Minion, I am seeing a common theme here and I am no different.... except - my kid was an unexpected surprise.
My wife and I were torn on whether or not to have children. We're both very busy professionals and weren't sure how we'd pull it off.
But, one night we made a life changing mistake and my son was accidentally conceived.
The mistake we made that night was the greatest gift I've ever received. My son has only been around for 20 months, but I can't imagine life without him. I never realized it was possible to love something/someone as much as I love him.
He is not the burden we were worried a child might be. In fact, he inspires me to work harder and be a better person than I was before. It's tough to put into words, but being a parent changes your perspective on life. It's an incredible feeling.
Have kids Minion... you will not regret it. It'll change your life - and only for the better. It sounds like you really love your lady and I would work on having kids with her. My wife wasn't sure either - and she couldn't be happier being a Mom.
And for what it's worth - she got her body back in 6 months. She had to go to the gym and work at it, but she looks as good as ever.
Thanks Kauffee appreciated! Sounds like you and me are like with the working professionals. May I ask how old were you/your woman, when the little blessing came about?