2nd date difficulties

Recently met a beautiful young woman on match.com, petite little jewish princess, we met at a byob in the country, just outside the city. Nice place, it's like a mansion. The conversation went nice and we continued the date over at a nearby bar, got a few pints and continued chatting. She's jewish, I'm catholic and she was just feeling out if that's something that would bother me. I tell her it honestly wouldn't as I'm pretty much an atheist at this point in my life anyway. Well i drop her off at her car and make a move, just a kiss with a little bit of tongue but not too much. Then kissed her hand and off she went. 

To me it sounds like your whipped like land o lakes butter ( extra churn style )

Looks like you were all good until she texted you about the "Raincheck"....

From there looks like you did yourself in by over-texting and over-analyzing it.....You didn't play it very cool at all based on the texts you said that you sent to her.

I'd imagine this one is running for the hills

I highlighted where I think you went the most wrong

Come on now gents, if someone bails on your plans dont you have the right to try to call/send a few texts to at least iron out the situation? 

Well the good thing at least is that match website if fucking loaded. Some pigs on there but a surprising ammount of 8-9.5's. It's not the end of the world for me, but I guess I was just taken aback at the fact that she was bailing on me. She sent the last text to which i didnt respond and I wont respond at all. 

dont over think the situation. but of course always think of all the possibilities of what u done and said during the date and in-between the dates. psychology is a good tool but dont over-due it.

I think I have upped my position. I waited over then texted "your sweet, your beautiful. Talk to you tomorrow." To which she replied "Thanks cutie, good night". 

^^ *waited over an hour before texting. This is psychology. If you text right back then usually that person will expect an immediate text. If every 3rd or 4th text takes over an hour then they will be thinking of you. That's some Neill Strauss and I hope it worked. I'll have to freshen up and work on my game a bit more, but me approaching women in a bar is like mission impossible. 

You said you called her twice. What phone doesn't have voicemail?

You said she was busy at work and couldn't talk. Why not text her "Call me when you get off work?"

The point is the ball should have been in her court to call you back.

Things went pretty well the first date. If she does call you, remind her of that fact.

There are only three things that could have gone wrong, IMHO

1. You guys drank a little too much on the first date, she thinks you're a boozer.
2. She has a boyfriend.
3. You bragged about what a playa you are on facebook, and she saw it.

Let's find out..................GL

What does she do?  She could very well have been telling the truth about not being able to talk at work and having to work that night.  Just realize that's how this girl is and if that bothers you then make sure you don't get serious.

Also, ask her how her parents feel about her dating a gentile. 

Allow Dr. Fishscale to assess this situation.  Please don't take offense.

We will see. But she isnt my friend on facebook (yet anyway, and prior to adding her in the future I would delete any potential embarrassments from my account). She did have a boyfriend when she lived overseas, but he was a bum that refused to work and stole her money. She left because he was a loser. 

^ Fishscale, no offense taken at all. And to all of you, your advice is appreciated greatly as sometimes I just dont know what the fuck to do...I will just bide my time, she'll let me know tomorrow. 

Best of luck with the lady situation. Just play it a little slow and give her time to respond back. I have made the mistake before of being too antsy and being like 'why haven't you texted me back?!'. 

Thanks Gents, I'll keep you informed. I always sit down to pay bills every time I get on the computer but instead I end up on here or checking out the younger local chicks on isanyoneup.com, a crazy ass site where people send in anonymous nude pics of their exes and it updates daily, LOL

^^ LOL, thanks Fishscale, that was funny as shit. Who knows you might be right. I hate to admit it but I did have sex with 2 of the women I met on the site. One was the married one I had mentioned earlier, the other one was a chubby stalker who after sex and saying goodbye would text the shit out of me like there was no tomorrow. It was insane. There was no possibility of a relationship as I really wasnt attracted to her but she was pretty easy. I could go on a paragraph just about that experience but I'll cut if off for now, I gotta get up in a few. 

