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Compromise??? I hate that word, It virtually means you have to give up everything you like to do in order to become the man she wants, It should be the other way around, She should compromise for you."
(a) No it doesn't
(b) Wait, its not fair you to have to give up everything you like to do to become the man she wants, but damnit, a woman should have to do that for you? That's laughable and wholly immature and unrealistic.
"If you're a gambler she will tell you gambling is bad for you and you need to quit."
Right, and just because your woman says she wants you to do something doesn't mean you do it. Compromise doesn't mean you follow orders in a lock step fashion. Maybe it does to guys who are afraid of their girls or have no self esteem? Who knows.
"If you're a guy that likes to have a social life and hang out with friends she will say you have to spend more time with her and less with them in order for this relationship to work."
Well, that's 100% true. If you think you can go kick it with your boys every night instead of be with your woman, then yeah, your relationship probably isn't going to work because you value your relationships with your other buddies over your relationship with your woman.
"If you're a guy that respects his mother and listens to the woman that gave birth to you she will say stop being such a mummy's boy and make your own decisions."
Well at some point if you want to make this woman the #1 woman in your life by marrying her, then yes, she becomes the most important woman in the world for you. You need to take your mom off of the pedestal and put her on it. That's the trade-off, when you get married you are now saying you dedicate your life to THIS woman, not your mom.
"If you have a great friendship with your brother/s or sister/s she will try and find a way to make that a negative or she will be upset and claim they hate her."
Yeah that's silly. Only women who are insecure in their relationship do that, and as a guy we do really control whether or not our ladies are insecure believe it or not. Give your girl enough love and attention, listen to her when she talks, be a good partner and you'd be surprised how it calms their insecurities down. Sounds like you may have been picking the wrong women.
"Never make a compromise to a woman, The moment you do, You're roped in, You are the man and she needs to compromise to you, It's who has the sperm at the end of the day that should be wearing the trousers."
That's crazy talk. The fact that you believe that compromising in a relationship means that you are no longer wearing the trousers makes me laugh. Compromise is a two-way street -- if you are the only one doing the compromising, then your girl needs to be kicked to the curb, straight out truth.
You are a very, very selfish person if you think that because you are a man, the woman should compromise to you. How about you both compromise?