I made this girl orgasm like it was my job. She was in love with my dong and was not shy in telling me for the 5 yrs
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Don't matter. In the end, that's not what it's all about with chicks. And believe me, there are plenty of other guys out there capable of handling the job.
Let it go. It doesn't matter. People like her don't change their mind and come back.
I made this girl orgasm like it was my job. She was in love with my dong and was not shy in telling me for the 5 yrs
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Don't matter. In the end, that's not what it's all about with chicks. And believe me, there are plenty of other guys out there capable of handling the job.
Let it go. It doesn't matter. People like her don't change their mind and come back.
Fucking please. You're deluding yourself. You'd take her back in a second and she knows this and she would shit all over you.
She dumped you. Now put yourself in the shoes of someone that you have dumped previously and now you know how she felt. It's time to move on. Get reacquainted with some buddies that you obviously blew off to be with this chick and get back on the horse.
It is nowhere near the end of the world or as bad as you are making it out to be.
Fucking please. You're deluding yourself. You'd take her back in a second and she knows this and she would shit all over you.
She dumped you. Now put yourself in the shoes of someone that you have dumped previously and now you know how she felt. It's time to move on. Get reacquainted with some buddies that you obviously blew off to be with this chick and get back on the horse.
It is nowhere near the end of the world or as bad as you are making it out to be.
"Out of nowhere....dumped. She was having a great time partying with her
best friend from chicago and meeting new people. She told me she didn't
want to leave chicago and her friends and family."
Dude...she found someone else. Probably quite some time ago. Move on...
"Out of nowhere....dumped. She was having a great time partying with her
best friend from chicago and meeting new people. She told me she didn't
want to leave chicago and her friends and family."
Dude...she found someone else. Probably quite some time ago. Move on...
It will get better with time, but now is not the time to be weak and thinking about what you will do if/when she comes begging back. You won't know because you won't be taking her calls and texts, right?
Do not let this woman walk all over you Messier. You need to have more self respect for yourself than to let that go down.
It will get better with time, but now is not the time to be weak and thinking about what you will do if/when she comes begging back. You won't know because you won't be taking her calls and texts, right?
Do not let this woman walk all over you Messier. You need to have more self respect for yourself than to let that go down.
it takes about 2 months to get over it so you have 6 weeks left,.
just think of it this way its like you bought a car that lasted 5 years it did its job than broke down on you. Not all cars can be made into classics.
If you want your next car to be a classic make sure you take really good care of it and hope it lasts. Remember though no matter how hard you try some cars are just lemons
it takes about 2 months to get over it so you have 6 weeks left,.
just think of it this way its like you bought a car that lasted 5 years it did its job than broke down on you. Not all cars can be made into classics.
If you want your next car to be a classic make sure you take really good care of it and hope it lasts. Remember though no matter how hard you try some cars are just lemons
I barely slept last night and decided the ignore method wasn't for me. Texted her this morning apologizing for hurting her ( I was def the one who ruined this relationship) and saying how I hope overtime she can forgive me and we can be friends again. I really was more hurt about the thought of losing her friendship than as a girlfriend. We had some good convos this afternoon. I basically told her just don't tell me about new guys you meet for a while and things won't be too weird. I'm not going to be bugging her all the time. Maybe once every other week I'll throw her a text to see how she's doing while I move on myself. This works for me. I can accept most the blame and learn from it so future relationships don't go down the drain also. At least I might have saved a great friendship. She lives thousands of miles away from me anyway so moving on won't be too tough. Out of sight, out of mind. Was this of me?
I barely slept last night and decided the ignore method wasn't for me. Texted her this morning apologizing for hurting her ( I was def the one who ruined this relationship) and saying how I hope overtime she can forgive me and we can be friends again. I really was more hurt about the thought of losing her friendship than as a girlfriend. We had some good convos this afternoon. I basically told her just don't tell me about new guys you meet for a while and things won't be too weird. I'm not going to be bugging her all the time. Maybe once every other week I'll throw her a text to see how she's doing while I move on myself. This works for me. I can accept most the blame and learn from it so future relationships don't go down the drain also. At least I might have saved a great friendship. She lives thousands of miles away from me anyway so moving on won't be too tough. Out of sight, out of mind. Was this of me?
