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so i went to make a wu deposit tonight and i had already used my name a bunch this week so i used a distant friend who i had in my contact list on my phone as sender, well had a problem picking up money seems his name is common and somebody else with that name sent with same processor my book uses so money couldn't be picked up, they tried a second time to change the spelling and pick it up but i guess it raised red flags cuz message said call western union, i called them got transfered to fraud dept and they asked me all these quetions didn't like what i was saying and they canceled my transaction gave me control number for refund so now i got a control number for money to be pick up and it's in my distant friends name who lives far away and i can't get a hold of, how do i get my money back cuz i know the people at western union will ask for my id, this sucks so bad i dont' wanna call western union be like i made up a persons name as sender, does anybody have any good ideas