Let me tell you something Rated91.  Bitches these days are no joke.  Save your money and jerk off for the rest of your life.  These bitches want it all.  You act like you're in charge, you're a jerk.    You let them run the show, you're a box.    You make good money, you work too much and never spend time with them.    You spend too much time with them, you're a loser that should be making money.  

Three things went wrong

Fishscale, you are obviously a fucking doucher dude bro kinda guy...lmao, wtf do you know? I am blown away by your original post....Jesus

Looks like you are all good all the way till the end when it’s 4 and goal and there’s 1 second left in the game and you’re going for the winning score and you blow it. If you get a chick to kiss you, that means she would like to fuck you. If you can’t kiss her right. She knows you won’t fuck her right.

You should have kissed that chick like there was no tomorrow if you like her so much. Stop this being sweet and kind shit when it comes to closing the deal. You don’t score a touchdown on 4th and goal with 1 second left with finesse. You pound that shit in and score with aggression.

Your entire plan is to make her drool all over you. Stop being the pursuer and be the one perused. Keep telling yourself you are a bad ass and be it. You ever see that ugly dude at the bar with the smokin hot chick and wonder how the fuck did he pull that off? It’s because he knows it’s about aggression and playing a part.

Our fantasy is visual and her fantasy is physical. We fuck with our eyes open and they fuck with their eyes closed. Your saliva has more testosterone in it than her saliva, meaning that a hot intense makeout session will endocrinologically make her aroused and horny. She’s not looking for a kind and gentle friend.

She’s looking for a fuck partner. Step 1 be sweet, smart, and aggressively flirtatious at the start. Step 2 be aggressive and a spitting tongue kissing caveman bad ass during sexual things. And after the sex is step one again. Next time tongue kiss her like your going to die and it might be the last time you tongue kiss a girl in your life.

She’ll go up your shirt and grab your junk first and you’ll be the one laughing through your nose first instead of her. Kissing is the green light man go all out the next time. Your spit and your powerful hands are her viagra, use them both. If she doesn’t fuck you after kissing. At least make her walk funny afterwards. Don’t be like all the rest she’s been with. Be different.

I laugh because what I’m telling you works all the time. The hardest part is getting them to kiss you. If you get that kiss, you score with aggression. Don’t be corny, kiss her hand or say any cheesy one liners. This works with all chicks. Ive been rejected hundreds of times but once I kiss her, she’s mine.

Call her once after and if you’re lucky leave a smooth voice mail and she’ll be calling you. Make her think about you all the time instead of you thinking about her all the time. I think you fucked up at the end and once she sees you that way. I don’t think you can win her back. She might give you a second pity date.

If she does then you have to get her to change her mind about you quick. You’re falling into the Mr. Nice guy, friend or loser category. If she gives you a second date, the way I see it is you have to get her to forget your mistakes. My advice would be to schedule a date around her schedule and then at the last moment, say things came up.

But say if she doesn’t’ mind that she could come down to the gym and you could show her a little jiu jitsu and then go out after. That shows off your toughness and opens the door for rolling on the ground and touching. Sex will pop into her mind and you should be back on track. If she’s still a bitch after giving it your best shot. Then at least you know it’s her and not you.

Be cool and be smooth like it’s no big deal. Spit in her mouth man. It’s viagra.

youre a bigger bitch than jon favreau in swingers

here is the best old fashioned cure ever:

Playboy magazine, box of kleenex...repeat whenever needed

You went wrong at the point where she said, "raincheck."   That means 1 of 2 things.  She truly had an emergency and wants to go out again or she's blowing you off.  That's why you should have played it cool.  You should have just said, "No problem.  Why don't I catch up with you next week."  Then leave well enough alone.  If it was like a Thursday, I'd wait until the following Tuesday (not on Monday....it's like you were staring at the clock for the whole weekend waiting for Monday so you could contact her....Tuesday is perfect).  Then you should have texted her something very simple.  "Hope your week is going well.  Would you like to go out this weekend?  If so, I have a few ideas in mind.  Just let me know."