Been tossing and turning all night thinking. I think I've finally come to grips with this situation. My heart hurts losing someone who was such a big part of my life these last 5 years. It's a scary concept to start over and find someone knew. You tell yourself you'll never find love like the kind you had blah blah blah. It will take time but I guarantee I find someone who will make me happier. This whole thing will have made me a better person. I'm a huge box when it comes to losing people. I need to work on that. I don't handle death very well and this felt kinda similar. I really do hope that I can be friends with her one day even if it is weird seeing her with someone else. I should probably take care of myself and figure my shit out before I cross that path though. Sorry for snapping at your search.
Wow this hits close to home Mes and I know we've not always seen eye to eye.
Just ended a 4 year relationship yesterday. I'm glad I'm not the only person who gets worked up about this shit.
A lot of good advice on this forum though, we are having 1 final talk to figure shit out tonight - but I will be taking the firm approach and showing some self respect. No pity or giving her the opportunity to get back together in the future.
I'll come back with the shortened play by play at some point tomorrow if that helps you at all
Been tossing and turning all night thinking. I think I've finally come to grips with this situation. My heart hurts losing someone who was such a big part of my life these last 5 years. It's a scary concept to start over and find someone knew. You tell yourself you'll never find love like the kind you had blah blah blah. It will take time but I guarantee I find someone who will make me happier. This whole thing will have made me a better person. I'm a huge box when it comes to losing people. I need to work on that. I don't handle death very well and this felt kinda similar. I really do hope that I can be friends with her one day even if it is weird seeing her with someone else. I should probably take care of myself and figure my shit out before I cross that path though. Sorry for snapping at your search.
Wow this hits close to home Mes and I know we've not always seen eye to eye.
Just ended a 4 year relationship yesterday. I'm glad I'm not the only person who gets worked up about this shit.
A lot of good advice on this forum though, we are having 1 final talk to figure shit out tonight - but I will be taking the firm approach and showing some self respect. No pity or giving her the opportunity to get back together in the future.
I'll come back with the shortened play by play at some point tomorrow if that helps you at all
Four years. Five years. These memories will not fade easily. Now that you are alone, you now have time for yourself. Invest, like gambling, wisely. Betting, you need money management. For yourself, you need time and YOU management. Don't try and substitute one thing for another. For example "The time I don't spend with her, I can break down the secondary for Marshall"...............no. You already spend time gambling, keep it the same. You can also work out (like you have) BUT DO NOT tell yourself "I'm going to clean and jerk 500 lbs. because I hate that bitch!" You're making a positive physical improvement, sure, but with a negative thought. You've had enough negative. Time to go elsewhere.
There is no set timetable on when you'll get over this. Just like there is no timetable to set on yourself for improvement. All you have to do is go another direction.
New tail is fine, but it just seems rebound to me. If that's what you need, go for it. But, do you really need this right now? You'd probably do it drunk, and maybe not even remember.
Four years. Five years. These memories will not fade easily. Now that you are alone, you now have time for yourself. Invest, like gambling, wisely. Betting, you need money management. For yourself, you need time and YOU management. Don't try and substitute one thing for another. For example "The time I don't spend with her, I can break down the secondary for Marshall"...............no. You already spend time gambling, keep it the same. You can also work out (like you have) BUT DO NOT tell yourself "I'm going to clean and jerk 500 lbs. because I hate that bitch!" You're making a positive physical improvement, sure, but with a negative thought. You've had enough negative. Time to go elsewhere.
There is no set timetable on when you'll get over this. Just like there is no timetable to set on yourself for improvement. All you have to do is go another direction.
New tail is fine, but it just seems rebound to me. If that's what you need, go for it. But, do you really need this right now? You'd probably do it drunk, and maybe not even remember.
