Divorced men of COVERS...what was the final straw that caused you to divorce?

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Posted: 12/27/2010 10:44:01 PM
What made you say "darn it, I'm done"?
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Posted: 12/27/2010 10:45:25 PM
"It's either me or the gambling!"
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Posted: 12/27/2010 11:05:11 PM
I was sleeping and I heard a noise downstairs. I grabbed my gun and walked into the kitchen only to find some dude standing there. He explained to me that he was seeing my wife and thought that I had moved out. I kicked his legs out from under him, got on top of him with my gun pointed in his mouth. I told him, "I bet when you woke up today you never thought you would die today". He pissed his pants, for real. Needless to say, I didn't pull the trigger. I did beat the garbage of him and I moved out the next day. friggin girl.
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Posted: 12/27/2010 11:13:22 PM

I am 31 and have avoided marriage. I knew beforehand that it would end badly. I am not going to stop doing the things I enjoy and a woman in time no matter how the relationship starts. They want you to change into THE person they want you to be and quit doing all the things you have enjoyed your whole life.

You meet a girl and she has tons of friends. Date her for an extended period of time then she slowly weens herself off from hanging out with them. Now she only wants to spend time with you and do the things she wants to do. Sure she will act like she doesnt mind you doing the things that alot of guys enjoy. But its just a test and you will fail because by continuing to do the hobbies you enjoy whatever that is for you, will in her mind will tell her you dont care about her. So she will start bitching way more not realizing it pisses us off and makes us hate em....And in her mind she doesn't get that because she feels she is the only one who cares about the relationship.

My guess for guys getting a divorce would be they are sick and tired of having to be Jekyll And Hyde just to keep her emotional behind happy.

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Posted: 12/27/2010 11:16:53 PM
She read your little sister story didn't she
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Posted: 12/27/2010 11:19:49 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by SALTY:

I am 31 and have avoided marriage. I knew beforehand that it would end badly. I am not going to stop doing the things I enjoy and a woman in time no matter how the relationship starts. They want you to change into THE person they want you to be and quit doing all the things you have enjoyed your whole life.

You meet a girl and she has tons of friends. Date her for an extended period of time then she slowly weens herself off from hanging out with them. Now she only wants to spend time with you and do the things she wants to do. Sure she will act like she doesnt mind you doing the things that alot of guys enjoy. But its just a test and you will fail because by continuing to do the hobbies you enjoy whatever that is for you, will in her mind will tell her you dont care about her. So she will start bitching way more not realizing it pisses us off and makes us hate em....And in her mind she doesn't get that because she feels she is the only one who cares about the relationship.

My guess for guys getting a divorce would be they are sick and tired of having to be Jekyll And Hyde just to keep her emotional behind happy.

Dude 31 = don't know $hit yet.  Hell I am 34 and still don't know 4hit..  Live life a little I think you will sing a different tune in a few years.  Secondly, if that is your views on life and you stick to them you have nothing but loneliness and misery ahead.  I honestly don't think you believe this but rather this is just what you keep telling yourself.  There is no doubt that if you are in the wrong marriage life can suck but that is why you get out there and find someone who you can share a life with.  If you do it is all worth it.  If you don't you come see a guy like me who helps you get out of it.  BOL!

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Posted: 12/27/2010 11:20:36 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by gutcheck:

I was sleeping and I heard a noise downstairs. I grabbed my gun and walked into the kitchen only to find some dude standing there. He explained to me that he was seeing my wife and thought that I had moved out. I kicked his legs out from under him, got on top of him with my gun pointed in his mouth. I told him, "I bet when you woke up today you never thought you would die today". He pissed his pants, for real. Needless to say, I didn't pull the trigger. I did beat the garbage of him and I moved out the next day. friggin girl.


Gun mouth pee pants huh, thats cool.    Any other good stories involving almost shooting people?
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Posted: 12/27/2010 11:26:44 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by pjrez:

She read your little sister story didn't she
cmon who doesnt like spending their saturday nights doing chest curls and spanking your 12 year old sisters naked behind???
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Posted: 12/27/2010 11:44:19 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by jesron1269:

Dude 31 = don't know $hit yet.  Hell I am 34 and still don't know 4hit..  Live life a little I think you will sing a different tune in a few years.  Secondly, if that is your views on life and you stick to them you have nothing but loneliness and misery ahead.  I honestly don't think you believe this but rather this is just what you keep telling yourself.  There is no doubt that if you are in the wrong marriage life can suck but that is why you get out there and find someone who you can share a life with.  If you do it is all worth it.  If you don't you come see a guy like me who helps you get out of it.  BOL!

I by far am not saying I know everything.

But I will say as far as living life hardcore the last 9-10 years doing many things that most dont get the chance to do. I do know enough to know that there is NO RUSH to get married and I never want kids.

So falling into the spell of a pushy woman to get married just cause she put me on a clock since we met is not how I am going down.

