1st Date ideas

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Posted: 4/12/2012 9:26:57 PM
Take her to a Comedy show,everybody likes to laugh!!. Sit back have a few drinks RELAX and have a good time.
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Posted: 4/12/2012 9:39:39 PM

Make sure it is not the old standard 'dinner and a movie' do something that promotes interaction...go bowling, maybe find a place that is giving an art class,  volunteer to feed the homeless at a shelter or do something for a childrens charity (you will look real good doing that!) stay away from drinking on the first date, for some women that sends up a red flag. (depends on the woman) They will assume or think you drink, you don't need to prove it on the first date, plus you won't have any behavior occur that you can blame drinking on.

Keep us posted on how it goes.

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Posted: 4/12/2012 9:42:53 PM
I like to have a buffer zone on first dates like George on Seinfeld does.  I would have a BBQ with her and one other couple (the most easygoing couple you know).  This takes a lot of pressure off of everybody.  
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Posted: 4/12/2012 10:05:59 PM
take her 2 a suns or diamondbacks game u guys can have a few beers and peanuts.. b4 u buy the peanuts ask her if she likes nuts u will b able 2 tell alot about her by her response to that question?? it lets u know what type of girl u have on your hands     best of luck..
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Posted: 4/12/2012 11:31:14 PM
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Posted: 4/12/2012 11:33:44 PM
Take her to Jenny Craig for your first date 
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Posted: 4/13/2012 12:10:45 AM
Just go to an above average bar that serves food, nothing too fancy or too casual. That way you can talk about things. After that try some bowling or shooting pool. I personally live not far from a casino and would ask her if she'd like to have fun throwing down some blackjack. I'm a card counter so that game is soooo fun to me, I'd ask if she'd like to enjoy my 'guilty pleasure' as well.
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Posted: 4/13/2012 9:48:43 AM
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Posted: 4/13/2012 10:42:18 AM
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Posted: 4/13/2012 1:17:41 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by CRRECORDS:

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Posted: 4/13/2012 1:20:22 PM
find a place that is giving an art class
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No chick worth dating cares what you do on the first date as long as it's not too cheesy or completely cheap and you can talk.

Go to a decent place a cool atmosphere.  I once went to a mexican place where they made your guac with a mortar and pestle right at the table.  Anything that might make that restaurant a little different adds to it. 

On my first date with the gal I'm with now, we went out and talked for 2 hours at a nice place.  I found out she was a big fan of dive bars (we both are) so we decided to run over to a local dump and play a few games of pool.  She loved it.  But I didn't suggest it until she told me she was into it and the date seemed to be going really well.

Plan for something short and sweet focused on getting to know each other.  You can morph it into going somewhere else if it looks like things are going well and you get a vibe that she'd like to extend the date.  
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Posted: 4/14/2012 4:20:01 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by Daddy_Freddie:

Make sure it is not the old standard 'dinner and a movie' do something that promotes interaction...go bowling, maybe find a place that is giving an art class,  volunteer to feed the homeless at a shelter or do something for a childrens charity (you will look real good doing that!) stay away from drinking on the first date, for some women that sends up a red flag. (depends on the woman) They will assume or think you drink, you don't need to prove it on the first date, plus you won't have any behavior occur that you can blame drinking on.

Keep us posted on how it goes.

huh...

nothing is a better panty dropper then curing a leper on your first date...

 

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Posted: 4/14/2012 6:23:10 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by CRRECORDS:

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Posted: 4/15/2012 9:50:58 AM
wasnt there a tv show called the 5th wheel? anyone ever seen that?
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Posted: 4/15/2012 9:54:28 AM
anyways, there were a lot of good "dating" tv shows that had some cool first dates.

u might wanna check them out... 
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Posted: 4/15/2012 4:17:37 PM
too bad fartnsniff isn't around to give you some solid advice.
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Posted: 4/15/2012 6:02:01 PM
a rave... haha 


uuuugggggghhhhhh... a buffett, a good one...



tell her this date is skip everything and straight to desert, desert is sex =)

dinner after sex 
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Posted: 4/15/2012 6:08:22 PM
Plow her cornfield!
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Posted: 4/16/2012 1:54:43 PM
^ covers rehab, what happened to him? 
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Posted: 4/16/2012 2:59:28 PM
did  u figure out a good idea?
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