Texted her this morning apologizing for hurting her ( I was def the one who ruined this relationship) and saying how I hope overtime she can forgive me and we can be friends again.
This almost NEVER happens. And it normally only happens after both parties are in different relationships.
I've only been able to be friends with 2 exes. And that's because I never really loved them.
Texted her this morning apologizing for hurting her ( I was def the one who ruined this relationship) and saying how I hope overtime she can forgive me and we can be friends again.
This almost NEVER happens. And it normally only happens after both parties are in different relationships.
I've only been able to be friends with 2 exes. And that's because I never really loved them.
I barely slept last night and decided the ignore method wasn't for me. Texted her this morning apologizing for hurting her ( I was def the one who ruined this relationship) and saying how I hope overtime she can forgive me and we can be friends again. I really was more hurt about the thought of losing her friendship than as a girlfriend. We had some good convos this afternoon. I basically told her just don't tell me about new guys you meet for a while and things won't be too weird. I'm not going to be bugging her all the time. Maybe once every other week I'll throw her a text to see how she's doing while I move on myself. This works for me. I can accept most the blame and learn from it so future relationships don't go down the drain also. At least I might have saved a great friendship. She lives thousands of miles away from me anyway so moving on won't be too tough. Out of sight, out of mind. Was this of me?
Messier, I hate to say this.... but jesus you sound like a giant box. I literally read that bolded part and started shaking my head. She now knows for sure (if she didnt before) that you have no self respect and that she can walk all over you... and not only that, but then YOU will apologize for getting walked all over!
What the fuck do you have to apologize for?
You cannot separate "girlfriend" and "friendship". What you really mean is that you hope you can be "together" again.
I barely slept last night and decided the ignore method wasn't for me. Texted her this morning apologizing for hurting her ( I was def the one who ruined this relationship) and saying how I hope overtime she can forgive me and we can be friends again. I really was more hurt about the thought of losing her friendship than as a girlfriend. We had some good convos this afternoon. I basically told her just don't tell me about new guys you meet for a while and things won't be too weird. I'm not going to be bugging her all the time. Maybe once every other week I'll throw her a text to see how she's doing while I move on myself. This works for me. I can accept most the blame and learn from it so future relationships don't go down the drain also. At least I might have saved a great friendship. She lives thousands of miles away from me anyway so moving on won't be too tough. Out of sight, out of mind. Was this of me?
Messier, I hate to say this.... but jesus you sound like a giant box. I literally read that bolded part and started shaking my head. She now knows for sure (if she didnt before) that you have no self respect and that she can walk all over you... and not only that, but then YOU will apologize for getting walked all over!
What the fuck do you have to apologize for?
You cannot separate "girlfriend" and "friendship". What you really mean is that you hope you can be "together" again.
You cement her decision more everyday you act like this. You are in denial. You are not a man. Why would she ever take a sorry little girl like you back? Get a life and move on. She has probably had at least 3 different dicks in her mouth since she dumped your pathetic sissy ass...I'm sure you think I"m kidding, but you obviously are too young to know any better. You obviously don't know anything about women if you think your actions and behavior since the break up are something she or any other woman finds attractive. Of course she will never say this to you, because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings any more than she already has.
But I can guarantee you she is 100% sure of her decision at this point. And the fact that she has these conversations with you is only out of pity and caring about the fact that she crushed you and she's knows it. Pity is all you will ever get from her going forward.
Go ahead and dismiss what I'm saying. But its the truth and the sooner you face it the better off you will be.
She has only pity for you, and probably has a couple guys she thinks about now when she gets wet, and you are never going to be on that list again.
Kid, you have so much to learn.
And when you grow to be a man, you will think about how bad your box is hurting right now, and laugh at yourself.
