Question for Married Guys

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Supply_N_Demand PM Supply_N_Demand
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Posted: 5/6/2012 4:58:29 PM
Hey guys, I was wondering how many people that are married or you know that are married and truly happy.  It seems alot of people that are married just do it for the kids, finances, I just want to know from people on here what they think about marriage.
I-Got-5-On-It PM I-Got-5-On-It
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Posted: 5/6/2012 5:06:35 PM
I'm not married and have no intention of getting married ever  

I just know it most probably wouldn't work out and being single I can move to wherever,live and work where I want,spend my money on what I want and generally live a content lifestyle without having a wife and kids draining my paycheck every week  
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Posted: 5/6/2012 5:07:03 PM
I'm guessing 5% or lower are truly happy, me included.
Kelly_Slater PM Kelly_Slater
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Posted: 5/6/2012 5:42:37 PM
i wonder what the final consensus will be on this 




i have 3 wives so i'm partial
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Posted: 5/6/2012 5:51:27 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by I-Got-5-On-It:

I'm not married and have no intention of getting married ever  

I just know it most probably wouldn't work out and being single I can move to wherever,live and work where I want,spend my money on what I want and generally live a content lifestyle without having a wife and kids draining my paycheck every week  

Yea, but once you get past your teen years will you feel the same way?
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Posted: 5/6/2012 6:30:25 PM
It would have to be greater then 5 percent. I'm married and happy with that part of my life. I know many that are. Although I was happy being single as well. I think the ones who are unhappy choose to be unhappy.
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Posted: 5/6/2012 6:37:56 PM

We just celebrated 21 years.  Marriage is not for everybody, and that's OK.  Follow your heart and don't try to fake anything.  Married or not, there is no such thing as being happy all the time.  Life is full of ups and downs and you have to roll with the punches.  That way at least you can be happy most of the time.


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Posted: 5/6/2012 6:48:35 PM
I’m married and happy. I have two wives though, mary jane and my wife. Everything’s good for me. Sometimes I get frustrated because I want to stick my penis in other chicks and I can’t but other than that its been gravy. That only happens when my balls are full, so I get my wife to blow my load as much as possible. I got married because she never bored me. I’m happy and comfortable and she's my fantasy so I'm gonna stay with her till I die.
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Posted: 5/6/2012 7:38:32 PM
How may single 40 year old guys are happy?
mainmanmainman2 PM mainmanmainman2
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Posted: 5/6/2012 8:09:26 PM
once ur married the sex ends...

unless ur wife is like j damon's wife, i bet she wants it all the time.

i think some couples are happy, truly happy. i'd say 40%... it always wears off. imagine like working at a really good sushi place, sure u get some cool people coming in from time to time and u get free food, but its kinda boring in the long run. ok that was a bad analogy. 



u just gotta keep working at marriage. the rate of divorce keep climbing. hefner has it good. 
Allbutbroke PM Allbutbroke
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Posted: 5/6/2012 8:32:39 PM
QUOTE

Originally Posted by thorpe:

How may single 40 year old guys are happy?

Well said........

Married 31 years.  I can't imagine a life without a family to share it with.  Roller coaster ride at times but it is what you put into it.

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Posted: 5/6/2012 8:34:04 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by mainmanmainman2:

once ur married the sex ends...
That's a myth Women are mental not visual, if you ain't fuckin, your game and technique is wack.They are just as horny as us, the only difference is you have to work at it with them.
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Posted: 5/6/2012 9:06:16 PM

happily married

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Posted: 5/6/2012 9:20:33 PM
I've been married 36 years and I have never been unhappy about it. There have been times that have been better than others during those years but looking back there's no way I'd want to have done it alone. 

We come from a generation where both partners pull in the same direction economically so now approaching 60 the house is paid, our daughter is long out of college and on her own, we don't owe anyone anything and we have money in the bank for the final stretch. 

There's something to be said about having different women on your arm but the trade off is the security in knowing you can do something fairly stupid (and I've done some stupid things) and still have support. 

