give what it takes to have the type of women you need to spend a life with.
You have to guide the ship in a marriage with your spouse anf make the life you want together it's way to easy to think that the most important thing is that you have the women you desire that will do and be for you what you want. My point is that it is equally as important that you can provide the same role to her, if you don't care enough or feel confident that you can do this then marriage is not for you yet.
If you can't make a women happy in a relationship she will damn sure not make you happy for long.
Best of luck you sound like a thinking man you will come to the right decision I'm sure.Best of luck.
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Lots of respect Bluefin....
Cancelled on Girl A tonight, told her I wasn't feeling well. Really need to do some inner thinking on this. Seeing Girl B this Friday to end it in person.
One thing I add is every time I think of going with option C, something weird happens that reminds me of her...just this morning, I sat across a mom and her daughter on the train into her work and the daughters name was Girl A's. Ya ya, I know coincidence, but it happens often. Something is keeping me thinking about Girl A, just need to make sure I can handle her idiosyncrasies.
As a man that has been with many women over the years having had two wifes and six kids.I can only speak from my personal experience but perhaps you should look at what you could add to any relationship when you find one that you are anxious to contribute to and not just what you can get out it then perhaps your ready for commitment .
You must see your place in any relationship and be prepared and excited to contibute what it takes to be a sucsessful husband and father.If you can see yourself with A and her kids in a happy and productive life then maybe you are ready for a relationship.
I know I sound kinda smoltzy here but you must be looking at her side if you want a happy life and be pretty sure your willing to give what it takes to have the type of women you need to spend a life with.
You have to guide the ship in a marriage with your spouse anf make the life you want together it's way to easy to think that the most important thing is that you have the women you desire that will do and be for you what you want. My point is that it is equally as important that you can provide the same role to her, if you don't care enough or feel confident that you can do this then marriage is not for you yet.
If you can't make a women happy in a relationship she will damn sure not make you happy for long.
Best of luck you sound like a thinking man you will come to the right decision I'm sure.Best of luck.
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As a man that has been with many women over the years having had two wifes and six kids.I can only speak from my personal experience but perhaps you should look at what you could add to any relationship when you find one that you are anxious to contribute to and not just what you can get out it then perhaps your ready for commitment .
You must see your place in any relationship and be prepared and excited to contibute what it takes to be a sucsessful husband and father.If you can see yourself with A and her kids in a happy and productive life then maybe you are ready for a relationship.
I know I sound kinda smoltzy here but you must be looking at her side if you want a happy life and be pretty sure your willing to give what it takes to have the type of women you need to spend a life with.
You have to guide the ship in a marriage with your spouse anf make the life you want together it's way to easy to think that the most important thing is that you have the women you desire that will do and be for you what you want. My point is that it is equally as important that you can provide the same role to her, if you don't care enough or feel confident that you can do this then marriage is not for you yet.
If you can't make a women happy in a relationship she will damn sure not make you happy for long.
Best of luck you sound like a thinking man you will come to the right decision I'm sure.Best of luck.
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