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Posted: 6/29/2012 10:55:55 AM
I honestly don't think they are worth my time, money, and effort.  The good-looking girls have nothing else to offer except their looks and the less attractive ones are, well, less attractive.  I wish I could wire myself so that I could be attracted to a girl's personality.
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Posted: 6/29/2012 10:58:22 AM
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Posted: 6/29/2012 11:05:29 AM
Generally,no, they are not.

If you don't find the RIGHT ONE , they will destroy you totally and completely. But, if you find the RIGHT ONE, they are a true blessing in your life.

It's not easy to decipher what these strange creatures true intentions are.  That's the challenge.


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Posted: 6/29/2012 11:06:00 AM
Your name is 'rapist'. Is that what you do with them?
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Posted: 6/29/2012 11:08:45 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by sowhat83:

Your name is 'rapist'. Is that what you do with them?


My name is rapistberger...in reference to ben roethlisberger, 2 time super bowl winning and 2 time serial rapist.

My goal in life is to offend people and pi$$ people off.  I'd rather be hatefully remembered than forgotten, wouldn't you?
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Posted: 6/29/2012 11:12:09 AM
Of course they are. You just have to find the right one and be willing to compromise for a happy relationship. Otherwise, enjoy life alone.
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Posted: 6/29/2012 11:13:49 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by kaponofor3:

Of course they are. You just have to find the right one and be willing to compromise for a happy relationship. Otherwise, enjoy life alone.


I'd rather be alone than miserable and let me girl boss me around.
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Posted: 6/29/2012 11:35:53 AM
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I'd rather be alone than miserable and let me girl boss me around.


It's a shame that you only see two options: alone and miserable and letting your girl boss you around. Compromise doesn't mean letting your girl run over you. Maybe you just don't have enough self-esteem to stand up to women in your past relationships which is why you think that "compromise" means letting your girl boss you around
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Posted: 6/29/2012 11:37:00 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by kaponofor3:

Of course they are. You just have to find the right one and
be willing to compromise for a happy relationship. Otherwise, enjoy life alone.

Compromise??? I hate that word, It virtually means you have to give up everything you like to do in order to become the man she wants, It should be the other way around, She should compromise for you.

If you're a gambler she will tell you gambling is bad for you and you need to quit.

If you're a guy that likes to have a social life and hang out with friends she will say you have to spend more time with her and less with them in order for this relationship to work.

If you're a guy that respects his mother and listens to the woman that gave birth to you she will say stop being such a mummy's boy and make your own decisions.

If you have a great friendship with your brother/s or sister/s she will try and find a way to make that a negative or she will be upset and claim they hate her.

Never make a compromise to a woman, The moment you do, You're roped in, You are the man and she needs to compromise to you, It's who has the sperm at the end of the day that should be wearing the trousers. 


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"Compromise??? I hate that word, It virtually means you have to give up everything you like to do in order to become the man she wants, It should be the other way around, She should compromise for you."

(a) No it doesn't

(b) Wait, its not fair you to have to give up everything you like to do to become the man she wants, but damnit, a woman should have to do that for you? That's laughable and wholly immature and unrealistic.

"If you're a gambler she will tell you gambling is bad for you and you need to quit."

Right, and just because your woman says she wants you to do something doesn't mean you do it. Compromise doesn't mean you follow orders in a lock step fashion. Maybe it does to guys who are afraid of their girls or have no self esteem? Who knows.

"If you're a guy that likes to have a social life and hang out with friends she will say you have to spend more time with her and less with them in order for this relationship to work."

Well, that's 100% true. If you think you can go kick it with your boys every night instead of be with your woman, then yeah, your relationship probably isn't going to work because you value your relationships with your other buddies over your relationship with your woman.

"If you're a guy that respects his mother and listens to the woman that gave birth to you she will say stop being such a mummy's boy and make your own decisions."

Well at some point if you want to make this woman the #1 woman in your life by marrying her, then yes, she becomes the most important woman in the world for you. You need to take your mom off of the pedestal and put her on it. That's the trade-off, when you get married you are now saying you dedicate your life to THIS woman, not your mom.

"If you have a great friendship with your brother/s or sister/s she will try and find a way to make that a negative or she will be upset and claim they hate her."

Yeah that's silly. Only women who are insecure in their relationship do that, and as a guy we do really control whether or not our ladies are insecure believe it or not. Give your girl enough love and attention, listen to her when she talks, be a good partner and you'd be surprised how it calms their insecurities down. Sounds like you may have been picking the wrong women.

"Never make a compromise to a woman, The moment you do, You're roped in, You are the man and she needs to compromise to you, It's who has the sperm at the end of the day that should be wearing the trousers."

That's crazy talk. The fact that you believe that compromising in a relationship means that you are no longer wearing the trousers makes me laugh. Compromise is a two-way street -- if you are the only one doing the compromising, then your girl needs to be kicked to the curb, straight out truth.

You are a very, very selfish person if you think that because you are a man, the woman should compromise to you. How about you both compromise? 
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Posted: 6/29/2012 11:57:11 AM
It amazes me how some men think that the woman should compromise for them but not vice versa...  and then those same guys wonder why they aren't successful in relationships.

