Lou's view: What's with all the homophobia in the forums?

“Do you find it hard to hide the fact that you’re gay? Hey, I don’t have a problem with it. I don’t care if you putt from the rough.” --Matt Damon as Will in “Good Will Hunting.”

Over the past 30 days, there have been approximately 50 forum posts that included the word “faggot” somewhere in the thread.

What is it about homosexual males that makes so many of you uncomfortable?

I’m not even going to try to be politically correct here, because: a) I don’t know what is P.C. and what is not these days, and b) because I believe writing on a touchy subject requires more blunt honesty than political correctness.

So what is it about dudes who do dudes that bothers you? Is it the whole penis-butthole thing? Do your religious beliefs reject homosexuality? If so, were you one of the folks who drained their savings accounts in preparation for Saturday’s rapture?

Seriously, what is it?

For the record, I couldn’t care less who’s doing who. It’s just never bothered me. But judging by the forum posts, there are a lot of Covers.com members who still consider calling someone gay an insult.

Kobe Bryant, of course, called an NBA ref a “f---ing faggot” late in the regular season. He apologized, saying that we shouldn’t take his words literallyKobe Bryant calls ref a "fucking faggot" and that his language didn’t reflect his feelings about the gay and lesbian community. He man-hugged some gay guys, got fined $100K and the drama quickly subsided, along with the Lakers’ season.

Bulls' forward Joakim Noah followed Kobe's lead in Sunday night's Game 3 of the Eastern Conference Playoffs.

I wonder if a player would be afforded the same understanding if he let a racial slur slip. It seems doubtful, because evidently being a homophobe is much more acceptable than being a racist. There were only 10 forum posts in the last 30 days that included the word “ni**er.”

Last week, Phoenix Suns President and CEO Rick Welts and former Villanova men’s basketball player Will Sheridan announced publicly that they were gay. Welts came out in a New York Times article; Sheridan in an ESPN article.

Welts told the Washington Post that the reception has been overwhelmingly positive, which is certainly a good sign. Still, the fact that sports figures feel obligated to publicly announce their sexuality shows we have a ways to go – especially with the 25 to 35-year-old male demographic, which is large part of the Covers audience.

I remind you that as we make our push for the legalization and acceptance of sports betting, we need to present our community as intelligent and respectful and certainly not full of homophobes and racists.

Black Friday Update: Nevada passed a fundamental online poker bill last week, but we’re nowhere close to being able to play as easily as we had before Black Friday.

The bill simply instructs Nevada regulators to have a plan ready if the U.S. federal government legalizes online gambling. The goal is to have the plan ready is 2012.

Lou’s Leans: I was feeling good about my pre-playoff pick of a Thunder-Heat Finals. But after watching Dallas’ win in Saturday’s Game 3, it’s pretty easy to see the Mavericks are the superior team.

The 93-87 score is in no way indicative of what went on in that game – Dallas dominated, even with Dirk Nowitzki having a subpar game.

Thunder point guard Russell Westbrook continues to make ridiculously bad plays. He’s averaging five turnovers per game, with each one looking worse and worse. Yet, he played 42 minutes Saturday. He played 28 in Game 2, and the Thunder won.

I always hate when analysts say, “Well, I picked them to be in the Finals before the playoffs, so I’m going to stick with my prediction.’

I’m not afraid to change. Give me the Mavs and Heat in the Finals at +150 at Sportsbetting.com.

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Posted by jmilrod
10 months ago

http://youtu.be/HHa9rjQUDq4
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Posted by twodigitz
2 years ago

Gays are like bitches, they whine and complain, cause drama and are attention whores that is why we(non gays) call gays f*ggits. GAYS act like fags and if you walk talk and act like a fag in my world you're a fag. You're not a man, nor you're not a female, just a fag. It's also just another word get over it FAGS. The world has bigger problems then you gays trying to get married. Is your love for your fellow partner so shallow you need a wedding to make it real or something? What gays need to do is gather up all the gays and move to an island like the herpes island and do whatever the HELL you want and you can bring all the gay supporters with you while your at it! Maybe then society can get something important done.
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Posted by OnlyGod
2 years ago

I don't know I think I have a problem like a phobia of some kind.
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Posted by oiupdfs
2 years ago

I'm fine with gay guys. It's less competition for me.
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Posted by SirBruce
2 years ago

