Posted: 10/14/2012 5:00:31 AM
Get excited about your gf, about your job, too. Get into it, even if you fake it at times. Stop trying to predict the future, like even abt your future w/ your gf, marriage, debt problems, all that is , is worry, and is downright stupid, and you aint stupid.
After a few months of work and saving, the money will come back. Every debt can get fixed. Just don't blow it on a huge bet on a bunch of behind clown athletes.
If you do get married, let your gf run the finances. Aint no shame in being clumsy or irresponsible with money. You surely got other qualities.Don't gamble what you cant afford to lose. Dont imagine yourself a high roller hotshot whose names written in lights.That's dangerous illusion.
When you get back on the rise, you'll start to feel better. Just don't blow it again, and forget the past. Past is an illusion. It's over. Laugh it off. Go to the bach or somethin with your gf.