You cement her decision more everyday you act like this. You are in denial. You are not a man. Why would she ever take a sorry little girl like you back? Get a life and move on. She has probably had at least 3 different dicks in her mouth since she dumped your pathetic sissy ass...I'm sure you think I"m kidding, but you obviously are too young to know any better. You obviously don't know anything about women if you think your actions and behavior since the break up are something she or any other woman finds attractive. Of course she will never say this to you, because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings any more than she already has.
But I can guarantee you she is 100% sure of her decision at this point. And the fact that she has these conversations with you is only out of pity and caring about the fact that she crushed you and she's knows it. Pity is all you will ever get from her going forward.
Go ahead and dismiss what I'm saying. But its the truth and the sooner you face it the better off you will be.
She has only pity for you, and probably has a couple guys she thinks about now when she gets wet, and you are never going to be on that list again.
Kid, you have so much to learn.
And when you grow to be a man, you will think about how bad your box is hurting right now, and laugh at yourself.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to be friends with this woman. But at this point it would do you better to sever ties with her altogether. At least for a few months or so until you're beyond the whole thing. As was said previously, you need to have self respect and integrity and leave it be. Granted its easy to say it from the position of not being involved in the situation, but nothing ever good comes from it when you don't break off communication fully. If you both want to be friends now, there should be no reason that that would change 6 months from now. You need to work on yourself and work through this without having contact. Or it will just eat at you.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to be friends with this woman. But at this point it would do you better to sever ties with her altogether. At least for a few months or so until you're beyond the whole thing. As was said previously, you need to have self respect and integrity and leave it be. Granted its easy to say it from the position of not being involved in the situation, but nothing ever good comes from it when you don't break off communication fully. If you both want to be friends now, there should be no reason that that would change 6 months from now. You need to work on yourself and work through this without having contact. Or it will just eat at you.
She lives 1000's of miles away and I'm not friends with her on facebook anymore. I really don't see the problem here. I came to the conclusion her mind was made up and that her decision made sense for both parties. We gave long distance a shot and I was miserable at it. I would barely call, would bang other broads, etc. I thought our love would get us thru the shit times and we'd eventually move in together again and be very happy. I blew this relationship by taking it for granted. In most cases I could understand cutting off contact but being long distance makes that easier imo. We were chatting it up today like best friends and it wasn't awkward at all. I hope she finds someone that can make her happy.....I just don't want to know about it until I've moved on completely.
She lives 1000's of miles away and I'm not friends with her on facebook anymore. I really don't see the problem here. I came to the conclusion her mind was made up and that her decision made sense for both parties. We gave long distance a shot and I was miserable at it. I would barely call, would bang other broads, etc. I thought our love would get us thru the shit times and we'd eventually move in together again and be very happy. I blew this relationship by taking it for granted. In most cases I could understand cutting off contact but being long distance makes that easier imo. We were chatting it up today like best friends and it wasn't awkward at all. I hope she finds someone that can make her happy.....I just don't want to know about it until I've moved on completely.
However harsh it may sound, Kapono and Tilitlogic are absolutely correct in this. By texting and talking to her she has no respect for you. Woman are interesting creatures in how they think. I'm no expert in women and will never claim to be, but thats one thing I do understand about them. She'll have more respect for you if you don't talk to her. 7 years ago I had a shitty breakup with a woman. We talked about marriage and our future together and the breakup sucked. For the first couple months I still tried to communicate with her to no avail. Looking back I was doing the same thing you are now. Never worked. Finally I stopped talking to her completely. And it was for about 6 years. I reconnected with her about 2 or 3 months ago and talked with her. And she starts telling me that she still thinks about me and talks about me with her family and friends. I live 2000 miles away from her now but she was still throwing hints that she wanted to get back together with me. And she broke up with me. I had to contain my laughter and told her nicely that I had no interest. Not sure the exact point I was making with this. More so wanted to illustrate a point that as shitty as it seems now, it will get easier.