I know too many guys who are in their 30's and 40's before they realize they fucked up their lives. I just have the ability to say no to a woman even after she starts crying.

And I guess that is still my views on marriage because when I go out, I still can meet new women without having to put out much effort. If I turn into a sloth then marriage will be a priority.

XhuegoX PM XhuegoX
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Posted: 12/28/2010 12:05:23 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by misfits:

cmon who doesnt like spending their saturday nights doing chest curls and spanking your 12 year old sisters naked behind???

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Posted: 12/28/2010 12:07:17 AM
No way, was that you huego?  That post was legendary.
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Posted: 12/28/2010 12:21:37 AM
Gutcheck, seems like you should have pointed your aggression toward her my friend...
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Posted: 12/28/2010 12:32:25 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by SALTY:

I by far am not saying I know everything.

But I will say as far as living life hardcore the last 9-10 years doing many things that most dont get the chance to do. I do know enough to know that there is NO RUSH to get married and I never want kids.

So falling into the spell of a pushy woman to get married just cause she put me on a clock since we met is not how I am going down.

Damn straight.

Better to die on your feet, then live on your knees.

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Posted: 12/28/2010 5:29:16 AM
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Posted: 12/28/2010 7:28:34 AM
QUOTE

Originally Posted by walktheline:

"It's either me or the gambling!"

 Thats what my ex said but she also added in the drinking  The day she said she was leaving I told her the goldfish will miss her she said we don't have a goldfish my reply was I guess knowone will then

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Posted: 12/28/2010 9:21:17 AM

It entered my mind when my wife totaled our 35k Saab 9-3.

Drunk.

She was arrested in the emergency room, blowing a .23

Went through rehab, got her job back; then got caught drinking at work. Fired.

After a while, I moved out. Got tired of stepping over her.

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Posted: 12/28/2010 10:03:39 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by The Hawk:

It entered my mind when my wife totaled our 35k Saab 9-3.

Drunk.

She was arrested in the emergency room, blowing a .23

Went through rehab, got her job back; then got caught drinking at work. Fired.

After a while, I moved out. Got tired of stepping over her.



ouch glad you moved on
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Posted: 12/28/2010 10:13:23 AM
Getting married is so 1950's. Couple's like Ward and June Cleaver don't exist anymore.
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Posted: 12/28/2010 11:05:30 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by JoeKool:

Getting married is so 1950's. Couple's like Ward and June Cleaver don't exist anymore.
 Totaly agree!!!!!Marriage/dating is too much work...I just turned 40 yesterday never had gf nor ever married or no kids...After much thought Im happy being single...I dont want togive up my freedom. I can do what I want when I want...Also time for me to get back into shape....Being married or dating wont allow me to do that...Besides most girls arnt into getting shape all the want to do is party and get us fat.....darn that.
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Posted: 12/28/2010 12:41:37 PM

She told me to go find me another women

She said there was no way I would find any girl willing to put up with me.

She was wrong.

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Posted: 12/28/2010 2:04:33 PM

3 variables define a successful marriage in my simple mind.

She must like to cook, clean, & have sex. I'm not saying everyday, but at least a few times a week. Once this stops - GAME OVER.

It's just that simple...

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Posted: 12/28/2010 2:53:51 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by jerseykingpin:

 Thats what my ex said but she also added in the drinking  The day she said she was leaving I told her the goldfish will miss her she said we don't have a goldfish my reply was I guess knowone will then

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Posted: 12/28/2010 3:40:50 PM

Most of the time it's any person, place, or thing that makes you feel more like a man than your wife does.

 

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Posted: 12/28/2010 4:10:49 PM
she thought having a guy friend that came on to her twice while we were engaged and still admitted to feelings for her was okay. the final straw was when she thought she could come home at 5am blackout drunk being dropped off by said guy friend was ok. i was gone 2 days later. i was only 22 though so i shouldnt have ever gotten married. it was only 5 months, thank god
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Posted: 12/28/2010 4:48:11 PM
QUOTE

Originally Posted by gutcheck:

I was sleeping and I heard a noise downstairs. I grabbed my gun and walked into the kitchen only to find some dude standing there. He explained to me that he was seeing my wife and thought that I had moved out. I kicked his legs out from under him, got on top of him with my gun pointed in his mouth. I told him, "I bet when you woke up today you never thought you would die today". He pissed his pants, for real. Needless to say, I didn't pull the trigger. I did beat the garbage of him and I moved out the next day. friggin girl.

 

Wow i couldnt even imagine having to go through something like that,  glad u didn't shoot him can u image spending the rest of your life in prison cuts of some garbage like that? Good for u for showing some serious restaurant......with what kind of WIFE not gf would have the balls to bring another man into a house when she knows her husband is there?  I dont care if she looked like a SI swimsuit model that girl would been out on her behind...kids no kids wouldn't matter.

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