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THEMUGG PM THEMUGG
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Posted: 6/8/2012 2:53:31 PM
LV truck....mattbrot......clubdirt.........that's the life of being married with kids & it sounds like you guys are doing it "right".

 I found out that being "selfish" has more to do with time than anything else. Time becomes a precious commodity to all concerned when married with children. You may not be doing much wrong in your own eyes but when wifey isn't happy you have to reevaluate your actions..........you may have to compromise even more than you originally imagined.
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Posted: 6/8/2012 3:06:54 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by ClubDirt:



yeah, i can see that negotiation going real well.

you're a shitty wife, darn off, i get the kids 71% of the time.  sign here. 
I'm saying that with a lot of assumptions. If he's working all week and taking care of the kids the rest of the time. What exactly does she do? So I'm assuming she doesn't really give a garbage and would be willing to give them up like that.
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Posted: 6/8/2012 3:10:20 PM
divorce is often a nasty business with kids involved.  and i suspect milrod is a millionaire from his gambling so it could get really ugly. 
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Posted: 6/8/2012 3:17:03 PM
My gal and I have been together for almost 9 years.  We're not married and I think that actually is a help.  Keeps you on your toes and it works both ways.  But to each their own.

As for a divorce, I had a completely miserable childhood UNTIL my parents got divorced.  They put the kids first 100% of the time and they approached it like adults (they never criticized the other....they never used the kids to get back at the other).  It was handled in a very mature manner.  My dad was a complete fool.  He went to counseling and he became a different person.  Best thing for our family.  4 of my siblings are married....first marriage for all and obviously still together.  Every one of them has kids and they are for the most part terrific.  

Divorce can be a solution if you have two mature people who put the kids first. 
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Posted: 6/8/2012 7:17:30 PM
does your wife have many girl friends? Perfect solution would be get a babysitter and have her go for a walk or play tennis with her friends during the time you want to golf with yours. 
Iw1nBets PM Iw1nBets
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Posted: 6/8/2012 7:35:56 PM
Jmilrod im upset 

no 1 calls me buddy selfish... i dont care who they are
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Posted: 6/11/2012 9:43:19 AM
QUOTE

Originally Posted by ClubDirt:

divorce is often a nasty business with kids involved.  and i suspect milrod is a millionaire from his gambling so it could get really ugly. 

almost spit my coffee out reading that one

good thing we're not married

I spent the weekend out with the guys... took a lot of anger out on the golf course, hacked the garbage like crazy all day.

feel much better today, spent all day sunday with the family and everything was cool... i guess she gave up on being a total girl for a while

i think she's just had a rough couple weeks.

her 18 yr. old cousin shot herself about 2 weeks ago and its been real hard for her to deal with the loss.

so i'm just gonna say thats where all the B.S. stemmed from

"Time becomes a precious commodity" --- THEMUGG

this is pretty much it, she doesn't seem to understand why, when the free time comes up, that I don't want to spend every second with the girls and her... I try to tell her I need some time away to keep my cool and make myself a better person in return.

Dirt, Truck, Capt., Bets, Mugg, Bill, Messier, Hutch, Swish, wmi, ocd, train, salty, kap, detox, hawk, matt

 thanks for all the posts

it's threads like these that keep me posting here

you all are some cool mofo's

J.J. Dean PM J.J. Dean
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Posted: 6/11/2012 6:01:31 PM
Jesus christ. All you married guys sound like youre living with your fuckin mothers. You need permission from your wife to go out for a couple of hours to "play"? darn that!
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Posted: 6/11/2012 11:38:15 PM
no matter what be careful, women are vicious, several of my friends lives have been destroyed by wicked woman, TRO's, false abuse charges, losing houses they paid for, taking the kids away etc. if your relationship is over.... act first, get the TRO, etc dont EVER let her do it first. courts side with women so dont let her get the upper hand. Women will rob you and take everything they can when they have put in nothing.
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Posted: 6/12/2012 1:33:44 AM
No kids, but married. This situation is about the kids. If you feel you do enough (it sounds like you do to me) then let her girl. Do you own property together? Your ties to her are what let you what you can/can do. My wife and get along just fine but there are always moments where we piss each other off. She is my. Est froe
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LarryWayne10 PM LarryWayne10
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Posted: 6/12/2012 1:36:07 AM
She is my best friend and I prefer to hang out with her during my time off, but if I want to golf or doing anything I can, no questions asked
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LarryWayne10 PM LarryWayne10
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Posted: 6/12/2012 1:38:41 AM
Do your thing ignore her when neccesary. Just "try" to be nice even if you want to strangle her. Weed is a big help
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mattbrot PM mattbrot
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Posted: 6/12/2012 9:48:26 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by J.J. Dean:

Jesus christ. All you married guys sound like youre living with your fuckin mothers. You need permission from your wife to go out for a couple of hours to "play"? darn that!


