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Its been 3 months now, I have no idea why she is with him. They have been dating for 8 months, when I ask her how things are going she says " terrible, really really bad " or " he's just there "..................
 
I have never pushed her to break it off with him, Ive been very patient up to this point. But I'm not starting to fall for her and the idea of her spending time with him is starting to get under my skin.
 
Im confused as far as  what to do, I feel like breaking it off with her so hopefully she will break up with him and come running back to me, maybe if she fears there will be a consequence of her staying with him she''ll break it off. I feel like an accomplice, allowing her to have the best of both worlds and if I was her why break up with him ? Im giving her pretty much everything she wants.
 
I never make a big deal of the bf, she always says " thanks for being so blase about the bf thing "
 
When we are together we have amazing times..............
 
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how old are you guys?

 
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Early 30's
 
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If you guys end up together do you think she might me the type to cheat?

I am guessing yes

 
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NFL,
 
Of course you are right, I just want her all to myself for a year or so, not looking further ahead than that.
 
 
 
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I'd break it off.  emotionaly only.  I would still hook up with her but as far as a realationship ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. 
 
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If you really care about her, just let her know.  Say "look, I care about you and this other guy clearly doesn't, and you clearly don't care about him either"

Then of course address the cheating part and your concerns with that. 
 
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Dude, aren't their any other women in Cayman Islands....leave women that are already in a relationship alone...nothing good comes out this.....
 
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Quote Originally Posted by lifemisspent:

Its been 3 months now, I have no idea why she is with him. They have been dating for 8 months, when I ask her how things are going she says " terrible, really really bad " or " he's just there "..................
 
I have never pushed her to break it off with him, Ive been very patient up to this point. But I'm not starting to fall for her and the idea of her spending time with him is starting to get under my skin.
 
Im confused as far as  what to do, I feel like breaking it off with her so hopefully she will break up with him and come running back to me, maybe if she fears there will be a consequence of her staying with him she''ll break it off. I feel like an accomplice, allowing her to have the best of both worlds and if I was her why break up with him ? Im giving her pretty much everything she wants.
 
I never make a big deal of the bf, she always says " thanks for being so blase about the bf thing "
 
When we are together we have amazing times..............
 
Opinions on next move ?
 
 
 
 
That sentence means that you care about her and you have feelings for her. Instead of trying to figure out your next move, you should try to figure out why you have fallen for a 2-timing dirty hoe. No nice way to put it, a girl that cheats and gets fucked by 2 Rondell's is a hoe and not someone you should be developing feelings for.You said you would like to be with her for a year, you dont mind tasting other mens semen for year? This is far more important than your next move, unless that move is giving her the boot, or keeping this strictly a booty call.
 
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You can totally disregard what I've said unless you dont mind her telling the next guy "thanks for being so blase about my BF [you]"........and he's like "no problem" while he has his rondell in your woman.
 
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start seeing someone else
 
see how that magically changes things
 
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Quote Originally Posted by samuelsosa:

That sentence means that you care about her and you have feelings for her. Instead of trying to figure out your next move, you should try to figure out why you have fallen for a 2-timing dirty hoe. No nice way to put it, a girl that cheats and gets fucked by 2 Rondell's is a hoe and not someone you should be developing feelings for.You said you would like to be with her for a year, you dont mind tasting other mens semen for year? This is far more important than your next move, unless that move is giving her the boot, or keeping this strictly a booty call.

This is good and bad advice.

My best advice is go with your gut. But you can play that game of having her coming in and out, because then you can start to date other girls. Play the field while getting yours every once in a while

 
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someone in there early 30's should be smart enough to know that if your banging an "involved" girl that you should just be happy with the sex, falling for a girl whom obviously has loose morals about relationship just says you deserve whatever you get
 
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Quote Originally Posted by kuddish:

This is good and bad advice.

My best advice is go with your gut. But you can play that game of having her coming in and out, because then you can start to date other girls. Play the field while getting yours every once in a while

Simple as that. If you get any more involved with an unfaithful girl its your own fault.
 
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Like others have mentioned, play the field and she how that affects her. You should know how to proceed next after seeing her reaction. Let her know of your intention on seeing others.
 
Either that or get a hold of her bf and see what he's all about. I'm guessing he's a pimp loving the fact that you're taking care of his girl contributing to his coffeur.
 
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Quote Originally Posted by lifemisspent:

NFL,
 
Of course you are right, I just want her all to myself for a year or so, not looking further ahead than that.
 
 

Obviously you like her a lot or you would not be putting up with her screwing another guy regularly.  It sucks to be in that spot but you are setting yourself up for some headaches.

Let me ask you this, reverse it and you are the other guy. What would you do to the second guy if he was knowingly doing what you are doing ? You are putting yourself at risk, its a crazy world out there.

Good luck whatever you do man

 
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Lifemisspent, if she is telling you " he's just there ' and things are "terrible, really really bad " but is not leaving him I would think he is filling a need ( I am guessing financially ) ,next time you ask her how's things are going and she counters with the same ...so so stuff ..try asking more questions ..like what do you mean by bad ? ..and he's just there for What ?
 
Then you might get enough info to make a decision ...
 
 
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I dont see why you would make a decision other than keeping it a booty call. Snap yourself out of it, the girl is a 2-timing hussy. Thats a factual statement. There's no arguing it........how did you develop feelings for a skeezer?
 
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give her herpes then bake her a pie.
 
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bang her brother
 
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Go ask Ann Landers....
 
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if it is just for a piece of ass, you should not care...it is obvious you care {getting under the skin comment} + you are going to lose badly...i am speaking from experience, not judging you...good luck
 
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Have Ann Landers bang her brother
 
 
 
 
All jokes aside what fademeallday says rings true in another sense.  You are in your 30's GOD FORBID you get an STD.  One like herpes or worse, then this booty call ruined a major part of your life permanently.
 
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run away
 
 
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Has the thought entered your head that she is staying with her bf because of his 12" unit?
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