Look in the mirror.
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Posted: 6/29/2012 11:58:15 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by kaponofor3:



It's a shame that you only see two options: alone and miserable and letting your girl boss you around. Compromise doesn't mean letting your girl run over you. Maybe you just don't have enough self-esteem to stand up to women in your past relationships which is why you think that "compromise" means letting your girl boss you around


Oh I have self-esteem, which is why I don't "settle" for the first "average" piece of a$$ that walks in front of me.  Girls (good-looking, independent ones) cost time and money, and the fact that you admit that you have compromised your lifestyle means that you don't have what you want, which means she owns you.   She will trick you into knocking her up, and then she lives the rest of her life sitting on her fat a$$ getting less attractive while you spend your entire life supporting her, making her a winner in the end and you, a loser.  You lose, loser. I win argument. Single and lonely>> miserable and trapped

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Posted: 6/29/2012 12:02:39 PM
"Oh I have self-esteem, which is why I don't "settle" for the first "average" piece of a$$ that walks in front of me.  Girls (good-looking, independent ones) cost time and money, and the fact that you admit that you have compromised your lifestyle means that you don't have what you want, which means she owns you.   She will trick you into knocking her up, and then she lives the rest of her life sitting on her fat a$$ getting less attractive while you spend your entire life supporting her, making her a winner in the end and you, a loser.  You lose, loser. I win argument. Single and lonely>> miserable and trapped"

The fact that you look at a woman and see her first as a "good looking piece of behind" just shows that you will fail in all of your relationships. Don't get mad at me because I am being honest with you.

Girls do cost time and money and (more importantly) effort and attention. The good ones are worth it, the others, just kick them to the curb I say. Saying you compromise with your woman in your relationship does not mean that you don't have what you want -- I mean maybe it does for you, but you must not be that good of a deal maker. Do you give up some amount of personal independence and freedom in a relationship? Absolutely, 100% without a doubt. Does your girl as well? Sure. I doubt you see that though because you are so self-centered as to believe that you only see the compromises you make, not the ones your girl makes.

You sound like a very unhappy man who has had either really bad luck in the past with woman or is picking the wrong women.


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Posted: 6/29/2012 12:05:15 PM
You are going to keep being one lonely darn that is for sure
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Posted: 6/29/2012 12:06:06 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by kaponofor3:



It's a shame that you only see two options: alone and miserable and letting your girl boss you around. Compromise doesn't mean letting your girl run over you. Maybe you just don't have enough self-esteem to stand up to women in your past relationships which is why you think that "compromise" means letting your girl boss you around


Kap-  First you told him, "you just have to find the right one and then compromise, otherwise enjoy life alone".  Then you say, "it's a shame you only see two options".  You told him he only has two options and then told him it's a shame that that is all he sees????
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Posted: 6/29/2012 12:19:00 PM
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Kap-  First you told him, "you just have to find the right one and then compromise, otherwise enjoy life alone".  Then you say, "it's a shame you only see two options".  You told him he only has two options and then told him it's a shame that that is all he sees????


You're misreading what I wrote Henry. I was saying that you have to find the right girl and to succeed in that relationship, you have to compromise -- you cannot get your way 100% of the time and do whatever you want, her thoughts and feelings be damned and expect to be in a successful, happy relationship. The two options that I was referring to that the original poster said was "alone and miserable" or "compromise and let my girl boss me around." There is a middle ground, contrary to popular belief.
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Posted: 6/29/2012 12:19:35 PM
I have a feeling this Rapisterberger guy is going to be the next big thing here at covers.
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Posted: 6/29/2012 12:22:36 PM
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I have a feeling this Rapisterberger guy is going to be the next big thing here at covers.


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QUOTE Originally Posted by kaponofor3:



You're misreading what I wrote Henry. I was saying that you have to find the right girl and to succeed in that relationship, you have to compromise -- you cannot get your way 100% of the time and do whatever you want, her thoughts and feelings be damned and expect to be in a successful, happy relationship. The two options that I was referring to that the original poster said was "alone and miserable" or "compromise and let my girl boss me around." There is a middle ground, contrary to popular belief.


A lot of "middle ground" explanation posts were made by the time I hit submit.  All clear.
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I'm a legend at SBR and here. 


A legend like Sammy11, or a Legend like MrBator?

There is a difference.
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I see where you're coming from regards to me picking the wrong women but the woman who may be the right one at this moment in time, Might be the woman who want's me to change after marriage, Then what happens?? That's why my theory based on never compromising to a woman came about, I meant it from a before marriage stand point, If I was married and had 2 kids then obviously the game changes. 

Just to clear up, The theory I live with is if a girlfriend shows signs of wanting to change me, You have to ask why??? I understand this is a trait in a lot of women but If you need to change me or my life then you clearly dont like me for who I am.
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I have a feeling this Rapisterberger guy is going to be the next big thing here at covers.

About time another tool was pulled from the toolbox. He is one for sure!

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"I see where you're coming from regards to me picking the wrong women but the woman who may be the right one at this moment in time, Might be the woman who want's me to change after marriage, Then what happens?? That's why my theory based on never compromising to a woman came about, I meant it from a before marriage stand point, If I was married and had 2 kids then obviously the game changes."

You should be able to figure out far in advance of getting married if your girl is the type that will want you to change so she can mold you in the way she wants. Those types of personalities reveal themselves far prior to marriage. That's what dating is for, to screen that garbage out.

"Just to clear up, The theory I live with is if a girlfriend shows signs of wanting to change me, You have to ask why??? I understand this is a trait in a lot of women but If you need to change me or my life then you clearly dont like me for who I am."

Well that's true, to an extent, I agree. One of the things about my wife that I love is that she accepts me for who I am and doesn't try to change me. Are there things I do she doesn't like? Absolutely, and vice-versa. But its a respect issue and and acceptance issue. Some women (and men) are not mature enough to accept another person as they are, flaws and all.
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Posted: 6/29/2012 12:59:53 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by wmi799:

About time another tool was pulled from the toolbox. He is one for sure!



Keep namecalling because you're miserable with a woman you hate and with kids you know you didn't want.
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