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Posted: 4/22/2012 3:22:58 PM

If anyone experienced dating a west indian girl (east indian whose family moved to the west then gave birth- trinidad guyana,etc- let me know.

I find this girl extremely no existant to sex or any love emotions. Also doesn't help that her father is an abusive husband(2 wifes? wtf) and there seems to be so much interest about her mother that I think she would marrry her over a guy just to be with her.

Her brothers are great guys(at least they appear to be) Her younger brother and I get a long. we even played on the same hockey team.

This is a big culture shock so I wonder if anyone can give me some advice.

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Posted: 4/22/2012 4:51:01 PM
Crazy co-incidence here..buddy of mine lives in Miami and has been getting to 'know' some Indian chick..Sexting and all kinds of wild garbage going on over there..
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Posted: 4/22/2012 5:05:28 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by AdamRT:

If anyone experienced dating a west indian girl (east indian whose family moved to the west then gave birth- trinidad guyana,etc- let me know.

I find this girl extremely no existant to sex or any love emotions. Also doesn't help that her father is an abusive husband(2 wifes? wtf) and there seems to be so much interest about her mother that I think she would marrry her over a guy just to be with her.

Her brothers are great guys(at least they appear to be) Her younger brother and I get a long. we even played on the same hockey team.

This is a big culture shock so I wonder if anyone can give me some advice.

The answer is simple my friend.Starve a cold feed a fever.Get that booty boy.(not her brother)
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Posted: 4/22/2012 7:48:55 PM
these threads are pointless because users just join and dont post updates etc. we never hear back from them. they only post 1 or 2 times and bam, never heard from again.
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Posted: 4/22/2012 9:38:06 PM
If she offers you a cup of grape flavored Koolaid I need you to decline and get out of there immediatly.
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Posted: 4/22/2012 10:21:38 PM

 Are you talking about a Carribean girl (West Indies) or a girl from India ?

 

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Posted: 4/23/2012 12:38:57 PM

sort of the same thing. A family from India who moved to Trinidad.

aside from where she is from. She was born here in USA. I'm just trying to learn the fact if most indian girls are unlike white girls.

what is strange is even if other indian girls act a certain way. They are referred to as person bad girls,etc.

I just see a double standard because I know she lies, and treats me in a odd way but she says she has strong values and wants to be a geat mother, etc and adores her mother.

it's really strange

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Posted: 4/23/2012 4:10:37 PM
I am related, by marriage, to such a family.  Nice people, though I suspect they all inherently mistrust those not from their islands.  I guess generations of expoitation will do that to you.  There always seems to be a subtext to any interation I have with them.  I gather that the girls grow up with certain "expectations," though I'm not sure exactly what they are.  I think it's fairly common to have lots of kids by different men down there.  It's certainly the norm in the people I know.  They do drink a lot, which is nice. 
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Posted: 4/23/2012 4:22:21 PM
I've met a few and the ones with strong attachments to parents are likly virginal and also viewed other girls without such ties as person.
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Posted: 4/23/2012 4:41:58 PM
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Originally Posted by 666LES:

I've met a few and the ones with strong attachments to parents are likly virginal and also viewed other girls without such ties as person.

 

i'm not too sure if mine is a virgin. She says she isn't. But you are so right about calling other girls person. Anywhere we go she acts like she is disgusted with other girls. indian, white, person, whoever.acts like she is better than them and talks silly like oooh she is this she is that.

 

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Posted: 4/23/2012 6:07:23 PM

I met one online a few years ago and we agreed to go out. During our dinner date she stated in no uncertain terms that she was saving herself for marriage. And she was pushing 40 at the time, so I found that a bit creepy and quickly moved on. 

A dated a differnet one shortly thereafter and I recall we were strolling through Walgreens together in search of condoms on just our 2nd date.

I found in my dating career that these Indian girls tend to be on either side of a broad spectrum. Some are extremly conservative, whole others are very loose. Not much of a middle ground.  

    

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