J.J. -- It is the kid thing and not the wife thing. When we did not have a kid than I more or less did whatever I wanted on the weekends when I wanted my "guy" time. However, once kids come along it becomes a little different.


mattbrot PM mattbrot
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Posted: 6/12/2012 9:50:38 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by LarryWayne10:

No kids, but married. This situation is about the kids. If you feel you do enough (it sounds like you do to me) then let her girl. Do you own property together? Your ties to her are what let you what you can/can do. My wife and get along just fine but there are always moments where we piss each other off. She is my. Est froe


Exactly -- if the situation did not include kids than I would 100% support the OP. A wife that girl about golf and/or fishing after a long busy week is being demanding. But again it becomes different when a family is involved.

My opinion anyways. And of course every situation is different.
SwishSwish1234 PM SwishSwish1234
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Posted: 6/12/2012 10:18:38 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by mattbrot:



J.J. -- It is the kid thing and not the wife thing. When we did not have a kid than I more or less did whatever I wanted on the weekends when I wanted my "guy" time. However, once kids come along it becomes a little different.



Well said Matthew 

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Posted: 6/12/2012 10:55:48 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by J.J. Dean:

Jesus christ. All you married guys sound like youre living with your fuckin mothers. You need permission from your wife to go out for a couple of hours to "play"? darn that!


Its easy when you live in moms basement or have a boyfriend. Try living with a women who isnt related to you for a few years and then report back. Until then, shut the darn up.
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Posted: 6/12/2012 11:31:55 AM
there is nothing like women problems  . its called women challenges
jmilrod PM jmilrod
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Posted: 7/30/2012 2:18:59 PM

blowjobs help

and she seems much happier when i give it to her hard

jmilrod PM jmilrod
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Posted: 8/24/2012 11:50:50 AM

old lady told me i need therapy this morning

cause i gamble too much

i told her she needed therapy cause she can't deepthroat

ad1260 PM ad1260
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Posted: 8/24/2012 12:04:41 PM
Uh oh
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Posted: 8/24/2012 3:18:43 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by TRAIN69:

Q: You know what the useless meat around the vagina is called?


A: The woman!


Keep doing what you do bro. Its not about you or her anymore, its about those kids. They need you both.


BOL

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Posted: 8/24/2012 3:36:09 PM
I thought this was going to be about tampons and PMS,this is depressing.
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Posted: 8/24/2012 4:23:15 PM
QUOTE Originally Posted by LVTruck:

A friend of mine is going thru the same garbage.

My situation is a little different, My wife is a stay at home mom,
(11 years)
I've changed about 5 pee diapers between both kids, 
diapers days are over.. Thank God

I never have to cook, unless I'm cooking for friends or partys, she not a very good cook, but the kids are cool with the basics.
I never clean, or do laundry..
So for the most part I have it made.
BUT, the trade off is this my free time is always spent with the family.

If I'm going out it's with my Wife or Kids.

I am able to go out for a couple of hours, after 10 pm, shoot dice, Cards, whatever, but if it's the weekend I have to be up at 9am,
and I can't say I'm hungover.

For the most part I like hanging with my family. 
Sure it's a far cry from snorting bumps off strippers tits,
 but as we all know that garbage gets old, Or maybe I just did..
 









Sure its a far cry from snorting bumps off strippers tits 
PokinSmot PM PokinSmot
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Posted: 8/24/2012 4:33:27 PM
Posted: 6/8/2012 10:55:12 AM
QUOTE Originally Posted by WhatEvaYo:

J can you relay the vids I posted in pokinsmot's thread to him b4 i I get zapped?!? Much appreciated!!! 
P-Boxer's 


what vid y00000?  




women: you can't live with them, you can't live without them.

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Posted: 8/24/2012 4:58:59 PM
I agree with matt, it isn't a women thing, it is a kid thing.  My kids are getting older, so it is easier.  I started golfing on the weekends at the crack of dawn and still could get back home by 10am and do family things the rest of the day.  Seemed to help in the short term.  Good luck.
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