However harsh it may sound, Kapono and Tilitlogic are absolutely correct in this. By texting and talking to her she has no respect for you. Woman are interesting creatures in how they think. I'm no expert in women and will never claim to be, but thats one thing I do understand about them. She'll have more respect for you if you don't talk to her. 7 years ago I had a shitty breakup with a woman. We talked about marriage and our future together and the breakup sucked. For the first couple months I still tried to communicate with her to no avail. Looking back I was doing the same thing you are now. Never worked. Finally I stopped talking to her completely. And it was for about 6 years. I reconnected with her about 2 or 3 months ago and talked with her. And she starts telling me that she still thinks about me and talks about me with her family and friends. I live 2000 miles away from her now but she was still throwing hints that she wanted to get back together with me. And she broke up with me. I had to contain my laughter and told her nicely that I had no interest. Not sure the exact point I was making with this. More so wanted to illustrate a point that as shitty as it seems now, it will get easier.
I barely slept last night and decided the ignore method wasn't for me. Texted her this morning apologizing for hurting her ( I was def the one who ruined this relationship) and saying how I hope overtime she can forgive me and we can be friends again. I really was more hurt about the thought of losing her friendship than as a girlfriend. We had some good convos this afternoon. I basically told her just don't tell me about new guys you meet for a while and things won't be too weird. I'm not going to be bugging her all the time. Maybe once every other week I'll throw her a text to see how she's doing while I move on myself. This works for me. I can accept most the blame and learn from it so future relationships don't go down the drain also. At least I might have saved a great friendship. She lives thousands of miles away from me anyway so moving on won't be too tough. Out of sight, out of mind. Was this of me?
I went to bat for you in the help section … but apparently you are in more need than whatever anyone here can give to you. Speak to your priest/rabbi/psychiatrist/Gloria Allred … someone … anyone … you need serious fucking help.
Now go change your tampon and slap in some douche while you're at it
I barely slept last night and decided the ignore method wasn't for me. Texted her this morning apologizing for hurting her ( I was def the one who ruined this relationship) and saying how I hope overtime she can forgive me and we can be friends again. I really was more hurt about the thought of losing her friendship than as a girlfriend. We had some good convos this afternoon. I basically told her just don't tell me about new guys you meet for a while and things won't be too weird. I'm not going to be bugging her all the time. Maybe once every other week I'll throw her a text to see how she's doing while I move on myself. This works for me. I can accept most the blame and learn from it so future relationships don't go down the drain also. At least I might have saved a great friendship. She lives thousands of miles away from me anyway so moving on won't be too tough. Out of sight, out of mind. Was this of me?
I went to bat for you in the help section … but apparently you are in more need than whatever anyone here can give to you. Speak to your priest/rabbi/psychiatrist/Gloria Allred … someone … anyone … you need serious fucking help.
Now go change your tampon and slap in some douche while you're at it
you guys are cracking me up. The relationship is over. I don't give a shit about ignoring her for 5 years and maybe then she'll have a lot of respect for me and want me back. Long distance alone makes it impossible to get back together. I waved the white box flag of defeat and admitted I was mainly responsible for things not working out, which I was, and hoped we could still be friends. Idk maybe it was silly but it definitely gave me some closure. I could care less if she has less respect for me. I have less respect for me also after this shit storm. It was a valuable lesson though and It has definitely motivated me to work hard for what I want. Fuck it.
you guys are cracking me up. The relationship is over. I don't give a shit about ignoring her for 5 years and maybe then she'll have a lot of respect for me and want me back. Long distance alone makes it impossible to get back together. I waved the white box flag of defeat and admitted I was mainly responsible for things not working out, which I was, and hoped we could still be friends. Idk maybe it was silly but it definitely gave me some closure. I could care less if she has less respect for me. I have less respect for me also after this shit storm. It was a valuable lesson though and It has definitely motivated me to work hard for what I want. Fuck it.
Well if you were banging other broads, how can feel this bad about it? Not that there is anything wrong with that. Godspeed to you. Enjoy it. But you can't act like its a sad situation for you when she walks away from you. You didn't really give a shit anyway.
