2nd date difficulties

Quote Originally Posted by ShootDaClubUp:

To me it sounds like your whipped like land o lakes butter ( extra churn style )

Quote Originally Posted by SportsFan9698:

She thinks you are gay or impotent because you didn't fuck her brains out that first night.  You think I'm joking??  I bet she was horny and you left her wondering about you...

I tried playing it slow with a few dates a few years back, I have learned that most women want an aggressive guy.  Just my experience...

Quote Originally Posted by MoneySRH:

Looks like you are all good all the way till the end when it’s 4 and goal and there’s 1 second left in the game and you’re going for the winning score and you blow it. If you get a chick to kiss you, that means she would like to fuck you. If you can’t kiss her right. She knows you won’t fuck her right. You should have kissed that chick like there was no tomorrow if you like her so much. Stop this being sweet and kind shit when it comes to closing the deal. You don’t score a touchdown on 4th and goal with 1 second left with finesse. You pound that shit in and score with aggression.

Your entire plan is to make her drool all over you. Stop being the pursuer and be the one perused. Keep telling yourself you are a bad ass and be it. You ever see that ugly dude at the bar with the smokin hot chick and wonder how the fuck did he pull that off? It’s because he knows it’s about aggression and playing a part.

Our fantasy is visual and her fantasy is physical. We fuck with our eyes open and they fuck with their eyes closed. Your saliva has more testosterone in it than her saliva, meaning that a hot intense makeout session will endocrinologically make her aroused and horny. She’s not looking for a kind and gentle friend.

She’s looking for a fuck partner. Step 1 be sweet, smart, and aggressively flirtatious at the start. Step 2 be aggressive and a spitting tongue kissing caveman bad ass during sexual things. And after the sex is step one again. Next time tongue kiss her like your going to die and it might be the last time you tongue kiss a girl in your life.

She’ll go up your shirt and grab your junk first and you’ll be the one laughing through your nose first instead of her. Kissing is the green light man go all out the next time. Your spit and your powerful hands are her viagra, use them both. If she doesn’t fuck you after kissing. At least make her walk funny afterwards. Don’t be like all the rest she’s been with. Be different.

I laugh because what I’m telling you works all the time. The hardest part is getting them to kiss you. If you get that kiss, you score with aggression. Don’t be corny, kiss her hand or say any cheesy one liners. This works with all chicks. Ive been rejected hundreds of times but once I kiss her, she’s mine.

Call her once after and if you’re lucky leave a smooth voice mail and she’ll be calling you. Make her think about you all the time instead of you thinking about her all the time. I think you fucked up at the end and once she sees you that way. I don’t think you can win her back. She might give you a second pity date.

If she does then you have to get her to change her mind about you quick. You’re falling into the Mr. Nice guy, friend or loser category. If she gives you a second date, the way I see it is you have to get her to forget your mistakes. My advice would be to schedule a date around her schedule and then at the last moment, say things came up.

But say if she doesn’t’ mind that she could come down to the gym and you could show her a little jiu jitsu and then go out after. That shows off your toughness and opens the door for rolling on the ground and touching. Sex will pop into her mind and you should be back on track. If she’s still a bitch after giving it your best shot. Then at least you know it’s her and not you.

Be cool and be smooth like it’s no big deal. Spit in her mouth man. It’s viagra.

Quote Originally Posted by EddieGordo:

Looks like you were all good until she texted you about the "Raincheck"....

From there looks like you did yourself in by over-texting and over-analyzing it.....You didn't play it very cool at all based on the texts you said that you sent to her.

I'd imagine this one is running for the hills

Quote Originally Posted by I_Need_A_Detox:

Jesus bro, you said more words complaining about the broad in this thread than you probably said to the actual broad in your entire life.

One fucking date you went on. Get the fuck over it.

Sorry man but this shit is fucking pathetic.

Quote Originally Posted by rated91:

I just got back to this now gents, Sixers game was good and the floor seats were great. Managed to talk to a wealthy 45 year old cougar who sat right next to me. As a reward to her accountant she took him to the game. She was divorced, but due to a lot of complications she could not move out of the state of NJ for the next 3 years, until her youngest graduated high school.

Quote Originally Posted by minion0812:

I agree half way with Fishscale and Hutch. You have to get a hold of yourself!!! WAY TO MUCH OVER ANALYZING!!! Only one date and it looks like you want to marry this girl. You come across incredibly desperate. Thanks gawd she is only 25 so MAYBE you still have a chance. You need to learn to stay back a bit and just let stuff play out. Don't get in too deep too fast even IF you feel very strongly. Just relax and play it cool. That is the best way to approach it.

I know it seems like "hey, if I'm really nice to this girl and make sure she knows that right away" it will be great but that isn't how it works. Let them come to you at the beginning. There may be a couple of occasions that type of game can work but not with independent girls or ones that aren't basket cases. PLEASE do yourself a favor and just lay off a bit. I know it can be tough but if you really like this girl and want her to keep coming around and waiting upon your calls/texts please just lay off and PLAY IT COOL. You seem crazy desperate. Good luck rated. Keep us updated.

Quote Originally Posted by rated91:

So I didn't hear back but ^^ Remi Martin you might be onto something. The market may be flush with the easy to get 30-33 year olds, but what if we bumped it up even further, to the 38-45 year olds? I just did a search and there are a ton of smoking chicks on there and I can only imagine that the odds are greatly in my favor of at least getting laid before the 3rd date. I pretty much type up a generic email and then send it to about 15 of them and get about half to reply and then from there I'll weed them out and set something up with the hottest one. My general email goes something like this;