Guys should be allowed to vent. If your quarterback throws a pick and costs you big, then you should be allowed to call him whatever you think is the worst word without worrying that covers is gonna ban you. As far as I know, this is a big boy's site and not designed for the faint of heart. Words are just that.... WORDS!!! To be offended by words that aren't even directed at you is ludicrous. I wish Covers would get out of this censorship game.... rant over
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Posted by SnotBoogy
2 years ago

can we call the fbi and justice department those words?
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Posted by Slovak
2 years ago

ok "fa**ot" is out of the way, so what is wrong with "c*nt"? why can we call guys a dick, but not a c*nt?
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Posted by RichardA
2 years ago

tikitom hits the nail square on the head once again.....thank you for that! yes, yes, yes!
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Posted by jflydaddy
2 years ago

actually there r more then 2 genders i have a family member who was born intersexed literally, not someone who was born a man and thinks there a girl i mean both, they wnet female, now on the gays , i disagree with there lifestyle and i think they should keep it too themselves i really don't care, but now there trying too run this country and won't keep there mouths shut, as someone who has been a pro athlete and spent lots of times in locker rooms thats just the language athletes lose ruff like fag,pussy,bitch, cocksucker , i really don't agree with that language by i myslef at times of anger find myself cursing too, athletes don't really respect gay people they generally don't like them thats just they way it is, me personally if your gay it's none pf my biz stay in the closet .
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Posted by squinta1
2 years ago

I got boxed for using a word that you used here, in the privacy of a thread, and in no context whatsoever. Your putting it out there with intentions of many to read. I was told the use, in ANY context, is not allowed. Where's the consistency?
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Posted by tikitom
2 years ago

You are being politically correct by using the term "homophobic". It is a term created by the PC crowd that is meant to imply that anyone who makes fun of homosexuals or homosexual behavior is "afraid" that they are themselves homosexual. I think a more logical explanation might be that it is the ultimate insult to a heterosexual man. Homosexual acts are impossible for heterosexual men to fathom - they are repulsive to most and in an odd way tragically funny to many. Lastly, most of us would not be afraid to say that someone "throws like a girl". If you know what that means you are lieing if you cannot descibe what "running like a f__" or "jumping like a qu___" is meant to imply. A homosexual "slur" is therefore a logical way for an angry fan or gambler to describe an atheletic performance that they do not find up to snuff. It is also a very powerful insult to use on someone they are very angry with. I am not in the habit of using the terms myself but I do laugh at gay jokes - please tell me you left the theater during The Hangover when the "paging Dr. Fa___" scene came on - and sometimes, on the golf course, use these terms to describe my weakest efforts.
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Posted by Dogjimbo
2 years ago

Let us all turn gay...never reproduce...That is what we should do. DuMasses
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Posted by the-profit
2 years ago

I remind you that as we make our push for the legalization and acceptance of sports betting, we need to present our community as intelligent and respectful and certainly not full of homophobes and racists. That is the funniest part of this article. You know as well as anyone its all about money. Gamblers could be primarily Nazis and it wouldn't change our plight.
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Posted by mrbigstuff2466
2 years ago

I always like to say that there are only 2 genders males and females. You dont choose your gender you are born that way. Consequently, why is it important for me to acknowledge someone who tries to divide the equation further?.....I treat all humans as humans as best as l can. For that reason it is not important to know what someones sexual preference is unless l am looking to mate with them. Inversely, why would someone let me know their sexual preference unless a) I am coming on to them or b) they are coming on to me. That is why there is no place for homosexuals in the locker room ...Because the locker room is not a place for sexuality its a place for athletes.
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Posted by alling
2 years ago

cant say the n word, the f word, the r word. mommy mommy he called me a name.
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Posted by bsandersss
2 years ago

You can't possibly compare any one-word insult to the n word. The N word is by far the most vile word in the english language. Personally, I'm a pro-gay person. I'm all for gay rights. I think the fact that gays can't get married in so many states is hogwash. You don't choose to be gay. It's a born-into thing. That doesn't mean I don't use the f----- a lot behind closed doors, though. It's just a natural word that comes up when you think someone does something stupid. It's not something that should be said in public, but I think it's funny how big this Kobe story was. That word is used ALL the time by these guys. They aren't trying to insult the gay community. It's just the way a lot of guys talk. I know that sounds messed up, but it's true.
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Posted by SarahJPhilli
2 years ago

Great post. Noah and Kobe should really be made to do those ThinkB4YouSpeak.com commercials as part of their community service for using those terms---not Grant Hill and Jared Dudley.
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Posted by diondublin
2 years ago

+150 Mavs/Heat final? In your dreams! As of now book mentioned quotes +100, Even Money!
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Posted by SirBruce
2 years ago

"Guys should be allowed to vent. If your quarterback throws a pick and costs you big, then you should be allowed to call him whatever you think is the worst word without worrying that covers is gonna ban you. As far as I know, this is a big boy's si..."