Posted: 12/23/2007 7:30:11 PM
Some of the facts that I do know:
1. She is not married but does have a child with another guy.
2. We've been messing around since late 2005. On and off. She pulled this stunt before had the baby... but never forced me to take a paternity test. Why? I don't know? Probably because it's not mine. It doesn't look like me either.
3. I brought condoms and I was about to put one on and she goes WTF are you doing? I said putting a condom on... she goes do you think I'm dirty or something? I'm only sleeping with you. So I didn't put it on.
4. I asked her about birth control and I'm waiting for her response. I thought she was on the pill to begin with... of course I thought I knew how to hold my load and stuff... apparently not?
5. I'm worried for many reasons...
A. My wife does know about my affair but has no idea the girl's pregnant. Sh#$, I didn't even know she was pregnant.
B. I promised her I wouldn't ever cheat again... and actually most people say it... but really I wasn't ever going to do it again.
C. I have a lot of assets that the mistress could come after for child support... which I believe is her motive.
D. This would also make my life a living hell for me and my wife for basically.... LIFE.
E. My wife could also get pissed off and just divorce me... I'd be making payments on the new home... child support for 2 kids... yep basically wouldn't be worth a sh#$ to anyone.
That's why I'm worried.
We talked about abortion through text... (while I'm typing this) but I really can't get a good feel on her. Like... I think she's trying to feel me out. Naturally, I can't have another child with someone else. But she might want one with me for the money.