Quote Originally Posted by JerryWrasse:
Counter argument? I shouldn't stoop to this. In what situation is violence okay? Let me get this straight, so if a woman spits on you it is okay to uppercut or "backhand" her to in order to preserve one's own dignity? What if a 10 year old kid kicks you in the shin. Do you clock him in the head to prove you superiority? What if someone with muscular dystrophy takes a swing at you. Do you push him down and stomp on him because we all know a cripple shouldn't be allowed to get away with that. Do you kick puppies because they nip at your feet?
The concept has nothing to do with the indoctrination of woman's rights. Woman are equal to men in most regards and in some better. There isn't ever a reason to prove you are stronger or physically superior to one. I hate to come off like an behind.hole but do you not understand how god.damn ignorant your sound?
See Jerry, You are the typical great guy who has never ran into or dated a monster women. You come from good blood, raised properly, never been in trouble, neverd a women do really bad things to you.
So you just would not understand. Not everyone is like you or has walked in your shoes. Just like you have not walked in theirs. It is tough to be non judgemental when all you have ever seen is good...
I watched my Drunk mother scream so much dirty crap at my step father I wondered why he never hit her. Until the day she had a black eye. Thatr was in the 70's and he did what happened back then... "straightened her out" He should have just dumped her, he didn't, that made things better for a while, then they divorced...
I am not in any way stating what rice did was right, it wasn't, and I have never hit my wife, never wil. But unless you are actually there, then you just don't know what was happening. You can state there is NO excuse for it. And that you will ! because you have never experienced a monster...
It goes both ways... You just won't understand...
I also watchmy Dad take slaps from my step mom. He never hit her back, she continued on until they divorced. i later asked him why he let her do that... He said because if he hit her back he would go to jail. He asked a buddy (officer) what to do... The officer called him a box fo not having control of his women. Things change, people change, times change...
R. rice might have grown up in a house where the women were hit. His wife may have grown up in a house where the women ruled by belittling the man with words knowning he could not hit her. When it got to a point, he lost his temper... That is all, he is not a women beater and does not deerve to be punished twice..