Well if you were banging other broads, how can feel this bad about it? Not that there is anything wrong with that. Godspeed to you. Enjoy it. But you can't act like its a sad situation for you when she walks away from you. You didn't really give a shit anyway.
you guys are cracking me up. The relationship is over. I don't give a shit about ignoring her for 5 years and maybe then she'll have a lot of respect for me and want me back. Long distance alone makes it impossible to get back together. I waved the white box flag of defeat and admitted I was mainly responsible for things not working out, which I was, and hoped we could still be friends. Idk maybe it was silly but it definitely gave me some closure. I could care less if she has less respect for me. I have less respect for me also after this shit storm. It was a valuable lesson though and It has definitely motivated me to work hard for what I want. Fuck it.
At least you learned something from this whole thing Messier. Don't be too hard on yourself, lots of us can only be so callous about this thing cause we've already gone through what you have gone through. We all learned just like you are learning right now.
you guys are cracking me up. The relationship is over. I don't give a shit about ignoring her for 5 years and maybe then she'll have a lot of respect for me and want me back. Long distance alone makes it impossible to get back together. I waved the white box flag of defeat and admitted I was mainly responsible for things not working out, which I was, and hoped we could still be friends. Idk maybe it was silly but it definitely gave me some closure. I could care less if she has less respect for me. I have less respect for me also after this shit storm. It was a valuable lesson though and It has definitely motivated me to work hard for what I want. Fuck it.
At least you learned something from this whole thing Messier. Don't be too hard on yourself, lots of us can only be so callous about this thing cause we've already gone through what you have gone through. We all learned just like you are learning right now.
Well if you were banging other broads, how can feel this bad about it? Not that there is anything wrong with that. Godspeed to you. Enjoy it. But you can't act like its a sad situation for you when she walks away from you. You didn't really give a shit anyway.
Is it possible to love someone and bust an occasional meaningless nut when your 5000 miles away and only see the person a handful of times a year? The way I looked at is she would never find out and I could live with it knowing it meant zero to me. Whether it be a one night stand, rub and tug, or a hooker. Helped me cope with the long distance.....jerking off gets old.
Well if you were banging other broads, how can feel this bad about it? Not that there is anything wrong with that. Godspeed to you. Enjoy it. But you can't act like its a sad situation for you when she walks away from you. You didn't really give a shit anyway.
Is it possible to love someone and bust an occasional meaningless nut when your 5000 miles away and only see the person a handful of times a year? The way I looked at is she would never find out and I could live with it knowing it meant zero to me. Whether it be a one night stand, rub and tug, or a hooker. Helped me cope with the long distance.....jerking off gets old.
Good thing you can talk shit about it now. You weren't singing that tune a couple days ago. You say you could care less about it but I disagree. You do or you never would have started these threads.
Good thing you can talk shit about it now. You weren't singing that tune a couple days ago. You say you could care less about it but I disagree. You do or you never would have started these threads.
Is it possible to love someone and bust an occasional meaningless nut when your 5000 miles away and only see the person a handful of times a year? The way I looked at is she would never find out and I could live with it knowing it meant zero to me. Whether it be a one night stand, rub and tug, or a hooker. Helped me cope with the long distance.....jerking off gets old.
Would you give a shit if you found out that a girl you were seeing was getting a nut busted all over her a couple of times a year and a few thousand miles away? Something tells me by your threads and posts that it wouldn't mean zero to you if someone you were seeing was getting the occasional long distance nut busted all over her.
Is it possible to love someone and bust an occasional meaningless nut when your 5000 miles away and only see the person a handful of times a year? The way I looked at is she would never find out and I could live with it knowing it meant zero to me. Whether it be a one night stand, rub and tug, or a hooker. Helped me cope with the long distance.....jerking off gets old.
Would you give a shit if you found out that a girl you were seeing was getting a nut busted all over her a couple of times a year and a few thousand miles away? Something tells me by your threads and posts that it wouldn't mean zero to you if someone you were seeing was getting the occasional long distance nut busted all over her.
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