If you cannot respect one another under every circumstance, then you will struggle. If you can, life's pretty good. 


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Posted: 5/6/2012 9:53:56 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by Raisethis2:

I've been married 36 years and I have never been unhappy about it. There have been times that have been better than others during those years but looking back there's no way I'd want to have done it alone. 

We come from a generation where both partners pull in the same direction economically so now approaching 60 the house is paid, our daughter is long out of college and on her own, we don't owe anyone anything and we have money in the bank for the final stretch. 

There's something to be said about having different women on your arm but the trade off is the security in knowing you can do something fairly stupid (and I've done some stupid things) and still have support. 

If you cannot respect one another under every circumstance, then you will struggle. If you can, life's pretty good. 




seems like u are the man
I-Got-5-On-It PM I-Got-5-On-It
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Posted: 5/6/2012 11:06:13 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by Allbutbroke:


Yea, but once you get past your teen years will you feel the same way?

I'm 32
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Posted: 5/6/2012 11:15:29 PM

Married and happy here,

Look, Iv been married 7 years

first marriage for me, first for the wife

We have a beautiful 3 year old daughter.

 

You ask me if there are no problems ever?

Ofcourse there are, But overall we have many more good times than bad.

Marriage to me is the ultimate game of of compromise to another

She compromises to you sometimes

You have to compromise to her sometimes

You cant get it your way everytime

And she better not be getting it her way everytime.

Its compromise

If you cant compromise, never get married and god forbid, never produce offspring, you will be unhappy and make everyone around you unhappy.

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Posted: 5/6/2012 11:16:23 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by MoneySRH:

I’m married and happy. I have two wives though, mary jane and my wife. Everything’s good for me. Sometimes I get frustrated because I want to stick my penis in other chicks and I can’t but other than that its been gravy. That only happens when my balls are full, so I get my wife to blow my load as much as possible. I got married because she never bored me. I’m happy and comfortable and she's my fantasy so I'm gonna stay with her till I die.


one of my favorite posts on covers all time... IM not married but practically am  since I been with same lady for over 10 years...everything you said applies to me man... everything
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Posted: 5/6/2012 11:52:30 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by mafioso:

Married and happy here,

Look, Iv been married 7 years

first marriage for me, first for the wife

We have a beautiful 3 year old daughter.

 

You ask me if there are no problems ever?

Ofcourse there are, But overall we have many more good times than bad.

Marriage to me is the ultimate game of of compromise to another

She compromises to you sometimes

You have to compromise to her sometimes

You cant get it your way everytime

And she better not be getting it her way everytime.

Its compromise

If you cant compromise, never get married and god forbid, never produce offspring, you will be unhappy and make everyone around you unhappy.


well said
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Posted: 5/7/2012 12:24:36 AM
Don't do it man. 
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Posted: 5/7/2012 12:32:23 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by Supply_N_Demand:

Hey guys, I was wondering how many people that are married or you know that are married and truly happy.  


ZERO!
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Posted: 5/7/2012 12:47:26 AM
Great thread guys, wish you nothing but the best in your marriages.

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Posted: 5/7/2012 12:58:16 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by thorpe:

How may single 40 year old guys are happy?


George Clooney ?
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Posted: 5/7/2012 3:59:29 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by MoneySRH:

I’m married and happy. I have two wives though, mary jane and my wife. Everything’s good for me. Sometimes I get frustrated because I want to stick my penis in other chicks and I can’t but other than that its been gravy. That only happens when my balls are full, so I get my wife to blow my load as much as possible. I got married because she never bored me. I’m happy and comfortable and she's my fantasy so I'm gonna stay with her till I die.



Tell her I like to be with her, every night I sleep with her

This formula works for me also... I can really relate... 

hard for people who are not married to understand it tho...

I think that being married actually helps with hard times... when you are dating you always wonder if you should break up... being married takes that off the table mentally and allows you to endure...


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Posted: 5/7/2012 4:13:35 AM
Bets as always

DL36 you should stop by the P-Box and post in bets rap thread.
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