Right, baby sit your abusive alcoholic parent(s) as an adult. Brilliant self destructive plan. Take care of them, nurture them, apologize to them, cover up for them as you always have done since childhood. It's just the right thing to do....right? Wrong.
I don't know you Irish but I'm proud to know something about your life and career. Do not shed one single tear of guilt, (your father would positively enjoy that because he has chosen alcohol over you and your brother for years).
Impressed you didn't quietly pull the car over on the drive home, ask him to step out of the vehicle away from your son and proceed to slap him across the face and put your finger in his chest with a firm warning.
Chin high Irish. He will call and apologize. ![]()
Right, baby sit your abusive alcoholic parent(s) as an adult. Brilliant self destructive plan. Take care of them, nurture them, apologize to them, cover up for them as you always have done since childhood. It's just the right thing to do....right? Wrong.
I don't know you Irish but I'm proud to know something about your life and career. Do not shed one single tear of guilt, (your father would positively enjoy that because he has chosen alcohol over you and your brother for years).
Impressed you didn't quietly pull the car over on the drive home, ask him to step out of the vehicle away from your son and proceed to slap him across the face and put your finger in his chest with a firm warning.
Chin high Irish. He will call and apologize. ![]()
Mugg..we disagree..a lot of ppl deal with things..like get help or have a good life..that just isnt realistic and its unfair.I probably would have told my brother to take a ride with my son.I definitrly would not let my dad get beligerent or drink around my son.its just not always black and white..get help or beat it...I used to stay pissed at my mother until a couple of shrinks told me she had brain damage from a car accident and just isnt mentally stable..Its made me a lot more compassionate with her..I let most stuff just roll off and love her.That car deal was a bad spot to be in...
Mugg..we disagree..a lot of ppl deal with things..like get help or have a good life..that just isnt realistic and its unfair.I probably would have told my brother to take a ride with my son.I definitrly would not let my dad get beligerent or drink around my son.its just not always black and white..get help or beat it...I used to stay pissed at my mother until a couple of shrinks told me she had brain damage from a car accident and just isnt mentally stable..Its made me a lot more compassionate with her..I let most stuff just roll off and love her.That car deal was a bad spot to be in...
"My sister call her kids lil dumb fucks when she gets mad and it takes every fiber to hold my temper.
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Way to keep your cool while the kids are being berated. The manly and common sense thing to do would be to call your sister outside and defend your nieces and nephews.
But at least you hold it in so the kids will continue to get verbally abused.
"My sister call her kids lil dumb fucks when she gets mad and it takes every fiber to hold my temper.
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Way to keep your cool while the kids are being berated. The manly and common sense thing to do would be to call your sister outside and defend your nieces and nephews.
But at least you hold it in so the kids will continue to get verbally abused.
Irish, your father is a worthless fuck based on the way he still treats you. I think the biggest mistake you made was arguing in front of your kid, which makes your boy even more confused.
When your dad is sober, take the gloves off completely and let him know again exactly how you feel about him, then move on with your life.
BTW, I applaud you for taking the initiative to reunite and try to patch things up with him at a baseball game. However, I hope you now find closure and realize he has a sickness and does not give 2 shits about you.
Irish, your father is a worthless fuck based on the way he still treats you. I think the biggest mistake you made was arguing in front of your kid, which makes your boy even more confused.
When your dad is sober, take the gloves off completely and let him know again exactly how you feel about him, then move on with your life.
BTW, I applaud you for taking the initiative to reunite and try to patch things up with him at a baseball game. However, I hope you now find closure and realize he has a sickness and does not give 2 shits about you.
Honestly irish there is no right answer. The whole point of you taking him to the game was so you your dad and your son could enjoy a mlb game. Your dad ruined it for your son. You have a game in a pennant race that your son will remember for the rest of his life and your dad ruins it
You tried to create a memory and your dad shat on it. If you want him in your life tell him he can't drink around you or your family. And he better show you respect around your son. Tell him straight up if you want to drink yourself to death thats your choice but not around me or my family. Wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy![]()
Honestly irish there is no right answer. The whole point of you taking him to the game was so you your dad and your son could enjoy a mlb game. Your dad ruined it for your son. You have a game in a pennant race that your son will remember for the rest of his life and your dad ruins it
You tried to create a memory and your dad shat on it. If you want him in your life tell him he can't drink around you or your family. And he better show you respect around your son. Tell him straight up if you want to drink yourself to death thats your choice but not around me or my family. Wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy![]()
Sorry Irish.
Trying to reason with an alcoholic is nearly impossible .Instead, I would invest your time and energy into making sure your son is ok. Have a talk with your son and explain to him in a 3 year old's capacity everything that's happened. Your son needs to understand that his father is ok.
Sorry Irish.
Trying to reason with an alcoholic is nearly impossible .Instead, I would invest your time and energy into making sure your son is ok. Have a talk with your son and explain to him in a 3 year old's capacity everything that's happened. Your son needs to understand that his father is ok.
Sorry Irish.
Trying to reason with an alcoholic is nearly impossible .Instead, I would invest your time and energy into making sure your son is ok. Have a talk with your son and explain to him in a 3 year old's capacity everything that's happened. Your son needs to understand that his father is ok.
Sorry Irish.
Trying to reason with an alcoholic is nearly impossible .Instead, I would invest your time and energy into making sure your son is ok. Have a talk with your son and explain to him in a 3 year old's capacity everything that's happened. Your son needs to understand that his father is ok.

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