what do u think and what wuld u do...

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Posted: 4/29/2012 11:03:50 PM

I am turning 33 on may, 1...i recently started seeing this 39 year old who will be 40 on may 12....we have hungout 3 times, once on first date and then at her house the other two times....she texts me 24-7 and now talking bout how she is falling in love with me...also need to mention i drive an hour and a half to see here....

 

other question is if dating someone...when does the guy have to stop paying for everything?  i mean hell it cost 30 bucks in gas just there and back

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Posted: 4/29/2012 11:31:07 PM
What are you asking ? Age no problem ? 
Paying for everything ? Are you stoned ? 
You're gonna pay for the rest of your life if your in a relationship with a woman.
You can always choose another guy maybe he will pay for all your garbage. 
mbialowas PM mbialowas
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Posted: 4/29/2012 11:39:33 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by DickyR:

What are you asking ? Age no problem ? 
Paying for everything ? Are you stoned ? 
You're gonna pay for the rest of your life if your in a relationship with a woman.
You can always choose another guy maybe he will pay for all your garbage. 

Sorry about the bad luck pal, but my woman pays for everything. Its a good deal, you should find a woman like that.

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Posted: 4/29/2012 11:42:38 PM
By your tone it appears that she is not all that. However i'd like to know why are you driving 3h round trip???? to see her? Is she that hot  or are you desperate to get laid? 

To me it sounds like its been a while for you and youre enjoying this half-assed broad. Better to find a milf closer to home. As for the money thing 50/50 buddy. Screw her if she dont like that.
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Posted: 4/29/2012 11:43:23 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by mbialowas:

Sorry about the bad luck pal, but my woman pays for everything. Its a good deal, you should find a woman like that.


We are all friends here it's ok to admit YOUR MOMMY still pays for everything, 

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Posted: 4/29/2012 11:46:27 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by DickyR:


We are all friends here it's ok to admit YOUR MOMMY still pays for everything, 

Go suck a fat person cunthead. All I am saying is it isn't the guys job to pay for everything, if you think it is, you are living in the 50s penis breath.

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Posted: 4/29/2012 11:58:40 PM
she is very attractive first of all...i have no problem getting laid either...this site is full of fool...just asking for thoughts and i get dickhead responses...ty for those who actually tried to give a decent response with a little thought put into it.
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Posted: 4/30/2012 12:00:38 AM
Sorrry about getting off the topic, like JJ said 50/50 for everything. Also, I don't see the age being a problem. Good  luck
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Posted: 4/30/2012 12:06:44 AM
If you need to ask us, your not into this....


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Posted: 4/30/2012 12:06:46 AM

The guy pays when you go out together etc ........ imo

3 hours roundtrip is too far for me ... idk, she might be worth it .....

do you have a problem with the texting thing or that she says she's falling in love with you?

it sounds like you're already sick of her ... if she was worth it i don't think you'd be questioning it on an internet forum .....

GL ..

 

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Posted: 4/30/2012 12:27:10 AM
just wanted other guys opinions...anyone ever fallen in love or had girl fall in love with u after 3 dates?
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Posted: 4/30/2012 12:42:59 AM

does she have kids? does she want kids?

she might be looking to move fast if she doesn't have kids and want them ... time is almost up.

 

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Posted: 4/30/2012 12:49:49 AM
How many cats does she own? If its more then 2 RUN!
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Posted: 4/30/2012 12:51:21 AM
how'd you meet this chick that lives 90 minutes away? Online dating? You should hit the advanced search button and look for chicks that live somewhat close to you next time. good luck
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Posted: 4/30/2012 12:57:01 AM

you shud pay damn near every time. im ol school mentality. if she feels like being generous every blue moon, so be it. then later ill slide that money in her purse. i got gentlemen attributes when it comes to that bs. doesnt bother me.

dont date a female if youre broke. unless she is a big fan of redbox. 

as for her falling in love. she may be a clinger/honeymooner. i call honeymooners the females that love the initial few months of being liked and appreciated. then they cling to the love word way too soon. then so many months later she gets bored and will cling to the next one when it becomes the normal relationship of repition.

or, maybe u just got all da game like brotha craig...

 

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Posted: 4/30/2012 1:00:07 AM

she got a car?

buss pass?

dont think youd trip as much about dollar bills if she drove to you...

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Posted: 4/30/2012 1:34:34 AM
Meh, I am down to pay for the first few dates but after that....she better start coughing up some $$$.

Women want their equality and all their rights and independence? Then they need to act like it. (Yes, even in the financial realm of things)...I friggin can't stand these "independent women" that expect handouts day in day out...get real. 
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Posted: 4/30/2012 1:38:19 AM
Not to sound harsh or anything but seriously...like everyone says, "its the 21st century". I mean I can see the guy paying for everything if your wife wants to stay home and take care of yalls kids or what not, but thats a different story. 

 But to answer your question....if she is "falling in love with you after 3 dates" then yes, that is ABNORMAL. Little too quick IMO.

Also, don't feel like you have to drive to her place every time...I mean, she has a friggin car too right?
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Posted: 4/30/2012 8:24:57 AM
You're 33 and asking how long does it take to stop paying for things?  Haven't dated much have you?  That's a typical question from a 20 year old
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Posted: 4/30/2012 9:39:59 AM
Chicks in that age range can be very fun for periods of time, but not long term.  Always marry down, if you must get married.
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Posted: 4/30/2012 1:28:31 PM
The moment she finds out you are a sports betting addict with a pessimistic attitude, she will change her mind and leave you. 

You're claiming to be 33 but everything in your original post suggests you are 16,,, complaining about gas money??? When does a guy have to stop paying???  Good luck when it comes time for you to get married,,, likely the best piece of advice you're ever going to get out of this thread:  "engagement rings are sold at pawn stores"

This site has steadily become more of a joke with every passing year. 
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Posted: 4/30/2012 9:29:43 PM
if she's worth it, the drive is worth it.  Get marry, you'll be happier.
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Posted: 4/30/2012 9:52:10 PM

Do you like her?

Does she have kids?

What would you be doing if you did drive to see her?

How come she doesnt come to your place ebery other time?

 

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Posted: 5/1/2012 2:27:05 AM
these are always my favorite threads



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Posted: 5/1/2012 4:20:58 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by packersbackers:

The moment she finds out you are a sports betting addict with a pessimistic attitude, she will change her mind and leave you. 

You're claiming to be 33 but everything in your original post suggests you are 16,,, complaining about gas money??? When does a guy have to stop paying???  Good luck when it comes time for you to get married,,, likely the best piece of advice you're ever going to get out of this thread:  "engagement rings are sold at pawn stores"

This site has steadily become more of a joke with every passing year. 

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